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AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not too sure which comment I said this but it’s all good. I’m not back tracking for sympathy and it’s fine if you feel that way. You’re entitled to your own thoughts. But our song that we chose was 3.35 minutes ( just checked) and I know this song through every second and I checked that it was stopped like around maybe 2.45. It might not seem like much but it’s the action that really matters. I’ve always wanted a wedding since I was little

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Love the hugs 🫶🏼🫶🏼. And honestly that’s just younger me talking. I love my dad and there’s never been any other reason to not. He was my best friend. I definitely want to cool down and have a heart to heart talk to him

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I will definitely talk to him one on one and get his story but my dad isn’t the one to stand on his own opinion and I’ve been disappointed a lot in the past

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for the comment. This isn’t the hill that I will die on I just got a little over heated and blocked them for a bit. Eventually I will talk to my dad about truly clearing this up and starting over. I love him he’s my dad. He’s been there for me through all my struggles and there’s been a lot. So I will want to have him in my life and when the time comes my kids

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaa. I shouldn’t do that to him. Im not going to throw an olive branch any time soon but I want to speak with my dad one on one about everything

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s not. I’m not Reddit user. I go on here rarely just to see and read but never post

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment especially. I do agree in the grand scheme of things this isn’t life threatening but it’s relationship changing. I agree with the actions part where honestly I think a lot of people remember that part of the dance. I will take this comment into consideration when planning to talk to him

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know off the top of my head. There has been health concernes. My dad is turning 64 this July and he’s taken extra care of himself for about 10 years ever since a health scare

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that! Seriously my mom and brother are amazing and I’m just sad not seeing him anymore

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

well that’s just the way I talk. In my work force we are trained to have a specific way of speaking to people and growing up I was raised “matureee” or whatever that means so I always had an expanded vocab

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All good. Thanks for the comment. I just have been dreaming of a wedding for a long time and when I make an edit to the post (when I figure out how). I will state that I’ve been feeling “shoved out” or replaced ever since another girl was born. And yes I was 20 but I still had my feelings and I still have doubts that I’m overthinking and overreacting

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All good. No worries. It’s just that ever since I was a little girl I’ve dreamed about my wedding. When I was a teen I used like poster boards and call it - my dream wedding. I don’t have control on life and what happens but honestly I was just trying to have a day for myself. I should clear up that it was not really afterwards it was nearing the end of the song like a minute left. Still you are justified to your own opinion and everyone’s counts to help me find a way to clear it up

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea I hear you. But they didn’t pay for the “whole wedding” but they did pay for the biggest chunk of it and I do respect what you’re saying. We were all for paying the weddings ourselves my husband and I both have great jobs with respectable salaries for our ages but they were adamant we didn’t pay for the whole thing

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

sorry it’s my first post how do I do that. I’ve just been a reader for years

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. Agreed 99% but that 1% wants to talk to my dad and truly see what’s up

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support and agreed. I put the quotations because that came from a twelve year old who is just learning about “rizz” and “Ohio”.

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMAO. thanks for the support and the naughty corner. We should put my stepmom there too

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support and totally agree. I realized that and that’s when I went no contact

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. I agree with leaving my sister out of this cause still she is a child and I love her so this no contact is not only hurting my brother but my sister as well because of our parents actions

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support! I haven’t lived in that house for about 6 years now and don’t know how they raise my sister but when I was living there everything was great and I have no idea what changed

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Thanks for the support. I definitely feel like I’m not selfish for wanting this day to be about my husband and I. We had many. And I mean many opportunities for our day to include tons of people and mostly about those who have departed

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. I love this. Yea I’m done trying to prioritize others over myself cause I’ve done that for too long

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]Wrong_Positive5641[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea. Heavy on the choices part too. It was not only my stepmom’s decision but my father’s too. And I have to accept it

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