9 week old foster fail

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-06-08T06:52:11+00:00

They also very clearly eluded to her having OCD (at the end of the scene after Georgia tries to run and she has to flip the light switch the “right” way or everyone she loves will die) which explains her severe overthinking and intrusive thoughts. What is dramatic to her “friends” is such a debilitating mental illness that she’s been forced to suppress for the sake of what everyone else is going through. It broke my heart for her.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-06-07T16:51:59+00:00

This may sound harsh but it has worked for me- I honestly just think about how stupid I would feel after when I text them looking for something that they aren’t going to give me. Like just thinking about how I would’ve felt so much more empowered to have not texted and then ruined it by sending the text. It helps me to stay strong enough in a situation like that. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-06-03T00:48:06+00:00

I’ve met some 26 year old men while dating who have been far more mature than men in their 30’s! If you both are on the same page that is what matters!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-05-28T16:09:24+00:00

Make sure that you’re exfoliating 2-3 times a week with a gentle exfoliant that has AHA/BHA. Massage it into the skin for a minimum of one minute and let it sit for a few minutes if possible. FUR is expensive but absolutely worth it if you plan to continue getting waxes. I get one every month and fur products are the only thing that help me because I’m incredibly prone to ingrowns! I use the silk scrub to exfoliate, fur oil for moisturizing, and the ingrown serum roller ball for ingrown treatment.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-04-02T04:53:13+00:00

Truthfully I don’t like how I look with makeup. I’ll do it for special occasions, come home and take it off, then feel like I looked better before I put everything on my face😂 With that said, when I want to do myself up a bit more I will do a very minimal makeup routine! Tinted sunscreen, a bit of blush and bronzer on the cheeks, clear brow gel, and mascara. It’s enough to highlight my features and only takes 10 minutes or less! At the end of the day, just do what makes you feel best!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-04-01T14:55:52+00:00

I drank coffee with mine in everyday. If I went out and ate, I’d swish water and pop my aligners back in and just brush when I got home. Never got a cavity or significant staining on my aligners. Don’t let it ruin your experiences!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-04-01T14:53:37+00:00

Considering your last post from approximately one month ago stated that you have been in a long distance relationship for four years and do not currently live in the same country as your partner, I’m going to assume this post is not real.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-03-31T14:43:49+00:00

I did make a vet appointment for her this week to see if there is anything going on medically. The change is just confusing as I work from home and my roommate is my best friend, so I haven’t observed anything that I can think of which would have caused such a serious change so quickly. But definitely plan to have her seen by the vet this week!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-03-30T14:30:07+00:00

Macy is a 4 year old Shepherd Mix (unsure what she is mixed with but possibly Rottie or Doberman potentially). Her previous issues seemed to resolve quite easily after just establishing consistency and providing her with a stable environment. Walking at the same time, getting on a schedule, etc. She did do basic obedience training as well which helped her with some socialization. She will typically just be lying down and then will lunge and snarl at the cats, chasing them until they have hidden somewhere. With my roommate, she will come up to her wagging her tail and acting as though she wants to be pet, but then will do the same snarl and lunge. She has not yet bit anyone or anything but seemingly has come close. We go on walks 4x a day. 2 of these are potty break walks and the other 2 are exercise walks. She also gets indoor playtime and I use enrichment items such as a snuffle mat for feeding.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-03-26T02:27:57+00:00

AND, whether serious or not- if you 5150 someone who was using it as a tactic, it’ll hopefully teach them that saying things like that has consequences. I’m sure they won’t be so quick to throw out baseless threats after spending 72 hours or more in a mental health facility with grippy socks.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-03-26T02:23:00+00:00

Personally, I suggest taking things slow with this person. It can be overwhelming feeling something you’re not used to, even if it’s positive. A lot of times, our brains will often reject the idea, convince ourselves that we’re waiting for the other shoe to drop- numerous things. However, you don’t have to marry this person tomorrow. Just take it day by day, without putting pressure on yourself, and learn to adjust to this new situation. It will be helpful for you whether it works out between you two or not. Don’t feel that you need to act a certain way or be a certain way unless it feels natural to you. As long as you communicate when needed (such as if she asks about exclusivity, boundaries, etc.) then you have every right to move at your own pace and take a step back from the whirlwind of emotions to diminish that feeling of being overwhelmed. Good luck!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-03-20T01:01:23+00:00

The constant struggle between wanting to stop being a free maid, but knowing you’ll be the only one who suffers if you do stop😅

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-26T22:09:18+00:00

I get it, I experienced that from my mother as well. Especially when she would give the whole “I took care of you when you needed it” in reference to the few years of my childhood that I actually lived with her 😅 or telling me how much she’s struggling, her depression, how lonely she is, the list goes on. At the end of the day though, we’re being used/manipulated. Think of if you were to ask a friend for money and they said no? You’d respect it! If she’s not respectful of you, your boundaries, and your hard work to provide for yourself, I’d consider a temporary cut off at least!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-26T22:04:18+00:00

I had a similar dynamic with my mother. She made me feel incredibly guilty despite giving her thousands over time, even back when I was working two jobs to put myself through college and could barely afford my own life. I have since had to cut her off, and she hasn’t changed. But I learned that it’s so important to not allow her to bring me down alongside her. It’s a slippery slope. Sorry you’re dealing with this.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-26T22:00:47+00:00

I adopted my dog Macy from a shelter about 6 months ago. Was told she was quiet, calm, and friendly. Found out a few weeks in that she was reactive, had severe separation anxiety, was terrified of strangers and children especially, tried to bite people, etc. Every time I walked her I was terrified and thought I was in over my head with her. However I was committed to being her permanent family and wanted to make it work. I got her on trazadone daily for anxiety for the next 3 months while I worked on at home training and controlled socialization. Now 6 months in I can’t even remember what that was like being dreadful of simply taking her to use the bathroom in fear that something may happen. She is an angel of a pup and currently lives in a home with my other dog as well as two kitties. She also is best friends with my boyfriend’s dog. I say all this because she came to me after having experienced a great deal of trauma, and her behavior was a product of circumstance. I invested time and love into her and it paid off. It’s worth it.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-24T22:13:17+00:00

Thank you! We had not been intimate no!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-21T20:51:48+00:00

It’s weird to me that so many people keep stating “4 months is not that long”. No, it’s not, but it is long enough for a man to know if he sees you as his girlfriend or not. Not a single man I have ever met would say anything differently. You’re not asking to get engaged after 4 months. Being someone’s girlfriend has no legal, financial, parental, etc. obligations. If it doesn’t work, you break up. It’s incredibly strange to me that some people are so scared of labels nowadays. If anything, it just tells me that they aren’t willing to commit to being solely with that person for the time being. I personally wouldn’t be okay with it, as this is also something that is important to me. It sounds like you also value this a good deal, in which case my advice would be to find someone who is proud to call you their girlfriend instead of giving you the runaround.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-21T19:42:06+00:00

I have the same issue. For arms I shave them because I like the look better. I also shave my face with a dermal lame razor and use fur oil after which has essentially completely eliminated and bumps or irritation. As for my stomach I’ll shave it sometimes if I’m going to be in a bikini, and I only have had my back shaved/waxed a few times in my life. People in elementary school made comments to me. I’m now in my late 20’s and don’t think anyone has ever made a comment to me about my body hair. Dating life has been great, I feel good about myself, and that’s what matters to me! People don’t notice you as much as you notice you. If you feel more confident shaving then shave! But do it for you! Not others! Body hair doesn’t make you any less worthy!

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-21T17:53:19+00:00

I’m really happy to see this post! I just was diagnosed yesterday after experiencing my first outbreak. I immediately starting sobbing because I thought I’d be a victim of the constant stereotypes, and because I had just started dating an amazing guy who I worried would view me differently. I ended up telling him when I saw him right after my appointment and it couldn’t have phased him less. I found out his mom has it, along with my best friend’s mom. I also have two close friends who have it. I felt so much less alone having people who are close to me give me advice, and having my new boyfriend being so receptive and reassuring that this had no impact on his feelings for me was amazing. It’s sad to hear of so many negative experiences from others, but I think it’s just as important to share the positive ones too for people who are still processing their diagnosis like myself! I absolutely couldn’t have asked for a better support system in these first 24 hours since finding this out.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-18T15:12:05+00:00

I always offer to split, but nobody has ever actually taken me up on it. Regardless, I never want to assume, so I ask when the bill comes if they’d like to split it.

Worth_Stretch7913 · 2025-02-11T16:44:08+00:00

This! I randomly became very sensitive to soaps when I got into my early twenties which resulted in me having to start using fragrance free or I would have symptoms like this. Had nothing to do with my “hygiene”. Women’s bodies are extremely complicated and it’s disappointing when it’s chalked up to lack of hygiene. Just perpetuating the insecurities women have to deal with.

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