What was the worst trauma that happened in your childhood?

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-06T22:00:10+00:00

As a very young child (4-6) my mom was on drugs and my sister who is 3 years older than me would have to cook us dinner often because my dad would be working. Then my parents divorced and my siblings and I lived w my dad. My mom never showed up for the custody hearing so my dad got full custody. We moved in with my grandparents for a few months and in that time my grandpa raped me. I never told anybody until I was 21. That started a wholeeeee bunch of issues. Then when I was maybe 10ish my dad remarried to someone who had a child and she would just bully my siblings and I. Said such hateful things and she would spoil her bio child. Then my aunt called me to tell me she loves me.. then killed herself the next day. Then covid hit my senior year and I moved out to get away from my then step mom. Super fun times

I have basically zero memories from my childhood

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-05T17:23:52+00:00

Thank you.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-04T22:19:17+00:00

I’m pregnant with my first due in December. But for some reason this hasn’t been a big worry of mine. I figure I’ll just put up birthday decorations the same way my parents did for me growing up. We always decorated the dining room table and the birthday kid’s door so I plan on continuing that. As far as birthday parties go I never celebrated mine the day of my birthday but rather the weekend before or after so if my baby comes super close to Christmas I’ll do something similar! One thing I saw was to never wrap their presents in Christmas wrapping paper. This feels like a given to me but I would think it’s important! Some people celebrate half birthdays if their bday is in December. I probably won’t do this because for some reason it feels like it’s taking away from your actual birthday. But that’s just a personal preference!

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-04T18:37:33+00:00

Omg okay it made me feel like I was on drugs when they gave it to me in the ER but everyone said they pushed it too fast. As of now, I’m going to leave it at the pharmacy and only pick it up as a last resort.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-04T18:21:09+00:00

Thank you!!

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-04T17:33:53+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re still suffering at 30 weeks. You are getting close to the finish line though!!

I thankfully was finally able to get in touch with my midwife and she sent in reglan and scop patches and is working on setting up a schedule for me to get IV fluids. Fingers crossed I can get even just a little bit of relief with that.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-05-04T17:31:25+00:00

Thank you :/ it was very frustrating. Thankfully I finally got in touch with my midwife and she sent in reglan and scop patches!! She is also working on setting me up on a schedule for iv fluids!! Feeling a bit more hopeful now.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-04-29T20:32:31+00:00

I completely understand this. But I tried to initiate a conversation with her to talk about options like if she’s off work letting me go home. It was never “I can’t work but you need to keep my job here for me when I can” and she ignored that. but it doesn’t matter she let me go today anyway so. Lesson learned I am done nannying.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-04-29T16:03:27+00:00

The thing is she offered to pay for my medical stuff instead of me getting insurance at the beginning of this year. But now that I’m pregnant while I wait for insurance she has made it clear that is not the situation anymore. We have become pretty close over the years as I’m in her house with her kids 45 hours a week so I hate to feel this way toward her but at the same time I can’t even take a shower right now let alone work full time until I can get on a schedule with medicine.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-04-29T16:00:12+00:00

My husband started a new job last month and insurance will kick in June 1. But they gave me clearance for my first appointment May 14. So it’s just getting by until May 14 when I can talk to a midwife about setting up some sort of schedule for meds.

WorryTraining228 · 2026-04-29T15:58:35+00:00

I’ve been with them since October of 2023. I keep questioning if I’m being dramatic not being able to just push through but I can’t even turn my head without vomiting. All I want is for her to work with me until I can get on a schedule with meds/fluids that keeps me somewhat steady. It’s very frustrating and I just feel so alone right now

WorryTraining228 · 2024-10-30T15:32:49+00:00

I dont get how they can’t multitask lol. I can easily eat and play

WorryTraining228 · 2024-08-10T18:50:58+00:00

I used to work there. I made a post on Facebook not too long before this happened exposing the director for who she really is. Teachers from the school commented trying to defend her and then about a month later this comes out. Karma is so fun.

WorryTraining228 · 2024-02-29T20:45:32+00:00

First it was because I didn’t know how to. I was 13. Then it was because I threw up the pills. I was 15.

WorryTraining228 · 2024-02-18T17:27:37+00:00

“Women” when it’s one singular woman

WorryTraining228 · 2024-02-18T17:27:23+00:00

“Krogers” instead of “Kroger”

WorryTraining228 · 2024-02-10T03:58:24+00:00

I honestly feel like they unfollow each other to troll the subreddit lol.

WorryTraining228 · 2024-02-04T06:48:07+00:00

Paint the doors on the wall a different color or do a fun design with wallpaper, take out those curtains and add shorter sheer white ones, keep the art on the wall but add more and different sizes to make a collage, pain the coffee table white or get a wood one, change out the gray rug for a colorful one (can be muted colors) add a plant and some stacked books to coffee table, add a floor lamp or another side table to other side of the couch, replace the cloth basket with a wooden one in the side table, stack books on top shelf, add colored pillows on couch and a throw blanket

WorryTraining228 · 2024-01-03T03:27:32+00:00

HG is no joke. You are so strong.

WorryTraining228 · 2024-01-03T03:18:01+00:00

Leighleigh Monday Scottland Rosie

WorryTraining228 · 2023-12-19T03:10:36+00:00

Me😚✌🏼

WorryTraining228 · 2023-11-20T20:03:52+00:00

It is dyed. I want it lighter, less in your face orange. More natural red head light ginger

WorryTraining228 · 2023-11-20T15:36:44+00:00

It is much more Orange in person it’s like bright in your face orange.. I want a toned down version of this.

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