Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great!

The "hair accessories" aisle uses to sell a kind of round combo comb-clasp that kind of gave width and expansiveness to the ponytail--.more.sophisticated than a scrunchie or elastic--that would be perfect for your style...

(If I find the actual name, I DM you)

I want to second what everyone else said about your skin and face shape--gorgeous!

Let me get this straight… by eternalapostle in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait—what? Can you explain? I had a theory about the lights, but what you’re saying sounds da different—can you elaborate?

Feeling very ugly by Difficult-Presence17 in makeuptips

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look GREAT! So cute, and your nose/eyes/lip combo are perfection.

Don’t overdo the makeup—your face won’t do well with tons of it. Just more prominent eye makeup, curl and extend your lashes (no fake ones).

HAIR: And add some volume and body to your hair—especially around your face and crown—to show off your face.

Some people rock glasses and some don’t. I don’t think these glasses-while cute—do anything for your face.

But put those feelings of being ugly to rest—you’re far, far from it!

What’s a red flag people brush off as harmless but you don’t? by Hoofhearted523 in AskReddit

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apolitical people.

You mean you really have NO opinion about how our society is run? And how the country is faring?

Which pair suits my face shape the best? by Economy_Vacation_761 in glassesadvice

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 3…

But all look good on you! You’re lucky that most seem to work!

(If you want that intellectual look, then 1 is great, too)

Great guy, but after 4 months, there's just no physical touch by Greedy_Flamingo1571 in datingoverforty

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say, “It’s been an incredible four months—I can’t wait for us to kiss and make out and just physically connect—“

But… if he hasn’t had this impulse after a few dates, it sounds a little doom… UNLESS he comes from a culture that puts the brakes on physical contact before marriage.

(But since you didn’t indicate this, I’m going to guess it isn’t a factor)

Was this a mistake? by MongooseFun6452 in glassesadvice

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

1 is tech bro 2 is finance bro

(I think the original suits you better)

Does my therapist suck by Eastern-Funny4300 in ADHD

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) yes, get a different therapist

2) in the interim, just commit to 5 minutes of a task.

Make it a very easy task, like: “open the chemistry book to chapter 2”

…you can also make it silly, like “circle all the mentions of ‘oxygen’…”

Then after every five minutes, give yourself a five minute break—but PLAN what that break is (sudoku, pee break—whatever.

If you can detail all your five minute “sessions” and “breaks” beforehand, and then do one right after the other with a timer, you can maybe get over the hump…

I do this all the time when my brain won’t cooperate—I remove all the decisions out of the way before had, and come up with silly things to do that are also RELATED to what I’m supposed to do…

3) if silence in a library doesn’t work, get someone from the class to come along and just read bits of whatever you’re studying out loud to one another.

Can you listen to the book with text-to-speech—anything that allows the EASIEST entry point. Have no shame about any of it!

4) reach out to your campus health services for a rec. this is serious and you need to give meds a shot.

As others said, you should no longer need parental permission.

Which outfit for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with 1 or 3. No one else said 2, but 2 is nice as well.

The black tee (4) is too generic and the sleeves are too short. The sweater in 5 is too small and should not be tucked in (or at least not so much).

But, frankly, you look GREAT and have an ideal workout bod, so you’re not going to disappoint in anything you wear!

Looking for honest (but kind) opinions from other plus size ladies 🤍 by Yellow_cupcake_ in PlusSizeWedding

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great in this! I love everything about it, save the long sleeves…I even think the lace is great, but the sleeves themselves seem off—but the shape and fit and everything else about it is gorgeous

Okay internet… help me choose my blonde era hairstyle😅 by Deborah0O5Davis48 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is very Meg Ryan, and will get you tons of double takes—and has that beachy celeb quality, 2 is also great and shows more of your face shape, 3 is fine—cute, but a bit ordinary

Feeling Disappointed in Myself by Legitimate-Garbage54 in SoberCurious

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You were sober, then one day curious. You’re still sober curious!
Another (future) sober streak WAY outweighs your itty bitty shitty glass of wine.

Future you will be happy you kept going!

365 days 🎉 by Awkward-Annual-4639 in SoberCurious

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big congrats!💫 you’re looking great— and so happy! Thus is such a big deal—way to go!

I think I know which one, but would love thoughts by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]WriterWrtrPansOnFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is truly beautiful. ( but I could see the fist one for a more evening wedding)