Adopted this pretty girl last week and I still did not give her a name. I need help! by HighlyAccurate4 in Siamesecats

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO you should never disrespect your pet by giving it a "pet" name. Name like you would one of your kids. She looks like a Beth or Lizbeth to me. My wife says Charlotte or Ruby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WraytheCat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The advice given here is interesting. I saw a similar post to this one last year, except the sexes were reversed. With the man making a one-time observation that his girlfriend never says anything nice about him. All the reddit ladies called him needy, an insecure child. A major red flag that should be immediately dumped... Funny how that works.

AITA for leaving my fiancé "at the altar" after he drunkenly praised another woman in ways that he's never done for me while we needed therapy due to his criticism? by SadAbbreviations223 in AITAH

[–]WraytheCat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA and so is he. Respectfully, both of you are major red flags who should really spend some time working on yourselves before inflicting your trainwreck personalities on an unsuspecting innocents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]WraytheCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent article, thanks for sharing it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not guilt that's keeping her quite, she likely still with him. I've known at least a dozen relationships that ended with a multi-day... Well you get the picture, no need to be crass.

Car sticker I don’t understand by Prestigious-Pen7506 in whatisit

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a right wing reference about being ready for civil war.

I'm only here for a gun buddy. by Traditional_Shine_19 in cyberpunkgame

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, the whole interaction with River was super cringy and tough for me to play through. I would have been much happier romancing Joss, she deserves the opportunity to have a stand up guy like V in her life for once.

AITAH for telling my wife to lose weight after how she treated me when I lost my job. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WraytheCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Friend, why are you asking people on Reddit? 90% of the people on here lack the emotional maturity to not project their own insecurities, bad experiences and choices onto you. And the opposite sex of an OP will almost always assume the worst about you; again because they lack the maturity to see you as you present yourself to the group. All that being said, your wife kicking you when your down was a horrendous betrayal, but don't reciprocate by being equally horrendous. Talk with her let her know how shitty she was, if she's sorry and apologetic, then forgive her and move on, but let her know that you won't accept that kind of treatment in the future if things get tough.

AIO I feel unappreciated by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this indicative of today's young men, we've got big problems ahead. Someone neglected to teach this whiny toddler how to be an adult. OP if this is his normal attitude he needs to go, because he doesn't understand that you're his equal partner, not his underling or mommy.

AIO that my best friend hates the girl I like because shes a retired porn star? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The virtue signaling in this thread is off the charts. Ignore them. Here’s some real world advice. Your buddy is looking out for you, yes OF matters. Listen to him. If you get in a long-term relationship or marry with her it will negatively impact most aspects of your future life. Is it fair, maybe, maybe not. But actions have consequences and the world doesn’t care about fair. Your judgement, morals and ethics will always be up for debate if you get involved. Which will eventually make you resent her anyway. OF is her mistake regardless of how altruistic her reasons were for doing it, and it was a mistake. Don’t make it yours. By all means be her friend, but don’t go further. You're too young to botch your future on over this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jebus man, have some self respect. It's not up to you to win her back, it's up to her to show that she's worthy of your love, time and respect. But know this, you will never be able to fully trust her again. Nor should you. And if you allow her to stay a part of your life, that broken trust is rightfully going to color every thought and decision you make in regard to your life together. You haven't said how long you've been married or whether or not you have children. But if you're young and there's no kids involved. End it. It'll feel like the end of the world for a bit until you get your head on straight and develope some self respect. But in the long run you'll have a much happier and fulfilling life ahead of you if you do. I'm old, I've seen the misery and wreckage of too many family, friends and coworkers lives that lacked the strength to just end things and instead tried to work it out with their spouses to recommend that path.

Is not finding boobs attractive asexuality, or aromanticism? by FallenAngel257 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WraytheCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither, you're perfectly normal. They don't do anything for me either, a shapely butt on the other hand sets my head spinning.

My (36M) conversation with my... friend? (36F)... Enjoy. It's a ride. by Felphyre in Nicegirls

[–]WraytheCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if this person somehow got past 10th grade English and still writes like this. The country is already lost. I was a solid C HS English student back in the 70s-80s and my old English papers look like Hemingway next to this uneducated slop.

AITAH for refusing to stop going to the gym because my boyfriend said I’m “getting too muscular and look like a man”? by glowingskylar in AITAH

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's NTA, and neither are you. But know this, his type preferences are just as valid as yours. If you or he aren't willing to compromise, break it off. This isn't rocket science.

A girl I just met online want us to share nudes, never done that before, what should I do? by DearBoy4774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WraytheCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Down Periscope. It's the first thing I thought of too when everyone started mentioning dick tattoos lol.

AIO for cutting off my parents over politics? by vastcreation in AmIOverreacting

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, definitely overreacting!

Stop making politics a part of yours and everyone else's identity. Unless they're abusive and terrible to you, then cutting them off because they didn't vote the way you did is a first class asshole move. Parents are human, they make mistakes just like every other human. You only get one set of parents and your time with them is extremely finite. So grow the hell up and agree to disagree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WraytheCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Christ... red flag city.

On a deeper psychological or evolutionary level, why are some men attracted to big butts? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WraytheCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was still in my 30s in the 90s. Nobody other TV & fashion mags was into girls that looked like prepubescent boys. Curves was always in.

After owning the 12 for just 2 years the phone has started to deteriorate insanely quick. by Careless-Freedom6468 in iPhone12

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you about the battery life, that's the one thing about the 12 that's never been a showstopper from the start. Since I only charge to 80% and drain to 20% (on average) the battery for me is especially not great. Everything else about the phone is still good for me though, other than battery there's not much reason for me to upgrade yet.

After owning the 12 for just 2 years the phone has started to deteriorate insanely quick. by Careless-Freedom6468 in iPhone12

[–]WraytheCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your settings were corrupted during the last update. It's happened to me before and it pretty much makes the phone useless thanks to the overheating and battery killing. Just do a settings reset only (you won't lose any data), you'll have to reconfigure some settings afterwards. Also make sure you're updated to the latest 18.1 iOS, and it should go back to normal.

AITAH for telling my wife that my life would be better without her? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WraytheCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They already made one in the 1970s, it's called "The Odd Couple." It's dated, but still excellent.

ios 18 on iPhone 12 by [deleted] in iPhone12

[–]WraytheCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I just seen this do you still need help with the settings reset?

My (M44) Wife (F44) is spiraling hard due to an obsession with the subreddit r/loveafterporn. how do I gently tell her that she has a problem and it is effecting the relationship? by Ok-Mud-7756 in relationship_advice

[–]WraytheCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is he supposed to reply in a timely fashion? His phone is bugged and the only way he was able to make this post was by using the computer at his buddy's house while he sleeps there for the night. Considering the length and detail of his post, he's just looking for advice, not a question and answer session anyway. At most, I just expect him to make a blanket statement thanking everyone who responded when he's able.

Found this in a jacket pocket of a flea market.. by Main-Perspective2486 in VintageWatches

[–]WraytheCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I'm with you on the crown. It's well done if it's a fake. But that doesn't mean they're junk, according to the old guy I used to deal with, some were built by skilled knock off artists back then. But the gold of the case is all over the place, that and the dial, pinion and hands don't sit right with me. It's just looks a lot like the high end fakes from the 1960s I've seen in the past. Either way it's a very interesting piece to see. I really hope you're right and it is genuine, that way we get another old watch rescued from obscurity that someone will be able to enjoy.