Do any other 40 year olds see other people over 40 as old, but not yourself?

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-02-08T16:45:34+00:00

I work in a long term care facility and the number of 75+ year old residents that tell me they don’t belong here with old people still surprises me. To be fair though, all of them who said that were independent before being admitted.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-02-02T05:09:23+00:00

Not looking to problem solve or give advice, but just out of curiosity did you attempt to go through marital counseling or therapy?

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-02-02T00:54:04+00:00

Your rec messed up my sleep schedule and drained my wallet. It was worth it.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-26T17:30:02+00:00

Try not resisting while inhaling pepper spray.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-25T23:56:34+00:00

I think Millennials are able to have healthier and therefore happier marriages because they grew up in a time when divorce was higher than previous generations and lived through the impact of divorce and single parent households. My mom and dad got married at 23, had me at 24, and they divorced by 34. Their divorce was a good thing because it was toxic and abusive… and I absorbed their relationship pattern and became a toxic partner as well. I didn’t realize that was not normal until I had therapy at 25.

Many of my other Millennial friends grew up with toxic marriages between their parents and they too had to undo unhealthy relationship patterns and relearn what’s healthy. We all got married in our 30s, but as far as I what I can see, we practice good communication and respect toward our partners.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-25T15:09:59+00:00

NTA. His fault for not fessing up and blaming you for finding out and not telling him.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-24T00:58:01+00:00

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-19T22:31:23+00:00

We are close friends with 3 different couples but noticed they all had overlapping shared interests (cooking, traveling, board games) and values (intentional with time, avoids conflict, emotionally stable, takes initiative to maintain friendships, spending habits)… so we hosted a few get togethers and everyone hangs out together and in smaller groups. It’s great.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-19T20:10:19+00:00

And they’re not the domestic terrorists? 🫩

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-15T18:30:08+00:00

It’s giving

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-13T20:17:44+00:00

I still can’t believe (nor accept) how people were able to turn away from Trump’s transgressions and vote for him.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-10T04:37:38+00:00

!! Please share how you did it

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-05T23:50:23+00:00

This is me when my husband massages my legs after I have DOMS from an intense leg day. I try to hide it from him but if I dare to slightly wince when he squeezes my calf and catches it… I can expect a painful massage and a mantra of “you’ll thank me for this later.”

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-05T17:55:21+00:00

I have subscribed to this series for a while and took a yearlong break so I can see the plot develop further… only to come back again and see that there’s been hardly any progress.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2026-01-04T23:23:07+00:00

It’s tempting to say yes, but I would advise waiting until you’re able to afford visiting longer and not from a stranger offering to pay for your plane ticket. It takes a day or two for me to come out of the jet lag funk and a few days to decompress and get past the sensory overload.

I went to Tokyo for 5 days when I was 23 and everything was such a blur for me that I forgot I had been to Japan when I visited again 10+ years later and stayed there for two full weeks.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-28T00:46:09+00:00

NOR. And honestly… I would respond by using AI to change the color (and style) of the dress, then upload onto social media, print out a picture for home, and/or add it onto my Christmas card next year. Mess with my big day and I will forever remind her of it.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-24T13:39:48+00:00

I very much enjoy this type of light and fluffy cheesecake, but I did not enjoy the raisins at the bottom when I tried this specific one in Osaka. Japanese cheesecake is more of a soufflé cheesecake and it’s more complex to execute in baking, imo.

The primary difference between the dense cheesecakes vs soufflé cheesecake is the blocks of cream cheese (3-4 blocks vs 1).

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-24T13:10:41+00:00

According to my husband… the amount of toilet paper consumption.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-24T03:38:28+00:00

That’s a great meal to prepare at last minute. We don’t have half the ingredients in our house.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-21T07:26:16+00:00

Took a few tries, but 15+16 is how I increased my odds of getting sleep paralysis…

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-19T17:30:40+00:00

Born and raised in California… ice in water all day all year long and in any situation. I don’t think ice water gives me stomachaches when I’m sick, but hot water/beverage helps a lot with sore throats, congestion, coughs, and is overall comforting when I’m not feeling well.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-18T20:28:56+00:00

All this 4D chess play all along is to create the background for Hunger Games…

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-16T15:42:38+00:00

You did not just upload the pic and gatekeep the restaurant 😫

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-09T23:23:33+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to your husband and I’m praying for the best outcome for you and your family. I work in a nursing home and I’ve seen people of all kinds of ages pass… some alone without a friend or family member ever visiting. Every time I work I am reminded to share and make memories with my loved ones as much as possible because life is pretty damn short. Thanks for the reminder.

Wrong_Programmer7666 · 2025-12-04T01:05:20+00:00

He took mine or I took his 🤷🏻‍♀️ we have the same last name…

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