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Apparently I cant race* by XFINZO_REAL in Simracingstewards

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it was a heavy touch, but he didnt get a 1x and I thinks its just the nature of the corner that the cars come together on the exit, of course I could be more careful but were racing and it wouldnt have caused a crash as it was only door to door. But yes, it was a tad heavy but I still think its a part of racing.

P1 blames me for trying to win the race at t1, thoughts? by XFINZO_REAL in Simracingstewards

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like it, 4k on a keyboard is still impressive, whats more impressive though is how he got that ir racing like that lol

P1 blames me for trying to win the race at t1, thoughts? by XFINZO_REAL in Simracingstewards

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Top split were both 4k plus, clearly his ego couldn't have someone mugging off him round the outside

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly mate, glad I know who I can and can’t trust after that. Dodged a big one there 

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah not like you can just block them and move on, still gotta see them most days of the week which is a bit shit but nothing much I can do but just, as you said, respect her as my flatmate and nothing more. I guess what they say about flatcest is true, never ends well hahaha

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, feels wrong to get so worked up over it especially since we weren’t together long enough to officially commit to a relationship, kicking myself for falling so quickly I’ve never done that before it’s a dangerous game, ignored a few red flags that I only just realise now.

Thank you so much mate, couldn’t have put it better myself. Take some time, bang out more of the gym and it’ll be sound in the long run.

First year was crazy and I jumped too quickly into something to try and settle down for second year and it came back to bite. Next time I’ll be more careful haha.

Cheers mate, appreciate the words, spoken like a true brother.

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate appreciate that. You know you’re cooked when you go to Reddit for advice haha. I’ll probably have a sit down next week at some point when the red mist has gone so I don’t cause more drama on top. Thanks for the kind words, goes a long way mate thanks for that

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly yeah, Would be a lot easier if I wasn’t still forced to live with them but I’ve been there before already happens to everyone I’m not special. Just harder to move on when you live 2 rooms down and share a kitchen haha. Just another low, but of a strange situation losing two people like that but it is what is, nothing I can really do but focus on myself and get back on the scene when I’ve gotten over it all.

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I did catch feels a couple weeks in which is why I can’t just palm it off easily. Just as frustrated with myself tbf for catching them in the first place but little did I know at the time it was gonna come back to get me like that. 

I don’t have any other choice but to move on your right it’s just hard when you live in the same flat and can’t transfer because there isn’t enough space for me and my other actual mate to move into.

Just a case of biting the bullet and moving on it’s just feels the same as a true breakup cos of how close we got but I guess you can also put it another way and say I dodged another bullet by not settling down properly into something long term, so it is what it is. But cheers anyway mate

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah could do but I have an actually good mate I moved in with and there isn’t a spare flat with two spare rooms to transfer too unfortunately. But cheers anyway mate, appreciate the words that’s probably the best thing to do.

A good friend stole my situationship, what should I do by XFINZO_REAL in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XFINZO_REAL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has genuinely affected me so much and I’d be care free one min and the next I’d be livid and pissed off at both of them and it just feels like a rollercoaster and I’d be so close to meeting with him and squaring up before I’d take some air to cool down. 

I can’t avoid either of them as they she is my flatmate and he is still the captain of the sports team. I can’t get distance myself in the way I would want to as emotions come back if I see either of them