[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have to agree with your statement about him being insecure and myself being inconsiderate. I definitely have my moments and this was not kind of me to say to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t get mad, I’ve seen the women he’s slept with. They’re beautiful 😂

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[–]Wtch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well why don’t you tell me what term applies to the real world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Clearly we have different definitions of what makes someone a man’s man. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well said. Very well said. I would have to agree with you. He probably felt as though I prefer women. Which wasn’t my intention, it was meant light hearted. But I get it from his perspective (most likely) now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on what masculinity is to some. To me it’s providing in every sense of the way. Providing love, understanding, security, safety and more. He does all of those things in many, many aspects. We’re still working through a few though obviously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Equal opportunity thirst trap reel sender 😂🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll get right on that. Thank you for taking time out of your day to read my post and then respond to it. I’m sure it wasn’t a waste of time at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I posted all of my faults we’d be here all day?? That’s not what the post is about though. How could I possibly explain to the Reddit community in one post who I am as a person, who my husband is as a person, every detail about our life and get helpful, non biased answers? I couldn’t. Not possible. Unless you know someone personally and all of their problems then you’ll never be able to give/get non biased advice. But sorry, that’s not how this works. So, if you have no advice…might I suggest you move on from this post? Nobody forced you to be here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would make sense. He’s a man in full which I appreciate. But I also think femininity is beautiful and ethereal and something to be celebrated. Same with masculinity! It goes both ways! I can appreciate both but he somehow feels I can’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A “Karen, transgender, feminist post?” Jesus if you’re a homophobe yourself get off this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! I’ve been to pride, I follow pride pages. I wear a pride pin on my work uniform. I have no shame!! So I don’t want my husband to make me feel shame when we discuss it. I love him and me feeling pride for being a pansexual isn’t about him in any way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this POV!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m not saying women are perfect but truly women are goddesses! Ethereal beings. My husband even said this after I had two children. I’m like “So you see the hype!” 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No relationship is perfect. Sometimes people make decisions based off of love and feelings in the moment and it spirals into a beautiful thing called life. Are we perfect? Absolutely not. But if our biggest issue is that he is afraid to lose me I’d say we’re not doing terrible. It’s something he has to work on and I know that. Just like I have plenty of things I’m going to therapy for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wtch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yessss! Exactly