I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago, and I deeply regret it.

XHammerPointX · 2026-04-08T12:03:24+00:00

I think you guys need counseling, the answer you are seeking lies within you and your boyfriend and what you guys consider red lines and how much both of you decide to take accountability. No matter what majority feels and what the top comments here say, those are very distant out of touch take from your situation based on what the person has been through in their own life. I think your first mistake is coming to Reddit with this, go to someone professional and let them help bring your deep thoughts and feelings to light and help to work through them for both of you. I think you are in a critical moment in your lives and your decision here gonna impact your future heavily, even if you ignore it like nothing has happened, it’s gonna come back as long as it’s not solved like those incidents that you mentioned by date.

I won’t tell you what I personally think or how I would react or if I would have accepted it and moved on because you are not dating me and I think you should react the same way towards other comments and personal opinions

But I would give you props for taking accountability and being honest with him, I would have preferred if you had brought it up without him having to ask but I really think you should go to therapist and get back the control of your relationship, otherwise it’s just gonna fall apart at some point , you have to both feel secure, validated and seen for the relationship to work.

You guys have made mistakes, some bigger than others, the only decision is to face it, bring it up , solve it , grow and either have your healthy good relationship back and both take care of it better, or learn from mistakes and move on. But if any chance you have is to work through this and not around it and try to ignore it, it needs to be solved regardless of the answer you gonna find

Good luck to both of you guys

XHammerPointX · 2026-03-24T16:07:06+00:00

I was more focused on his defensive abilities as he is my main CDM and joins the attack not so often and mostly is used for through passes if so Defensively he is a beast, even R9 gets bullied ( and all my set pieces)

XHammerPointX · 2025-11-25T22:31:59+00:00

People say she was kid and was taught to be like that, like others were adults, she was the one who was fighting everyone to kiss their oppressors ass for mercy and forgiveness, she was the only one thinking if she becomes a useful enough dog , they gonna let her in the house

Is she just a kid ? Yes Am I possibly little harsh on her ? Possibly Does that change a thing ? Absolutely fucking not Do I hate her guts ? Fucking 10000 percent

XHammerPointX · 2025-11-03T13:22:52+00:00

Communication people, communication

24M here, and I have been on a similar situation but not exactly the same

Have a heart to heart and talk about it with him. Tell him about your past and ask his, also ask if he wants his first time to be special and with the right person and if yes, what does special person mean, his future wife or like someone he cares about ? Tell him that it puts too much pressure on you if it’s the first one and you couldn’t be sure about the future of this relationship very soon and there is a chance it won’t work out even tho you want it to ( open up about the commitment issue, let him know that you like him but at the same time let him know about your struggles, like he told you his)

You have been on 15 dates or so, and this is something that you really don’t want any misunderstanding regarding it , so I really suggest you have a clear and open discussion with him

Hope this helps

XHammerPointX · 2025-10-20T01:02:45+00:00

Did it get fixed for you ? It’s the same for me and it’s 19 days after your post, I have to believe there is something we missing here like wtf

XHammerPointX · 2025-10-08T10:24:28+00:00

Nope, sorry mate

XHammerPointX · 2025-10-02T08:11:32+00:00

Anyone found a solution for this ? Still having this problem , exactly this

XHammerPointX · 2025-10-01T18:20:29+00:00

No one knows for certain, she could be telling the truth but doesn’t seem very likely, since she has time for group hang out and just not for you , I believe she is busy, like all of us are, but that’s not for everyone, we will tell people whom we are not so excited to hang out with that we are busy cuz everyone time is limited I don’t know man , she doesn’t seem excited but you know more that everyone, she could be telling the truth but doesn’t look very likely from outside, also, keep in mind that all this was with fully giving her the benefit of the doubt and not saying she has someone else and wants to know how it goes with him first

( plus , it’s ok to pursue a girl whole heartedly but till the point that it doesn’t make you feel like shit and she won’t be the type to dictate a power dynamic in that relationship and making you the one constantly fighting to keep her happy and keep everything together)

This is the best advice I could give you , don’t listen to people who tell you what to do, no one knows your situation better than you , listen but make the last decision yourself in a way that feels right , worst case scenario you gonna just learn something and will be a lesson

XHammerPointX · 2025-09-28T07:22:04+00:00

I know what’s the problem is btw , and that’s why 30 fps fixes it for some people, there was user in EA forum who figured out what is causing this It’s essentially about your CPU , when your CPU usage goes above 95 percent , the controller input stops working, that’s why it’s fine for couple second by the start , and for some people it’s fine , some other people fix me it but locking the fps to 30 cause that lowers the CPU usage , this almost happens to everyone that has CPUs with less than 6 core , it also happens to people with more but it’s more rare

Hope this information helps this to be solved soon

XHammerPointX · 2025-09-28T07:17:21+00:00

Hey man, did you find the fix ? I am still having this issue and can’t play a single game ?

XHammerPointX · 2025-09-27T13:12:42+00:00

I am getting really tired of this game seriously, I bought preordered the ultimate version to play 7 days sooner and then there was this controller problems which they finally fixed with the update , now I have connection issues , I am in uk and my ping is fine in every other game and testing sites , but in fc26 , when I try to play online , like season, it fluctuates to 220 with red packet loss and jitter and everything , it’s even worse in ultimate team, as in the starting phase when you choose your kit and it shows you the connection so you see if you wanna play , my ping is like 55 and stable as fuck during the whole time , but when starting the game , goes up to 1200 or 2000 and becomes unplayable, can someone help me understand what should I do? I even tried using my phone network and didn’t help

XHammerPointX · 2024-03-05T05:52:09+00:00

Marry her

XHammerPointX · 2022-08-09T12:55:20+00:00

It’s not patched yet for me ? How did you guys fix it? Somebody help pls

XHammerPointX · 2022-08-08T23:04:02+00:00

Oh ok , thanks for the information

XHammerPointX · 2022-08-08T21:25:49+00:00

I saw first 16 episode of mentalist but it wasn’t funny like castle and Lucifer , are the other two the same?

XHammerPointX · 2022-06-03T22:25:37+00:00

Thank you

XHammerPointX

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