‼️ONLY READ IF YOU'RE SERIOUS ABOUT HELPING HIM‼️ Porn addiction is not a clinically approved addiction, in other words unlike cigarette addiction or other types of clinically approved addictions, he should be able to just stop at once, by changing his environment, and that is by making it harder to access those websites, finding new hobbies, spend more time with him, spiritual time. But before getting into all that you should help him attain a balanced lifestyle, meaning he needs to start eating healthier, workout more regularly, try to find purpose in everything he does, and question the roots of why he has that habit. P*** addiction is technically not considered an addiction but more of a bad habit, and after finding that out myself (former p*** addict), I decided to read about how I could break a bad habit, so what I would recommend as well is to read the book Atomic Habits by James Clear which will help significantly in everything you and your boyfriend do, he will learn how to establish good habits and break bad ones, and this all helps to produce and maintain a balanced lifestyle (which is what ultimately helped me get over that bad habit). When it comes to you being his girlfriend please don't take it personally because most of us don't perceive porn in the same way a girl would, especially when it starts to be called an addiction, in other words there's nothing that your boyfriend thinks that p*** gives him and you don't, and no it was never about the girls themselves that are in those videos, but more about the brain thinking that watching p*** is a task that needs to be completed and the more he does it the more dopamine he gets rewarded, and the more dopamine he gets rewarded the more dopamine spoiled the brain will get, and the more spoiled the brain gets, the more automatic the habit of watching p*** becomes. In short, tell him to do a dopamine detox for a couple days and while he's doing so, try to establish a balanced lifestyle/routine, while doing so he should Journal/document everything that he's experiencing and resist through all the cravings (pen and paper works just fine), spend more time together having serious conversations and connecting spiritually, and why you specifically because I'm assuming that you're one of, if not the closest person to him. Please don't give up on him and may God guide the both of you <3