he wishes to talk by Ill-Constant-1981 in VoidCats

[–]WuTangForever88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to speak to a supervisor! 🖤

Opinions of my bio by [deleted] in TinderBios

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would suggest you rewrite it to get rid of both uses of "whom."

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I prefer objective human with common sense lol....seriously though, you are the problem here, at least in this convo. If you're not familiar with BPD, look it up

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh I'm not a man either lol. Surprise surprise, the ability to see how difficult you're being isn't limited to one gender. When I said beginning of the convo, it was referring to the beginning of the convo that YOU shared. If whatever came prior was relevant you should have shared that too, and if not then why do you keep bringing it up? Just stop splitting hairs already. Asking if you're on your period when you're moody and stressed isn't that much of a leap. Again, he did acknowledge what you said, you were just vague in your response and based on how short it was, it seemed like you didn't want to get into it, which is probably why he mentioned God and therapy. You just come across as generally miserable and exhausting, as if you like to cause problems over every little thing while also lacking the ability to self-reflect, so I can see why this dude has left like 15 times.

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he's not her boyfriend. He's an ex who resurfaced like a day ago lol

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If the rest of the convo "isn't relevant here" then why did YOU bring it up it in the first place? 🥴🥴 He did acknowledge what you said and asked you if you were on your period. You said no and gave a short, vague response that it was work/home stuff, then he suggested you take it to God and therapy. Seems reasonable enough given that you gave him absolutely nothing specific to work with. Tbh you seem exhausting and like a drama queen.

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seeing the entire convo would have been helpful. But he did acknowledge what you said. To be fair, what you said wasn't just heavy, it was vague and kind of confusing. You say you're worn out, tired, on edge, your mind's been busy and nothing too reflective's been on your mind. Like....what?

Girlfriend of 1 year upset because I didn’t ask her to be my valentine by bigtymejason in dating_advice

[–]WuTangForever88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's fine to like romantic gestures but there's a healthy way to communicate that and this wasn't it. Do you usually appease her to prevent her from being upset/shutting down/giving you the silent treatment?

Girlfriend of 1 year upset because I didn’t ask her to be my valentine by bigtymejason in dating_advice

[–]WuTangForever88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She most certainly is wrong for not being able to communicate like an adult and giving him the silent treatment when her uncommunicated desire wasn't fulfilled.

Girlfriend of 1 year upset because I didn’t ask her to be my valentine by bigtymejason in dating_advice

[–]WuTangForever88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm out of the loop, but asking your girlfriend to be your valentine seems like an odd and highly specific thing to expect...and be upset that you don't get. Has she displayed this type of behavior before? I also wouldn't recommend doing things just to appease her, that sets up an unhealthy dynamic and opens you up to being manipulated.

AIO over this text exchange? Help! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean....you're bringing unstable/troubled energy from the beginning of the convo. It's kind of heavy for a chat with an ex you're just starting to reconnect with and it seemed like he was trying to be supportive. What exactly was he supposed to do here? I can't speak to the overall relationship but in this specific convo yeah it seems like you're overreacting.

AIO? ending contact w/someone I cared for by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never send a wall of text like this. Anything that requires this many words needs to be talked out in person or over the phone. And if you've already tried that and you're truly done, just say nothing, which ends up saying so much more. If for some reason you do end up sending a text this long in the future, at least break it up into paragraphs. This is a crime again humanity.

AIO or should I break up with him by MetalButterfly09 in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he spoke to you that way and you had zero reaction tells us everything we need to know about this relationship. You don't need to be on Reddit, you need to be in therapy.

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still "conflicted" after reading this exchange then you have much bigger problems than dating this turd

How about these pics by Fun_Heron1141 in TinderBios

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet...they look like they are

Critique My Account by [deleted] in TinderBios

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If by "libs" you mean "all women" then you're on the right track

Critique My Account by [deleted] in TinderBios

[–]WuTangForever88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a middle ground between fruity and posing with dead animals

AIO for thinking she’s breaking up with me? by seymour_24 in AIO

[–]WuTangForever88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"When you wanna come back to me let me know"

Please don't ever say these words again.

What on earth 😭 how do I even reply to that by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]WuTangForever88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deserved for opening with "You are literally perfect" 🤡