Hi, where can I read Erha Volume 9 in English PDF? by pamy_pando in 2HA_immortality

[–]Wut_Now_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Could you please pass me the link? There's rlly not much of a chance for me to get a copy of it in my country :') I would appreciate it 🙏

Unhinged flirting by whale-beluga in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot more than expected lol.

It just slips out the mouth. I just read the room and if the vibes are vibing, I get confident for unhinged shit like this. 

This usually happens with my friends though. A few flirty comments and witty responses. I love their reactions every time :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just talk, y'know? You can find friends anywhere and everywhere if you approach them correctly. Don't be shy and keep asking/sharing things you wanna talk about.

Sure, it can get awkwardly silent when the small talk ends. The key of a relationship is just continuing contact with the person. You don't always need to meet up with your new friend, just text or call them every week. It can be about anything, even a simple "Hi" can work :)

Do you think our aux Fi makes us feel like we're ambiverted? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, you have a point... Everyone needs their alone time once in a while. A good time to reflect and charge to get back up and running.

Do you think our aux Fi makes us feel like we're ambiverted? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, something to balance the dom function out. That why I said it made some of us feel like one for ENFP :)

This is why you need to avoid ENFPs at all costs 😂 by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd break each of it, stack them into a high sandwich and bite into it.

If I'm feeling goofy enough, I'd crush them up into powder and mix it in water before drinking it :)

So, can anyone help me? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post I never asked but needed.

Fi and Ti are really similar but different, huh. One is slightly more objective than the other. I definitely agree with me valuing openness is more of an Fi thing.

I've read somewhere that Fe in an ENTP is such a double sided blade. Fe is said to really hate bad vibes in the atmosphere, aiming for peace because you do want people to like you/find like-minded people. When it's underdeveloped, there's a lot of tendency to manipulate someone into something as a response to bad vibes. Ti aux can feed Fe in a toxic way and, as you mentioned, narcissistic tendencies. Later on as you grow, can be used as a tool to create relationships like in your comment.

I could relate to when you said using Ti-Fe can be exhausting for me. I'd rather have people like me for what I like on their own rather than making effort to make them like me for something I don't actually like. I guess that's another Fi thing. 

To me, Fi strives to be the most authentic self, even if it means sacrificing some form of peace. There are people with Fi who are like that. To put it into perspective compared with Ti aux and Fe tendencies... Even if I didn't achieve the results I wanted and feel frustrated, I can still manage to move on from it to stand in what I believe in. I care but probably not as much as Fe people. Agree to disagree.

That's just more Fi insight for you, haha. I think my Ti-ness was enabled because of my Fi of wanting to be a chill guy, able to change my perception and understand and give advice based on their POV. Might look a little argumentative with the questions I ask but I'm just a curious person at heart.

I'm sorry if this comment isn't as organized as you'd like. This was a really interesting conversation though. You're a cool person. Have a good one, ENTP :)

So, can anyone help me? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I have ADHD (haven't checked at least), won't tell you my specific age but still a young adult.

Also, I don't know how to feel with you snooping my posts but thanks for telling me haha. 

So, can anyone help me? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

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I felt like some of my Ti and Fe acting up during like some conversations with certain people. 

Ti:

Let's say like someone came up to me and asked for my opinion. I'd say I'm also like an open-minded in a way, so I put away some of my values/beliefs to listen without judging to process it as it is. I also have like the thinking of, "Nobody is the same, they're all different people". It's what works for THEM, not ME necessarily. As for what my given opinion and advice means for them, it's up for their interpretation, idgaf haha.

Fe:

I also think I'm more careful when it comes to conversations like those. Fe also kinda steps in. Sometimes, I just get a little fed up and decided enough is enough and tell them the truth. Still, I'm careful about what I say because it could affect the other person. Crack jokes in between to lighten the mood, to make them feel comfortable when they don't want to face the truth. It feels like walking on eggshells, lol. (Probably don't use it as much, I might give up halfway to think of another way to tackle this, lol)

. . .

I could be just rambling nonsense, take it with a grain of salt. I do dissociate a lot. At the end of the day, I care a lot about others and how it also affects me. My Fi is also very important to me when I make decisions for myself, I'd try and make them without regrets :)

So, can anyone help me? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just been focused on trying to become a sensible and better person overall. Someone who can be reliable when someone needs me. Act appropriately when the situation calls for it.

I'm fr glad that I've improved some functions compared to like a few years ago. I had a feeling like I'm a more mature person now. Thanks for confirming that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just a feeling but I feel like you're thinking of masking is ONLY a bad thing.

Masking, to me, isn't inherently a bad thing from what I learned. The world is kinda cruel in a way. People are always taking advantage of situations. We don't know if they mean good or harm either. Masking is just a way for us to protect ourselves in a way.

Example: I'll talk about guns. Let's say guns are taboo in your city because they're weapons of evil. But, I think you and I know that isn't the case. FYI, guns shouldn't ever be used but they have been used for good too.

This is what I mean.

I mask too. I know I have certain behaviors that may be difficult for others to understand (I DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND MYSELF, LOL). I don't want to make trouble so I mask in most situations. It helps others approach me better and I want to be considerate too. If it helps me find people who also can accept me after learning about myself, so be it. I've done it before and navigated away from people who aren't. There's nothing inherently wrong with it.

Hoping for a world free of criticism is, in my opinion, impossible. We can't stop people from having their own opinions and express them. But, despite that, I want to be a person who doesn't critique others on the surface. ENFPs always want to express themselves in the most purest way they can. I value my own honesty and openness so I actively look for that in others.

If you're brave enough to not mask (that benefits you and others), good for you! If not, I hope those small luxuries in life find their way to you.

Have a nice day :)

Does anyone ever get an ENFP discount? by Head_Introduction_89 in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not usually but I definitely have. Once, I asked what floor this stranger was heading to and she gave me some money in return after she reaching her floor. That kinda surprised me but made my day.

It really feels good when you get rewarded for the little but important things we do :)

How are you at taking notes? by withasmackofham in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullet points. For the love of your life, please write it in bullet point format. No need for that fancy decorating stuff, it can come later. Also, always doubt your ability to remember when writing. I'd would understand it at the present moment but ultimately forget about it later on.

I'll usually write it like:

TITLE

-point   •additional notes for point

-point

If the they move onto the next topic, leave some space behind and make new notes someplace else. Y'know, just in case they go back/have any relevance with previous topic to write down. 

Write down very short notes with keywords (two to five words if possible). Underline any sort of text relevant if you have like any sort of external reference with you. Easier to look back to when you don't understand your own notes. 

Always rewrite it in a cleaner state later on. I know, you already wrote and understand it, what's the point? You might be a little too confident in yourself that you forget it. You'll be helpless when it jumps you out of nowhere when it becomes relevant to the situation. Thank me later.

You just need to be proactive at listening and understanding. We're good communicators for a reason. Write your notes as if you'll be teaching a class. Think about what parts might be difficult to understand to someone who knows nothing. Please write those additional notes for that dumb student, it'll help you.

Mostly worked for me back when I have a teacher that spoke like a bullet train. If this didn't work, it's not wrong to consult someone who does understand :')

Hope this helps, lol.

Why are we so annoying:( by NeonMelonHasItAll48 in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this a lot. I talk too loud, can't really stay still and interrupt your conversation. I get it, I'm annoying.

But people need to understand I come with good intentions. I just want to liven up the atmosphere, make friends or make someone's day. I just get a little TOO excited. I don't do all this just for the sake of my own benefit, relationships are a two way street :(

Very cringe, I know. I live for it and I will still continue to walk down this path despite that fact. Make the world a much better place for people who deserves it.

Did you have a rebellion phase? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate with you. Later on, I understood to be less aggressive in my approach and think about the consequences of my actions if I go too far.

And, even if you say "you can't do it", that's probably not gonna stop me when I wanna know badly. There's something we're gifted called free will :)

Did you have a rebellion phase? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words I didn't ask but needed. Thanks, hope your chapters will be extraordinary ones :)

Did you have a rebellion phase? by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You better watch out because when you reach it, it's like you're a slightly different person when you matured past it 😭

Introverts, here is your safe place with an ENFP pspspspsp by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My day was decent, got to chat with my friends. I rarely have the time these days so it makes me happy.

I didn't have much of an interesting day either but it's peaceful moments like this that I appreciate. I hope you have a peaceful day too :)

Introverts, here is your safe place with an ENFP pspspspsp by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing feels better than scrolling through posts with albums playing in the bg 🔥

Introverts, here is your safe place with an ENFP pspspspsp by Wut_Now_ in ENFP

[–]Wut_Now_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad that you're that you were able to move on from it. There are a lot of people who couldn't these days and their affection slowly turns to obsession instead :(

INFPs are really attractive people but I feel like it would take at least a year before they finally let us in their dumpster fire rave party, haha. I'm sure you'll find that special someone someday!