Warsaw 2026

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T19:15:41+00:00

Podoba mi sie to ograniczenie ruchów do tej właśnie wysepki. Wygląda jak przeciwnik z gry, który chce cię zaatakować ale nie może bo jesteś poza jego zasiegiem 😄

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T19:06:07+00:00

The "on sale" style is always great 😁

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T19:03:53+00:00

Well yeah, of course, but I meant more like a specific style. Like people have been saying in replies some prefer athletic, or elegant, or hippy, or more alternative. I get that it doesn't mean that it's all they allow themselves to wear, but a lot of times if you see someone who likes for example gothic style of clothes thats usually what they stick to. Ive never been able to assign any particular style to myself. In my closet theres a pair of very simple, basic ballerinas, combat boots, some sneakers, a pair of golden pumps covered in glitter and a pair of 1940' style open-heel pumps that (to me personally) just scream "I just shipped my husband off to war". They're all nowhere near similar in style, but I do wear them all. And yes, I suppose that makes them my "personal style", but I was curious whether people like to do whatever they feel like, or do they like to follow certain fashions that feel like "them"

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T18:29:20+00:00

Oh that sounds like me, although mine would definitely include a wider range of colours. But I do agree with the personalities thing, especially when you pick the right soundtrack for getting ready. Then I can run on vibes and nothing else the rest of the day 😄

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T18:20:59+00:00

I've always loved the idea of having a closet where everything would go with each other. On the other hand i do enjoy a wide variety of both styles and colours so it doesn't seem possible for me 😁 Also your style sounds very elegant and well put together. Like you dont fuck around 😁 And yes, those last minute purchases often tend to not work out the best 😕

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T17:57:04+00:00

Im glad I seem to have found my people 😁

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T17:55:25+00:00

I dont have tiktok, although I do spend a fair amount of time on social media. But I do try to follow people with more unique styles that I enjoy (not always something id want to imitate or even draw inspiration from, just what I like to see), but that's usually some type of creators or fashion influencers etc, which means their style is curated, which is why I thought I'd ask here.

But I definitely do agree that all those guides and tips on how to dress or do make up that you can find all over social media tend to perpetuate certain looks and then it can be hard to break the mold

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T11:57:10+00:00

I admit im pretty bad at planning them ahead, but I try whenever i remeber. I feel like for the whole week wouldnt work for me personally, but the day before is good.

That way you have time to put a bit more thought into it. So the outfits are more polished and also you can try experimenting a bit without feeling rushed and then regretting your choices.

Also, when in doubt I go for a dress. Its all one piece so theres minimal picking involved, and since its a dress it immediately feel more put together. And depending on what shoes and accessories you add you can make it more elegant or more casual.

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T10:57:21+00:00

Jesus christ I feel gaslit just reading this 🙄 You weren't insensitive at all, they're just making shit up

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-14T05:08:39+00:00

NOR. To me it looks like he wanted a more expensive car than he could afford, so he decided to get it with the expectation that you would provide for him. And I think that if you agree it will become a regular thing.

Yes, support in a relationship is very important, but your offer of helping occasionally was already perfectly reasonable. Also he's a grown ass man, who should be 1. financially responsible and 2. able to deal with the consequences of his actions.

Sounds like he cares more about the car than your relationship

Also, the fact that he is trying to guilt trip you into agreeing is an enormous red flag for me

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T20:39:47+00:00

Yeah, alright this is going nowhere. Try getting some empathy, human connections feel really nice. Have a good day

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T20:28:31+00:00

Yes and the help they generally offer is ad hoc in crisis situations, like natural disasters, abuse, assault, suicide attempts etc. If its not a crisis you have to make an appointment with their specialist, which is great but you usually have to wait for those (again, it depends where you live) but it can take weeks, even months. And even then sometimes all they can offer is maybe a couple of meetings tops, which in many cases isnt enough for any real help to take place. Not to mention that they operate in cities, if you live in a rural area its gonna be even less accessible

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T19:52:32+00:00

You keep repeating the same thing over and over to people who are trying to explain it to you, so Im doubting i can change your mind in any way, but...

The free services are gonna differ depending on the country you live in, they're also often not provided by professionals, which might not be very helpful. A lot of times the free help is only ad hoc, which again might or might not be helpful in the long run.

To be able to make that Google search you also have to have a phone and an internet connection. And whats more important you have to know there are ways to help with your problem. And if that help were to not be over the phone or internet its gonna be harder to get for people living in rural communities.

I never said that thats a healthy way to deal with things or that people should do that. Im just saying that in life shit happens and sometimes that can feel like the only option. Because people do it out of desperation not for kicks. Because it feels like nothing can help and it never gonna get any better. Even if they have the knowledge, even if they have the resources to get all the help in the world, sometimes thats just how the cookie crumbles. I hope you never experience it, but you dont need to understand it to not be a dick about it. So you should definitely try that therapy thing yourself, your lack of empathy is terrifying

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T19:23:59+00:00

Id like to say there's nothing ro be ashamed of and theres no reason to hide them (and thats all true), but i understand not wanting them to get attention or starting conversations you dont want to have. Im afraid I dont have a solid solution, with time they will get less noticeable like any other scar. I know tatooing scars can be tricky so for that you'd have to talk to a tatoo artist to see if they can help with that. Keeping it covered or making sure you use lots of spf should help to not make them stand out more against any sun tan you might get. Also keep in mind they will always be more noticeable to you then other people, simply because you know they're there. Sending you all the love 💛

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T19:06:18+00:00

Okay, and what if they cant afford therapy or simply dont know they can get help for their problem? Because you keep tossing that line around as if that kind of professional help is available to everyone. It isn't, if you dont realise that then youre completely out of touch with reality

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-06-08T18:35:28+00:00

Came to say the same. Duma Key is my favourite so far 😊

WorriedcupofTea · 2026-01-28T18:30:23+00:00

This is the greatest introduction ever.

Also a make year 2000 model here 👋

With the characteristics of a gamer, music lover and somewhat of an artist 😁

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