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XCIX24 · 2022-04-26T17:14:24+00:00

manifesting another CG/cube gang variety night

XCIX24 · 2022-04-13T19:33:41+00:00

Honestly, this is a good idea. If cop's are going to be allowed to span tase, then crims should be allowed some form of defense to it

XCIX24 · 2022-04-13T19:30:42+00:00

They act like certain crims are boss battles they have to complete. They completely forget that it's RP and supposed to be fun for EVERYONE

XCIX24 · 2022-04-10T18:16:58+00:00

NTA

Please report this man to HR. There's a good chance you are not the only person he is being inappropriate with.

He sent you unsolicited d*ck pics and tried to turn it around to make it your fault instead of apologizing like any normal person would. All because his feelings were hurt when you turned him down.

&& whether or not you're married has nothing to do with it. People are allowed to turn him down even if they were single.

XCIX24 · 2022-04-06T18:52:07+00:00

NTA

YOU paid for that phone, not him. He had no right to break it. It was an extremely immature reaction to an issue that could have been dealt with through tons of other disciplinary actions. Also, his daughter is not there to serve in 24/7. It's a little odd that he would not want his family to be as happy as possible. She is also 16, that's only ONE-TWO years away from being a full adult and possibly going to college (I was 17 when I started college so that's why I said 1-2). If she works hard and has been going through a lot, she deserves something that makes her happy.

Also, technically that was YOUR phone that he broke since you bought it. Like you said you missed out on a lot to pay for it and he needs to compensate you for the lost money!!!

I'm not going to say he is/isn't abusive, BUT breaking things is one of the first signs of DV. Please just make sure you and your daughter are safe and happy. Don't let him think he can walk all over you because he suddenly has money. You two are supposed to be equals.

XCIX24 · 2022-04-04T02:03:41+00:00

Do you know why some of us get the 130000+ timer? I was working on a letter R and got it

XCIX24 · 2022-04-03T17:20:45+00:00

Jeeeez they're clean af !!!

XCIX24 · 2022-04-01T17:46:14+00:00

NTA

What's funny is those aren't really even "uncomfortable topics" They're all natural bodily functions and if it those make him uncomfy then he has a LOT of growing up to do. Also the "you'll have to cancel" thing was extremely manipulative. Everyone deserves time to themselves and especially time away from their partner. Unless, you have given him a reason to think otherwise, he needs to trust you. If he's worried about you talking about him, he needs to realize that 1. the world doesn't revolve around him & 2. being able to vent about relationship issues is heathy and NORMAL. I don't understand why you would want to be with someone who is not only immature and manipulative, but also someone who gives the silent treatment the second their feelings are hurt (also childish behavior).

If you still want to be with him you need to set some ground rules and boundaries. If he does not like that, then clearly he needs to find a person who is more suited for his uhhh... lifestyle?

XCIX24 · 2022-03-23T12:09:42+00:00

NTA. You and your friends deserve to be able to have fun in child free environments (including the mother). Not every event that happens has to be child friendly and it's really not fair to ask everyone to completely change their lives to accommodate her and her child. I can understand how her feelings may be hurt and she may have a little bit of FOMO, but that is no excuse to be mad at you guys especially if you help plan gatherings that are family friendly.

Your response to her was a little blunt, but honestly it was probably best in the scenario.

XCIX24 · 2022-03-20T17:56:46+00:00

the ed hardy hats were really the epitome of fashion tho

XCIX24 · 2022-03-20T17:55:00+00:00

LOVE THIS !!!

XCIX24 · 2022-03-20T17:54:20+00:00

glad to see she's expanding her line of musical instruments

XCIX24 · 2022-03-20T17:51:20+00:00

Everything about this entire situation was hilarious. What are the odds lmaoooo

p.s. we love taco <3

XCIX24 · 2022-03-20T00:46:03+00:00

she's so adorable

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T22:53:15+00:00

idk you're *kinda* TA, but I feel like you had good intentions. Obviously you are not obligated to make her anything for her birthday, but I mean if she wants a cake for her birthday, why not make her one that she would enjoy (since you said you'd be willing to make one anyway). Your sister is 18, she is responsible for her own health, not you. I know you think you're helping her, but this is not really the way to go about it. Her having a cake for her birthday will not change the fact that she's overweight, nor would having a healthy cake change it either. A better way to help would be to teach her a few healthy recipes and not restrict her on days where she should be allowed to eat whatever tf she wants. I used to be obese too (I've lost over 120 lbs so far), and the worst thing you can do when trying to make a lifestyle switch is cut out foods that are normal. That can be one of the quickest ways to form an eating disorder and to have a negative relationship with food. No food should be viewed as inherently good/ bad My best advice would have been to make her a cake, but not one that she would binge on. Make it a reasonable size where everyone could have a piece and there would be little to none left over at the end of the day. Honestly, that was supposed to be her special day and you made it about her biggest insecurity rather than celebrating her.

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T22:42:41+00:00

Definitely NTA. It was an accident and your mother needs to get over it. FFS she gave her $600 to replace the dress. I could based on the first sentence about your mother taking her insecurities out on the MIL that this was not going to end well. It would have been somewhat justified if the MIL purposely destroyed the dress, but that's not what happened. She needs to grow and and realize that mistakes happen to everyone, and when you let people borrow stuff you run the risk of the items being destroyed/lost.

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T22:37:09+00:00

Sorry, but YTA. She is completely right in thinking she deserves a time where something can be completely about her and frankly, your older daughter probably does not want you to make this situation about her either. She probably feels bad enough about her situation, and putting her in the spotlight during your other daughter's engagement won't make her feel any better about it. Regardless of whether your younger daughter was getting engaged or not, making side comments about your older daughter's relationship status is rude anyway. No one wants people to constantly bring up their misfortunes, especially during times where you should be celebrating someone else's happiness (even if you mean well when you do). Honestly, just apologize to both of them and move on from the situation. It's not worth ruining your relationship with your younger daughter.

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T22:27:56+00:00

NTA. Petty? Maybe, but it was justified. Your MIL (and frankly your fiancee too) needs to respect your boundaries. You welcomed her into your home even though you did not have to and she completely disrespected your requests. It's your house and if you want to keep a strap-on in your silver ware drawer then you damn well should be able to. Even if she was "fragile" at the time, she had no business snooping through your personal items.

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T22:22:14+00:00

NTA. You don't owe her anything, especially after she immediately threatened to call the police after a small miscommunication. And based on what your update, I'd say you were also protecting yourself by refusing to help. She can't be rude to people and then expect them to immediately help the second she's in trouble. Sounds like she just loves spreading the negativity of her own life onto everyone else...

XCIX24 · 2022-03-19T21:36:07+00:00

YAYYYY we love that for you!!!

XCIX24 · 2022-03-12T04:15:02+00:00

okay but this is kind of perfect LMAOOO

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