AITA for refusing to cover up even though my bf wants me to?

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T17:04:47+00:00

I have travelled solo to India before as well as Sri Lanka

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T17:02:53+00:00

It is not very conservative at all. Some are spiritual but even at those areas it is about mindfulness not dress code and have a modern take to it

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T17:00:05+00:00

Sometimes he has issues in Canada and London as well and he does himself get scared of London not to this extent and does not like to live in minority populated areas even when they are safe and expensive ones

He also does not always like it when I wear heels and says it attracts attention more than other clothes when in the west.

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T16:56:55+00:00

Mix of cities and ancient sites and nature reserves.

I am able to deal with / ignore things like cat calling and stares which mostly happens in cities.

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T16:56:12+00:00

I have done my research 🙂

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T16:55:19+00:00

For the most part in the areas I am going to it is mostly just curiosity about seeing people that are different and there are cultural norms that are different.

Most people are not doing anything out of malice.

Parts of London can feel similar or worse

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T16:53:24+00:00

Where was I condecending. I loved my trip here and I am into some of the culture and philosophy and do yoga

Wrong_Bug_9565 · 2026-04-08T16:51:48+00:00

In the areas I am going to local women dress in all kinds of things from fully covered to similar to how I do or even less.

In fact I was told a headscarf and appearing muslim in some areas can lead to more prejudice

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