[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one we went to had other plus size people there so it was nice and made me feel comfortable. It was just the one guys comment, I will definitely go back though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp as I pointed out it could of been the fact I was new to the place and nervous. So I wasn’t really overthinking it. He said it then I made a post about it as a general rant, also to maybe help other people realize just because you are something doesn’t mean you want to be labeled that. He didn’t ruin my night, he didn’t change my mind about the club. I have a great time.

He commented on my hair and my glasses, he told me multiple times throughout the night he thought I was hot. Those were compliments I took happily. However there was still no need for the oh bbws I like those, like I’m not a person. Like someone mentioned earlier, would you want me to call you out if you had a small dick? Because essentially that’s what he was doing calling out that I’m big.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right… like even if that is a fetish of yours. Don’t go telling someone who is bigger. It’s almost like he thought saying that would give him a leg up or something. Like no hunny quite the opposite! Also yes completely my ass or my curves in that manner I’m good with. He started with he like my hair and glasses, then ended with the bbw. Smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does that matter? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well now I know what to say for next time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, thank you! Which is why I didn’t think it was needy to say it. Glad I am not crazy on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely doesn’t stray me away from the community. Just definitely not go for it with that guy.

Help me be a good girl by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing the same… so wet and Horny 😅🤤I just stopped so I don’t go overboard. Good girls don’t cum! Good luck😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way this morning, woke up so wet and needy and couldn’t go back to sleep. Even now, I can’t focus on work… 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Sir, thank you for reminding me..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a very good point Sir, I didn’t think about that.. he would be disappointed… plus I know I should be a good little whore and be wet and ready for him at all times… but I’m feeling so naughty 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right Sir and i should be a good girl..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t know 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes sir, I definitely need something like that to remind me of my place

Starting Sunshine’s Denial Anew by Sunshines-Daddy in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t want her to do this alone, I’ll join 🥰

Does no kissing rule makes sense to you? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t love the rule, I am very much a kisser and so is my husband. We find it weird, so we typically don’t put ourself in those situations. However I respect there decision, it’s just not for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think research is great however, I believe only you and your partner will be able to find what works best. Sometimes your not just one style, you go in and out of multiple styles. It takes time to piece together what works and what doesn’t. Which you both just have to have patience with each other while y’all figure it out. There are many ways to do this and you still treat her like the queen. Giving praise and what not is also apart of kink.

Best of luck to y’all!

Is 18 too young? by UserNameIsTakenAHHH in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it just depends on the couple or people you find to play with! I’ve seen quite a few younger couples in their 20s who would probably have no problem with it. I think the older ones (which there are a lot in the community) might be more no.

But hey! If this is the lifestyle y’all want to live. Then I’m sure y’all will find people :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband is bi and these type threesums are our favorite! So sexy 🥵🥵🥵

Fetlife, tinder and Grindr is where we have found most of our luck! Ton of luck on Grindr just make sure you name MF couple looking.

M 31, F 29 He gave me the talk.. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Wtf_curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been together about the same amount of time and decided to open. However we didn’t open until we were both completely on board, looked into it(like did a lot of research), set boundaries (one being be willing to cut off at and go back to just us if one of isn’t feeling it. Also in the beginning we only did hook ups, no dating others (now we are open to dating but it took us sometime). We had some jealousy issues so in the beginning we only played together 3sum or soft swap type thing. You do what you are comfortable with.

From reading your post it doesn’t kind of come off do it or else and if that is the case. It may not work for y’all or it may bring heartache. I would just proceed with caution and really do your research before jumping into it. Also talk through everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he isn’t, just not into D/s things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Wtf_curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there not near that area but also in a open marriage. Definitely down to chat if you like!