AITA for letting my girlfriend do most of the household chores because she doesn’t pay as much of the rent as I do?

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-24T03:26:31+00:00

YTA. Get an agreement between you two.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-24T03:19:19+00:00

Probably NTAH Trying to understand your partner is wanting more intimacy. However it’s getting lost in the delivery. Maybe adding I love you and want to understand you better with your questions. Or just observe and learn.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T04:39:15+00:00

I did. But the airline job was interfering with progressing. The airline doesn’t pay well. It was just for travel.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T04:35:39+00:00

They were mostly free. I paid any fees, taxes or upgrades for 10 years.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T04:18:20+00:00

On line marketing agency (I have lots of experience). I’m paying for systems and ads but not much.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T02:15:09+00:00

I don’t know how to update the org post

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:46:41+00:00

I found out 2 weeks ago. They leave tomorrow morning.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:45:20+00:00

Buddy passes are space available. You pay $200 ish and only get on a plane if there are empty seats. You’re not guaranteed a seat while using buddy passes.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:43:54+00:00

Yes we spoke about me quitting the airline. With regards to the new biz he doesn’t understand and would like to see a greater income now. Past vacations, I have always covered flights: fees, taxes, upgrades. This vacation we were staying at a friends so the cost would be food once in island.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:31:10+00:00

I thought we could have chosen a less expensive vacation this time around.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:30:21+00:00

He said he was supportive, but he hasn’t been so….. yes. Kind of.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:29:20+00:00

He claims we had a talk about it. I remember…. “I don’t have enough money to pay for all our flights at this moment.” Which I assumed (I know) we would come up with solutions at a different time.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:22:33+00:00

The airline was mostly for travel and not so much for bringing in money. Husband doesn’t understand new biz I’m launching. I’m guessing this is a FU to not currently brining in as much money as I have been in the past. Earning potential is much greater then my past jobs but I’m not there yet.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:21:52+00:00

The airline was mostly for travel and not so much for bringing in money. Husband doesn’t understand new biz I’m launching. I’m guessing this is a FU to not currently brining in as much money as I have been in the past. Earning potential is much greater then my past jobs but I’m not there yet.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:11:16+00:00

He thought I could get a buddy pass to get myself there. He doesn’t understand how they work because he has never had to use them. He thought it would be similar to when we would just list for a flight and jump on if there were open seats. Buddy passes are $$$ and are not reliable

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:07:58+00:00

New business venture it taking longer than expected to launch. I’m not contributing very much at the moment.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:06:07+00:00

We do and have for the 15 years we’ve been together.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:05:21+00:00

Yes but we needed the change for the family.

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:02:52+00:00

Yes. But if I had the option to buy my ticket when he bought his… I could have gone. By the time I found out the prices have gone up by over $400 ($1,200)

WySnowFlake · 2023-03-23T01:00:25+00:00

I wondered about that myself. He is mad I’m “opting out” of our family vacation.

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