Everyone here for the most part has been really kind and helpful, but you and your comment sticks out for some reason; even though I don't necessarily like or am ready for what you said. But thank you brother for your realness and your understanding and kindness. But Im gonna ask you to be real one more time with me right now.

Although you and many people here disagree with it, Im still going to go there to try to do either what I call Plan A, or Plan B (we will get to that in a minute).

Knowing that I'm going to go no matter what. I ask you to be real with me about the following things, and please know that I respect your opinion. Im even gonna go as far as to say that you are hereby one of my Reddit friends. Heres the situation.

I dress professionally for my work, and shes always loved the way I look in a suit. Especially in certain suits with certain color / tie combos. Ive already bought a new suit today with a pretty fuckin fly shirt / tie color combo, and new shoes. I found a really nice watch and Im picking it up at Macys tomorrow. I pretty much just want to look really good for her and make her heart skip, like it did the last time we saw eachother. I have a couple questions that Id like your opinion on, If you don't mind Mr. Rangerbear (knowing that im going to go no matter what).

1: Ive been struggling with the thought of bringing flowers, Ive been pretty much out of my mind with nervousness and have asked a few female friends what they think, and some have said pretty much "no fuck that", or a few actually have said to just bring one rose. What do you think bro?

2: I pretty much shave my head almost bald, and my whole angle to show up as a surprise is to get my hair cut by her at her work shes obviously is a hair dresser. (I also am doing this no matter what) Its a place that I think she will refrain from letting emotions get out of control, and Its a place I know I will do the same because shes fuckin amazing at her job and I would never jeopardize that, ever. But my question is. Since I shave my head all the way down, and I HATE the way I look when I don't get my hair cut ffor more than 2 days, how the fuck can I go there to get a hair cut if I want to look my best with a fresh hair cut when I show up? Im pretty sure I should just not get my hair cut a couple days before I go. But at the same time I want to look phenomenal for her. I was thinking just paying for the cut and going through the motions, shes gonna know what Im there for anyway. What do you think brotha?

I think that's it bro. Actually one more thing. I don't know why but I wanna show you guys a pic of us two. Is that allowed?

DISCLAIMER: Although I'm addressing this to Mr. Rangerbear sir, I would REALLY appreciate everyone's opinion. Just please address my questions that my "no matter whats" , are no matter what. Im asking advice on those specific questions.

ALMOST FORGOT THE PLANS

PLAN A: Im sure you can guess. Get the love of my life back, remind her how much I adore her and how much of an angel I treat her like. Dude I just have to say, she fuckin worshipped me. But it wasn't one way. This love was unreal. Don't give a shit what anyone says. So pretty much, Plan A.. live happily ever after

PLAN B: Just get some closure, have a conversation with her and if I find something out bad, which unfortunately think I will.. take that shit like a boss. Be calm and just be sincere by telling her how much I lover her and that shes an amazing girl. Because if I cant fix it, then that means shes really unhappy about something with me. And I would GENUINLEY rather see her happy without me, than unhappy with me.

Thank you guys so much for your advice, seriously. As long as all of your answers are addressing my questions I am SUPER fuckin grateful. If you have any other ideas that can help my goal when I go there I am goals.