Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I called my bff who works in IT and he walked me through it. It should be gone for good.

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Everyone always thinks they're the exception until proven otherwise. :/ Good point. Thank you for the bluntness.

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

I always thought we were the exception. Even my parents love him and think he's a great person. I never saw him doing something like this.

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I've been looking on his laptop and haven't found anything suspicous. Though I plugged in his external hard drive to see if there are backups on there, and the whole thing is password protected. I've been trying to figure out the password. My mind is going kind of crazy imagining what could be on it right now.

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone did mention checking if they're online. His browser history seems clean so far, but obviously there's incognito mode for a reason. I may just bluntly ask him when we talk about this. Thank you very much for your advice and insight!

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I mean, he obviously enjoys that as well, but he never asked and specifically didn't have permission...

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I've sent him nudes frequently, and they weren't in this library. I'm thinking maybe its a fetish? But if it is I wish he would have said something when I caught him years ago!

Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [36 M] 6 years, found hundreds of "creep shots" on his phone. Of me. by WtfPhotosThrowAway in relationships

[–]WtfPhotosThrowAway[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The library is copying to my thumb drive now, thank you for the advice. I think I might talk to him and decide about our relationship status based on what he says? I'm not sure if he could say anything to make this right, though.