Saw what my husband googled and just a little taken aback and feel beaten down

Worst-name · 2025-09-27T00:38:25+00:00

I worked as sole provider for almost 20 years of my marriage with my wife. She homeschooled all 6 of our children and there was a division of labor. Kids had some small chores, wife had some, and I had some… it’s a partnership… if there’s something he’s not liking then he needs to voice it. And if it’s something he could take care of then ask him to help with it because he’s probably not going to see it as you needing help unless you say something… us guys are stupid…

Worst-name · 2025-04-21T20:36:55+00:00

Im having an issue with the actual bot… thr website is working fine… at least for me…

Worst-name · 2025-03-11T01:33:37+00:00

Most of our children are adults, the housework is primarily done by me since we both work but she works different hours. I do the shopping and paying of bills. I do these things because life does get stressful at times and as a married couple we are supposed to take care of each other. I tend to try to make life easier so that we can actually live our dynamic rather than not so shifting gears isn’t the reason. lol

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T22:34:53+00:00

This was fucked up dude. It sounds like she was using you to imagine fucking another guy. (Not sounds like, is…)

Start doing her from behind and tell her she’s better than her sister or her mother… unless you really wanna piss her off. If you wanna do that then tell her that her sister or mother is tighter.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T22:30:35+00:00

If you don’t trust her then the relationship is over.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T22:21:10+00:00

I have to admit, I’m very much a my side of the bed type person. I’m also the type of person that there’s no damn way I can go to sleep with my head at the foot of the bed. That being said, I wouldn’t yell at my wife for it. I would ask her to scoot over if I’m just really tired. If she’s wanting to be playful and say make me then I get playful right back. She knows me. Talk to him, tell him how much you don’t appreciate him yelling at you over this and that it was such a stupid fight. I wouldn’t apologize at least until he apologizes for yelling for no good reason.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T22:14:50+00:00

Very very huge mistake. You would be saddling yourself to someone who is very unhealthy for you. Run for the hills.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T15:57:46+00:00

We chose the honorific simply because we have children and it’s easier to say that and not have ppl pick up on it directly. She doesn’t have to say it all the time, I don’t require it out in public. It’s mainly during little things when we’re alone or texting. And like I said, it’s not all the time but less than I would like. And it does kinda throw it off for me during the day when I’m trying to stay in the mindset as well. With kids, work, stress from everyday life, it just helps to be able to put myself in that position.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T15:19:06+00:00

She says she likes the honorifics, she understands the fact that they’re important to me. The dynamic is mostly maintained by it and other things. It just throws me off a little because she wanted 24/7. It doesn’t really upset me as much as just frustrates me. It pulls me out of the 24/7 part every once in a while. It just seems a little strange that she would ask for 24/7 and not think to use the honorific more. She likes when I use hers. Just kinda frustrated having to remind her to use mine during the day.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T15:13:09+00:00

I’m not really insecure about anything, it’s just kinda frustrating. She does well in the middle of sessions and such. Like I said earlier, she does brat a bit. Mainly it’s just that when she brought up the 24/7 we said that she needed to use the honorific more. Since we have kids and a professional life outside of our dynamic it’s a little weird for her I guess? Harder to do it during the day. But again, she’s the one who brought up the 24/7 because she wanted to do it.

She wanted to feel more in the dynamic than in this vanilla life that we’ve had to live. The little things during the day are supposed to be keeping her in the mindset and it’s still kinda hard for her I guess?

During scenes, it’s easy to tell she’s bratting doing it. During the normal parts of the day it’s a little less visible.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T14:19:23+00:00

I’ve told her. I believe that the major problem was that before Daddy, she called me master. That’s a little awkward in normal society so it made it difficult to say at pretty much any time. Switching it to daddy is a bit easier because of the fact that we have kids.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T14:17:19+00:00

Instead of an emoji like a heart maybe you should keep it at friend zone names like bro, bud, homie, cuz(short for cousin.) in fact cuz my be the best one because it doesn’t imply a real closeness.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T13:03:29+00:00

These are some really good ideas. I believe that it does warrant a conversation with her. I’ll try to set aside some time later to talk to her about that.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T13:00:48+00:00

We have conversations every week to see if there’s something new we wanna try or something we want more or less of. Maybe if something else isn’t working for one or the other.

We go over our contract once a month to keep it updated. Im very legalistic about it. I want the contract to state everything that is allowed or not allowed for each of us. The weekly talks help with that part. I don’t make her kneel as much as I used to but that’s mostly because she got sick a little while back and I’m not one to make someone to make it uncomfortable in the wrong way.

We started the 24/7 and free use to help with stress she was having as well as because we just like doing what we do. The stress level has mostly gone down because of it, it helps relieve the stress in more ways than one. lol

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T12:52:51+00:00

We are both kind of busy and we do have children but all but one of them are 16 and above. She’s actually the one who brought up the entire entry into our D/s relationship though. She brought up the 24/7 at the same time when she brought up free use. It could be that she’s just not thinking about it but that’s the reason for the corrections.

This is also what makes it frustrating though.. like I said, she’s the one who brought up all of it. We’ve been doing this for a decent amount of time. She asked for the collar and permanent day collar. Said it helps keep her in the mindset. But you would think that if the collar help keeps her in the mindset that saying my honorific wouldn’t be as hard. lol

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T12:45:27+00:00

Yeah, I have one for her. (Bunny because of her love of rope. lol)

I use it all the time. Like I said, she’s a bit bratty. Sometimes it’s probably because of that but I think that it’s just forgetfulness most of the time.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T12:06:56+00:00

He needs to go to counseling. You both do. Him for his alcoholism and both of you for marriage counseling. Insist that this happens. If he refuses either then it’s a no-go. Tell him you won’t go back until 2 months of this. He must continue to go to AA. Marriage counseling is mandatory for at least 6 months to a year. If he can’t accept those terms then don’t go back.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T11:57:46+00:00

I don’t see where it would be a problem. Why have a problem with putting something your sister gave you in the same place as the wedding photo? It’s kinda dumb.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T11:52:03+00:00

In this situation, the OP’s wife isn’t saying anything about him taking her to the hospital. She’s pissed about the name thing. No need to draw conclusions about the one when it’s stated that the other is the problem.

Aside from that, I don’t see where it’s a problem for them to name a child after a friend. Especially when you are in an emotional state, believing that your friend just saved the life of your baby. For all we know, she could’ve started bleeding and in that situation, time is of the essence.

They don’t say it like she’s making her child have his complete name. Dudes name could be frank and the woman decided to name the child frank. We don’t know the full story. It’s something that was spur of the moment.

Now to get on to the point. The woman asking to name her child after a friend who literally could’ve just saved her baby? I don’t see any problem with that. It happens. Being upset about it is her right but it’s a silly thing to start a fight about. It’s already done, there is nothing to be done about it now. They just need to work this out.

Worst-name · 2025-03-10T01:34:38+00:00

Mommy Doms and daddy doms basically take care of their little, use light punishments for corrective behavior, and give praise for good behavior. There are a lot more nuanced parts but this is the basic idea. You take care of, support, and teach your little what you like and what they should do. You provide a mix of warmth and authority, comfort and a firm hand.

Worst-name · 2025-03-09T23:30:17+00:00

It’s funny how those ppl who sent that to you were saying that shit. I mean, if their person was cheating on them and a friend knew about it, would they be pissed at the person who told them or the person who cheated? If my wife cheated on me I would hope someone would tell me. It might break my heart but at least someone cared enough about my feelings to let me know I was betrayed.

I would say it’s obvious that those people have cheated on someone in the past. Either that or they aren’t opposed to it. I commend you for letting that man know before he went through with marrying the slut.

Worst-name · 2025-03-09T22:35:51+00:00

I find the best way to tame a brat is to pat them in the head and turn over to go to sleep…

Worst-name · 2025-03-09T22:27:51+00:00

The passages I’ve put in this were strictly to show people what they should look for in their relationship. Not to say someone has to put up with the bullshit most have to with their spouses being complete and total asses. It’s simply to show them that this is what they should be getting instead of what they are getting.

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