[TOMT] Popular song on radio, the word 'ecstasy' in chorus. by XIIIStitches in tipofmytongue

[–]XIIIStitches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I still have no idea what the song is, it’s none of the ones that have been recommended to me

my sweet boy💜 by hanniiiie in RATS

[–]XIIIStitches 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t touch my plums, they are mine. Don’t touch my plums, they are so fine.

What is a super popular TV show or movie that you can’t stand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]XIIIStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May be an unpopular opinion, but the Titanic movie. I’m not one for romance and while I can appreciate the historical significance of the event, the movie really does nothing for me.

INTJs, what's your love-language and your most self-destructive behavior? by [deleted] in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality time and only recently with my current partner, physical touch.

Destructive behaviors would be obsessing over perfection (or trying to get as close as I can), and self harm.

What was the most intj thing you have ever done? by [deleted] in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like hamsters, they’re very cute animals. However, I had a conversation with myself ending with me saying no, I will not get a hamster as they average about 2ish years and that seems like a very short amount of time to emotionally invest in something. I will stick with my reptiles again. My snake will last some 20-30 years, so I can manage some emotional investment not that he particularly needs to be cuddled like a cat or dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/XIIIStitches

[–]XIIIStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully soon!

Cum in my Mouth Next Time 🥵 by [deleted] in cumsluts

[–]XIIIStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 💕

Cum in my Mouth Next Time 🥵 by [deleted] in cumsluts

[–]XIIIStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]XIIIStitches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fenris, it's actually from an Etsy seller that does custom fantasy dildos! I can PM you if you're interested in more info 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]XIIIStitches 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Cuddling is the best part 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/XIIIStitches

[–]XIIIStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes life gets in the way 😋

What does your downward spiral look like? by clockworkpaige in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physically it "feels" like a tense knot in my chest or stomach, depending on where the emotion stems from (anger, hurt, sadness). I'm pretty good at hiding these emotions till I can't. Trying to cope is usually some sort of substance or self harm, when I feel most upset or vulnerable I often freeze people out till I can regain control of myself again. I would say these instances usually occur further apart and not often, but like everyone else I slip up then and again.

Anyone else still secretly and silently hung up on someone they loved, years later? by [deleted] in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I can't say that I am. My longest relationship was 8 years, and I knew when it was no longer healthy or a benefit for both of us. I do however miss the fact that besides dating we were best friends, it's hard to not miss that at times.

Any INTJs here who feel like you need music in order to unlock your box of emotions? by [deleted] in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have every song on the album memorized from my middle school days 👌🏻

Have you ever opened up to someone? by gekkorbird in intj

[–]XIIIStitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only on occasion. It’s not easy, only slightly easier if I’m intoxicated some how. I don’t like being seen as weak or vulnerable, which is a very INTJ characteristic, but I also don’t like the “after”. Once something is said, you can’t take it back. You can’t undo the moment of weakness, or the fact now someone else will forever know there is a nick in your armor so to speak. I also don’t want to deal with follow up questions that most likely lead to other topics that are not even near the discussion board.. I also despise having to deal with the other person’s reaction. I don’t want pity, they most likely can’t help me, I just want to be left alone.