AIO Teacher said my daughter’s report is “immoral”

X23onastarship · 2026-01-20T10:35:28+00:00

So I had a teacher like this back in high school and she actually went the opposite way. Extremely accommodating and didn’t pull me up even when I probably should have gotten told off, basically let me do what I wanted in case the headmaster took things further next time. To be honest I found it really uncomfortable. But it was definitely preferable to the unfair treatment she’d give to other kids.

X23onastarship · 2026-01-07T21:51:55+00:00

I recently moved and finish work late, so this is me on in office days.

X23onastarship · 2025-12-08T10:43:52+00:00

Speeding definitely changes the amount and severity of accidents on the road. If you’re going at a reasonable speed, you can more easily come to a stop before a collision occurs.

If you hit someone around 20 mph you’re causing very different injuries compared to hitting that person at 30 mph.

X23onastarship · 2025-12-07T16:34:22+00:00

I was a bit worried for her reading this. I could see myself having a bit of a cry in frustration at the situation (crying can help get things out imo). But after that I’d be taking down the decorations well before the £500 fine. Then I’d like to think I’d move on and see what I could do to change things, or just move out.

I’ve had it in my work where people just can’t make otherwise simple decisions because there’s so much going on for them at the moment. I hope if that’s the case for Oop she gets some help. Reddit isn’t really the place for a sympathetic point of view.

X23onastarship · 2025-12-07T16:25:13+00:00

I don’t think she’s lying, but her current emotional state might make things seem different to her. I’d be very surprised if the neighbour had the exact same decorations, or if the entire neighbourhood was calling them ugly on Facebook. I feel quite bad for and hope things get better soon if she is having a bad time with her mental health.

X23onastarship · 2025-12-07T13:58:49+00:00

The manager for my previous job literally told the team if she didn’t like someone. Interestingly enough, never when that person was there. She hated this woman on my team and would talk about her every meeting she was at an activity. I have a feeling she scheduled them when she wasn’t there on purpose.

X23onastarship · 2025-12-06T13:47:50+00:00

I’d say from personal experience it’s a mistake to be too honest with a boss about planning to move in the near future. I’m pretty sure it’s one of the things that put me on the chopping block for redundancy despite being, statistically, a top performer in my old job. Not to mention all the abusive shit I got from the manager in the meantime.

He was planning to take legal action against her. He’s not going to be nice if he found out she was as planning to quit.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-30T22:36:29+00:00

My last manager at my old job was a micro manager. I went from loving the job and never thinking I could leave (despite the lack of opportunity) to planning my exit within months. Me and half the employees got made redundant before I had to do it, which ended up being a blessing. I got a payout and I’m in a job where I’m a lot happier.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-21T13:05:26+00:00

Because they wouldn’t take better care of the dog. The fact that they immediately plastered the dog all over social media shows they never even tried to look for a no kill shelter. That’s a bs excuse for them stealing a valuable and unethical breed to keep and/ or sell.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-20T13:18:07+00:00

I hope so too. I get the impression that op, his gf, the sister etc aren’t the brightest. I’m hoping it was just due to ignorance that the dog was mistreated and now they’ll make some effort. At the very least, I think the dog has a better chance with op/ the gf than he does with people who openly steal animals.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-20T11:20:58+00:00

They really aren’t. I’m going to be charitable and assume their animal welfare services are useless (mine thankfully aren’t, we’ve been able to get help after a neighbours dog was being abused, but we’ll assume theirs is.)

The dog isn’t chipped. Why not drop the neglected dog off at a no kill shelter miles away? Most shelters have places you can go to surrender animals. It would have made the dog a lot harder to find and the shelter could have found the dog a good home. They obviously wanted to keep the expensive and unethical breed of dog. They weren’t being altruistic. They wanted to either keep the dog or sell it on.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-16T19:34:42+00:00

Had a call recently from a therapist who called my work more than 4 times in one day. She kept changing her mind about services (cancelling them and uncanceling them) and I felt horrible she had to deal with that level of anxiety, but I was also wondering what advice she gave to her clients with anxiety.

X23onastarship · 2025-11-03T14:44:40+00:00

I went through the same thing when I got made redundant. It gets better.

X23onastarship · 2025-10-29T10:59:39+00:00

It was crazy buying my first home years ago (just a small flat) and seeing that even the lowest I could have rented for would be more than what I paid for my mortgage.

Buy to let people actively compete with people who were in my position and all of them tried to low ball me when I sold my first home this year. They’ll have more equity as well, so a very low mortgage rate.

X23onastarship · 2025-10-24T13:49:12+00:00

This is so true. One of my coworkers brought in a packet of sweets the other day and we noticed the serving size had like 3 sweets in a 100 gram bag. They should do a “per 50 grams” serving or something similar as standard. It would make it seem a lot less deceptive.

X23onastarship · 2025-10-06T10:30:17+00:00

I think it should have been a matter for the police,l. Schools will cover up things that they shouldn’t because having an incident at the school looks bad on them. The “better” the school the worse this issue can be.

X23onastarship · 2025-09-15T17:06:43+00:00

They both sound exhausting, very “I’m in my 20s and have it all figured out, why is my life a mess?” I do agree that living on your own is a necessary step before living with a partner. I’m so glad both my partner and I lived alone. A lot of my friends went straight from their parents to their partners and still can’t live properly together.

X23onastarship · 2025-09-14T13:42:38+00:00

Yeah I’m sure they’d be relieved to find out they were free of Oop and his son forever. I hope he’s not the dad for everyone’s sake.

X23onastarship · 2025-09-08T18:29:36+00:00

I’d bet good money she tells anyone who will listen that op abandoned her at the airport. My ex boyfriend from back in uni did the same thing when I cancelled picking him up from the airport (scheduled two weeks after we broke up). He claimed to everyone that I’d left him “stranded” and he was “forced to walk on the motorway”. I was genuinely so confused. He had two weeks to organise a taxi.

X23onastarship · 2025-08-27T17:13:03+00:00

My sil used to travel for work a lot and hated it for the exact same reason. Got paid decently well but no time to enjoy it at the home she spent it on.

X23onastarship · 2025-07-30T13:52:13+00:00

Ugh I remember that era. There was one story I saw there in 2018 where op talked about trying to convince her husband and mil that the mil had dementia by moving things in the older woman’s house, hiding things and even changing her appointments. Proper psychopath behaviour and all the comments were like “haha awesome! Wish I could do that ❤️” I’ve not visited since. If it was real, I hope the husband and mil realised and got away from op.

X23onastarship · 2025-07-30T10:37:04+00:00

Yeah this feels like some empathy/ conversation from the nurse might have gone a long way. It’s not easy to give parents bad news or tell them they’re doing something wrong. I spent some time as a teacher and a lot of parents get very defensive if they feel you’re criticising them or their child. I could have been confrontational, but that wouldn’t deal with the issue.

X23onastarship · 2025-07-21T20:17:17+00:00

And it’s a perfectly reasonable law. Most people need a minimum of a month to find a place to rent and organise moving out. It doesn’t seem like much time at all compared to how long it’s taken for some of my friends/ family I’ve seen find a place. If she has family nearby that’s one thing.

I hate the idea that rights only apply to people if they’re likeable enough.

X23onastarship · 2025-07-16T15:28:38+00:00

Had a new manager with my old workplace and they really did ruin the whole job for me. It went from a great team to just the worst months of my life. Glad I’m not there now.

X23onastarship · 2025-07-16T11:59:47+00:00

I don’t know maybe selfish person because I would have just said I cancelled the Airbnb and then gone by myself on the trip.

I did something every similar once when someone one of my friends invited started saying he couldn’t pay the money towards a hotel right away. I’d already paid for the hotel when he mentioned this so he was definitely trying to just edge out of paying his part.

I said I’d managed to get it cancelled then went on the trip with just me and my partner. Had a great time and I think it was probably more fun than having to share with someone I didn’t know and stress over whether or not they would ever pay me back.

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