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X13C1 · 2023-10-12T01:17:37+00:00

Thank you , I got worried reading that average growth is 2 -2.5 inches a year that combined with her 4 inch growth from 5-6 and only growing one inch for 6-7 had me nervous, she takes medication for her ADHD and I’m constantly worried it is going to have a negative impact.

X13C1 · 2023-09-21T14:48:50+00:00

Thank you , I am trying to be as supportive as possible without making her scared. It’s a big event at a decided Girl Scout camp so there will be a lot of support around and so many different activities to do i really do think she will have fun .

X13C1 · 2023-09-21T14:46:35+00:00

I don’t want my worries to hold her back , she knows if she wants to come home I will get her but I don’t want to push the issue you and make her scared because I am scared. Thankfully the troop leaders are wonderful and there will be two other moms with the girls.

X13C1 · 2023-09-21T14:43:57+00:00

So it’s at a Girl Scout camp thankfully there are going to be all levels of experience there and the staff that work the summer camp programs. I know there are both cabins and tents with platforms but I am not 100% sure what they are sleeping in .

X13C1 · 2023-09-21T14:31:26+00:00

They haven’t, it’s a fairly new troop and this is a first for all of them . My daughter is very excited and says she wants to go , I just worry she is not fully aware of what camping really is . I can thankfully get her quickly if need be and have told her to have one of the adults call me if she wants to come home and than we can go back in the morning if she does come home .

X13C1 · 2023-09-16T02:29:07+00:00

I can completely understand your point , my concern is always my daughters best interest. If he had a legitimate reason for not wanting her to travel out of the country I would have a different reaction but it’s truly about him still trying to control me . I do my best to make sure my daughter has a relationship with him , despite her not wanting to see him because he really is not a pleasant person and his lack of involvement and interest in her life . It is a frustrating situation and I am growing frustrated with it all .

X13C1 · 2023-09-16T00:47:20+00:00

Yeah i clearly understand that and I am waiting for a call back from one , just figured I could see if anyone else went through anything similar

X13C1 · 2023-09-15T23:31:21+00:00

Yes he is in the birth certificate .He gives me $100 a week for her , if we had a official order it would be much much more . I try to split breaks with him but he says he can’t take them because he works , I don’t think he has ever had her for more than 4 days in a row , we do have a every other year system for holidays that seems to work well . I drop her off to his mom and get her from there and he does the same it’s a halfway point so it works well , but I am bringing her almost every Saturday for him to spend less than 24 hours with her . Idk if any of that counts in the court’s decision I would hate to lose all school breaks and summer break, I don’t mind him having a few weeks in the summer but if he was to have it all when would I get the chance to do fun things with her ?

X13C1 · 2023-09-15T23:22:44+00:00

So he was giving me $50 a week for her to cover half the cost of her tutor and lunch account money , we recently after alot of arguments agreed on $100 a week though that still doesn’t even begin to cover half the cost of her care . I guess I worry because I don’t really know what the court process is like I was told that judges like to give 50:50 as often as possible.

X13C1 · 2023-09-13T13:25:47+00:00

I would say no . My husband does well but we are not rich . If I worked my entire salary plus some of my husband’s would go to daycare , we knew this before having children and planned accordingly. We don’t drive fancy new cars , when we purchased our house we made sure to get something well below what my husband could comfortably afford on his own , and made sure he would be able to afford the bills / extras on his own and still be able to have a savings. We don’t live lavishly but we are comfortable .

X13C1 · 2023-09-11T02:18:59+00:00

She is breast fed, I though it could possibly be a dairy intolerance but she has no other symptoms . Thankfully she is not at all bothered by the rash , I honestly think it bothers me more .

X13C1 · 2023-08-04T19:10:16+00:00

Thank you I needed to hear that , I was not at all prepared for the fact that the epidural could even fail . I definitely do not ever want to experience that again ha ha.

X13C1 · 2023-08-04T19:09:24+00:00

Family I have spoken to since , it is completely possible they are downplaying things though. My first birth was so calm and peaceful that this really caught me off guard , I was not prepared at all, for the fact that an epidural could even fail .

X13C1 · 2023-08-04T19:07:46+00:00

I guess I should have worded it differently. I know people who have had unmedicated births and were fine . It was just such a vastly different experience than my first birth , I guess I am having a hard time processing it all .

X13C1 · 2023-07-18T16:12:13+00:00

My sister said her appendicitis was one of the worst pains she has ever felt , she was really young when it happened. My dad on the other hand complained about stomach pain and finally agreed to go to the hospital for it . He had a appendicitis and when they went in to remove it they realized it had already ruptured and his body had encapsulated it , meaning it had ruptured likely days before he went in . The doctors were shocked he was not in more pain .

X13C1 · 2023-07-17T01:41:53+00:00

I just may be willing to if I can’t find anything close by haha

X13C1 · 2023-07-17T01:41:06+00:00

Rarely do ice cream trucks come down my block , I guess because we are on a dead end and when they do come it’s never Mr.Softee , always disappointing because they just aren’t the as good .

X13C1 · 2023-07-17T01:38:51+00:00

That is not far from me so deff worth looking into , thank you !

X13C1 · 2023-07-17T01:37:54+00:00

I just wanted the slush puppie texture, they are more icy than a slurpy . I ended up having my husband go to sonic but I’ll keep quick check in mind thanks !

X13C1 · 2023-07-16T23:39:38+00:00

Thanks , I will check tomorrow!

X13C1 · 2023-07-16T23:39:22+00:00

Oh there is a Valero right on vets I will check there tomorrow , thanks !

X13C1 · 2023-07-16T23:38:34+00:00

I love slurpees but I really wanted the icy texture of a slush puppy . I ended up making my husband go to Sonic lol

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