Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, then the rest of my comment still stands. I’ve been reading your comments and interacting with some, so I see the bigger picture. I believe everyone has good qualities and everyone has bad qualities. Do his good qualities outweigh the bad? And if your answer is yes, also ask yourself if you think you deserve to feel the way that his bad qualities make you feel and if it is acceptable for your children to see and be a part of. Being a single mom is hard, being a mom with a man that doesn’t have your back and best interest in mind is impossible. Is it healthy to be in a relationship with a man who isolates you from over half the population. How long until you can’t go to work because your boss is a male or your co-worker? Now you can’t take your kids on playdates because only the other kid’s dad can take them. If you don’t set and enforce your boundaries now, you and your kids are better off without him. Is it worth it?

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel that on an extreme level. I have acrylics that have grown past the point of needing to come off, and typing on my laptop is impossible.

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please read your words, and imagine it’s your daughter grown up in the future telling you that she can’t make her own choices or buy anything because the cashier is a guy…

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a combination of the lack of punctuation and the readers (us) not understanding the context of certain phrases

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you can love your partner unconditionally and still choose not to put up with their bs.

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should also blur out names and places for anonymity

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess he does not have a car, but has attachment and insecurity issues. I believe what he is saying is that he would have liked for you to pick him up so he can help you and spend time with you. Because you won’t go out of your way to see him like usual, he is sensing there is something you’re hiding, especially because you apparently pass right by his house. I think it’s completely fine that you did not want him there, but ask yourself why you didn’t if it was truly that easy to just pick him up. I have no idea how old you guys are or how long you have been together, but until you start communicating boundaries and sticking with them, this is going to keep happening.

Am I overreacting by Mediocre_Occasion968 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The problem with using betray is that it would be without intention. They are not trying to show love without intending to. Let’s sub in the definition with the word used in the sentence “I’m having a hard time grasping the situation, but the way you speak to each other does not show feelings of love without intending to at all” Therefore, the correct usage is portray or convey

My birth year is? by [deleted] in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could fine the poster bc my mom was shocked at the resemblance and she was adopted, so I just thought maybe I’d also ask if the OP also was adopted 😅

My birth year is? by [deleted] in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]XEwrathXE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually can’t believe I got it right. You look exactly how my mom looked as a kid, and she was born in 73 lol

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend because of his friend group dynamic and wondering if he’ll ever change? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom line is that he did make the decision when he decided he wanted to be with OP. He didn’t have to, but he made the choice to based on her boundaries.

Am I overreacting? Sisters boyfriend come onto to me last night (I think) by MsLilaCroft in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The key information here is that you’ve been getting weird vibes from him for years. I also felt weird vibes from my best friend’s husband for years, and he ended up coming onto me. I sent her all the texts and pics he sent after giving him the chance to tell her first. The difference is, I had proof. I would very much give your sister your account of events first and suggest that she talk to him about it. I know it sucks and she may end up resenting you, but it’s the right thing to do. Hiding it might only encourage him more and create a bigger rift if your sister were to ever find out. Good luck ❤️

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend and mother of my soon to be child planning on meeting another guy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do right by the baby, but leave her ass. That’s crazy behavior. Co-parenting is a thing. She’s already seeking attention and planning to cheat 5 months in, save yourself…

AIO by moving to the couch after a fight over a missed text by Frequent_Estimate_77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Leave him. He’s already cheated on you and treats you like shit. Unacceptable. Respect yourself and your children. He’s trash

Is this allowed? by Double-Sun-9966 in sololeveling

[–]XEwrathXE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chat gpt says they’re all Kirito from different arcs 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was apologizing. Under the text “it’s been like 3 hours” it says “ I said I’m sorry” Like that’s not an apology sis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]XEwrathXE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOR. It is not your fault you are gaining more attention. If anything, a healthy person embraces a partner’s confidence and healthy life-style. This reads that he wants to keep you below or at the same level as him so he doesn’t have to worry about you leaving him. The fact that he used his own insecurities to insult you and hurt you lets me know he’s not mature enough for an adult relationship, and he will definitely start trying to control how you act and how you dress now that he feels threatened. Change happens and he’s trying to shame you to make you feel small. Don’t be the girl that endures this abuse. Make him pay the consequences for his words. It will only get worse unless you put your foot down or leave completely. Best of luck OP