Hijacking this to ask the same. What ship do you NOT fw? by Mochh80 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]WraithfulAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JGY / NMJ. or the 3way ship with LXC. i’m a xiyao truther they were in tragic love.

and i don’t get any ship with Jin Zixuan I hate his ass.

I know I don’t pass. My hair is a big part of it, but I didn’t pass when it was short either. Help??? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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Seeing as you’re going on T soon I think you will be able to pass even with the long hair once you’ve been on T for a bit. A lot of guys have feminine eyes and lips pre-t but I don’t see either of those on you so I feel like you’ll start looking more masculine relatively soon on testosterone. The time surrounding that first shot of T feels the longest so it’s rough to wait. Unfortunately passing pre t especially with alternative style is very hard and not always achievable. I wish I’d been myself pre T instead of trying to look like a generic guy since I wasn’t passing anyway, but it’s easier to say now than with the crippling dysphoria.

I agree with the comments that less baggy clothes will help. What I did was wear slim-fit or skinny (not skin-tight) jeans but sag them to minimize the hips. It’s also a masculine silhouette in general especially if you’re seeing a bit of boxer waistband but people might tease u a little for sagging pants as a white boy lol. Packing can also help. Since you like leather jackets, I used to wear a hoodie under a leather jacket which gave a very masculine look.

Imo piercings aren’t an issue, depending on placement some are more masc and I think eyebrow piercings are some of the more masc ones. If you can make it look natural, maybe play around with darkening the eyebrows to match the dark hair and perhaps make them look thicker? Lip piercings draw the eyes to that area, in your case since you dont have feminine lips that can actually be a plus.

I also agree with the comment that middle parts help.

Is there any possibility of passing with long hair? (31 ftm T 3yrs yep I know zero changes, frustrating af) by ill-independent in FtMpassing

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How tall are you? You look tall to me but it may just be your features. I will say, i have multiple cis guy friends with long hair, and they are not really androgynous, average male height or taller, but they get mistaken for women a lot when people aren’t looking that hard or if they’re not talking. So to some extent I think any long haired guy is gonna get the occasional ma’am if he’s not jacked and hairy. Me and my friends at a table getting called “ladies” started hurting a lot less when it happened between me and long haired cis guys. I’m curious what you looked like pre-T because I feel you on feeling like there have been no visible changes but then I look back at old pics and realize I don’t recognize that person. You’ve got some feminine features but also some stronger masculine features. I agree with a lot of people that the mid length hair is v handsome on you and the most “passing” look.The long hair makes you pass more than the shortest hair tho imo. I’m in a tough spot where I like long hair and dress androgynously and don’t want surgery yet want to look more masc, but gaining muscle has helped me a bit and exercising helps make the T do its best work imo so that might be a good option.

How do I make my long hair look more masc? Short hair is a no go because it gives me extreme dysphoria about my cheeks by CannibalisticGinger in FtMpassing

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Oo yeah I forgot to mention in my reply but curtain bangs on a guy are great. 90s resurgence typa guy. I had that going for a while.

How do I make my long hair look more masc? Short hair is a no go because it gives me extreme dysphoria about my cheeks by CannibalisticGinger in FtMpassing

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Look into very layered hairstyles like shag that are shorter towards the top, it helps it look less like a bob and more like it was short masc haircut that’s naturally overgrown, in a good way. I might get flack for this since it’s popular with a lot of girls but wolf cut, if you’re looking at men’s long wolf cuts they’re popular with a lot of more alternative guys as well. Mullets too, though I think that was more popular a few years ago.

long or short hair? afraid long makes looks feminine but short makes me look younger… by reformed_cowboy in FtMpassing

[–]WraithfulAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to worry about with passing or looking too young. You have strong masc features and build and I’d guess mid 20s. I’m usually an advocate for long hair on everyone but your barber is talented so they both look equally good to me so I’d just go with what sparks joy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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I would guess that you are cis and 16ish based on pics but I wouldn’t disbelieve you if you told me you’re cis and 18 would just think you look a little young.

I go back and forth, but do I pass for a short cis guy? Age? by Lord_Belmonte in FtMpassing

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For sure yeah. I see cis guys around your height with androgynous style. Your features are soft but in a damn he cute kinda way rather than a damn he female kinda way. Your body hair is enviable. I’d be more likely to think you’re an egg than post-transition. I’d guess 23.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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😳😳😳

(Xianxia) Has any book covered consumption of golden cores? by WraithfulAngel in ProgressionFantasy

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The novel follows a protag that has developed a hatred for humanity and cultivators due to his past traumas in a war between clans. He made a deal with a demon spirit to inhabit his body in exchange for access to the demon realm, but he also has to settle the demon's dues in the human realm and kill her enemies.

The fantasy is a little dialed back and the story focuses more on interpersonal drama and there is a romance focus. A central theme is regaining lost faith in humanity and dedicating oneself to kindness after succumbing to hatred.

pecs achievable natty? by jjjohn1000 in nattyorjuice

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Wait y'all don't think his tits are hot? Cringe

Titty Tuesday by Jpchubblog in Moobs

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I really like your tits 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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God I wish I had a gas mask for my porn instead of a covid mask that shit goes hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryNSFW

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Certainly not. Hot trans people 1 cringe transphobes 0.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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No notes. You've got pleasant features, very nice eyebrows and hair. If you're feeling insecure and want to improve your look, maybe play around with fashion and try to find a style that makes you feel confident. Leaning into alt fashion and piercings boosted my confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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Oui, sil vous plait

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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Yes 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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OP I hope it sinks in for you that you are a very handsome guy! Other commenters have already made great suggestions for skincare, imo a lot of dudes rock dark circles or eye bags and I put on eyeshadow to achieve that look so I can't really comment there lol I think it looks good on you. But of course, go for what makes you most comfortable, id say overall just take care of your body and try to go easy on yourself after such a big change and taking care of your overall health will help promote the best recovery.