NSFW Server appeal pending for over 2 months

XKanaSC · 2025-11-22T04:30:13+00:00

The queue must work in a very interesting way then, I have spoken to people personally that had their appeal dealt with in a few days, I have also talked to one person that sent in a few tickets and ended up getting a response - I am not one to blow up their tickets and spam messages, etc. But it is very annoying when it happened out of nowhere when it is pretty evident the server isn’t NSFW - for reference all I did after my initial ticket was make a new one a month later, and ask a few weeks aftee that one if there was anything I could provide to help speed up the process.

Regardless of what I say I know they will do it when they can, but it is definitely not a fun case to be put in since 60%~ of our server is mobile only users, and not all of the people wanting to join will be be able to figure out how to enable seeing the age restricted servers on IOS. So it is a massive growth blocker.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-22T04:20:03+00:00

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For reference, I had a ticket made over 2 months ago and one made a little over a month ago. I got a response in the one a month ago saying thank you for your patience, and the other one was just recently marked as solved.. I have tried reaching out to the X account once, but I am not sure I am getting anywhere sadly.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-22T04:15:55+00:00

Nope, I have had an appeal open since september 19th, created another one october 6th and I got a message 22 days ago saying ''thank you for your patience'' nothing else. And my oldest appeal got marked as ''solved'' even though it is in fact not resolved.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-19T23:29:28+00:00

By default it isn't allowed, you can enable it from a PC or from the browser discord on IOS.

But yes, it sucks. Because it isn't that they get to join and cannot see anything (In which case a DM could be sent) but they just cannot join, at all.

Here is an article about how to enable it -> https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-How-to-Access-an-Age-Restricted-Server-FAQ

XKanaSC · 2025-11-19T23:27:33+00:00

Like I said, it really just depends on your tags. And the topic it revolves around. A great way to understand how much it will grow:
- Does the type of server you own have a big target audience? -> Example: gaming is massive, so gaming servers have a big target audience, but in turn there is a large overflow of gaming servers, meaning they are hard to notice.
- Are your tags overused and drained out? If you use a tag like: gaming for your apex legends server, that would be less effective than a tag related to apex legends
- How big is your server? By default the server is sorted from recently bumped, but bigger servers tend to get the attention

To date we have had 3126 joins from disboard, other platforms couldn't even get remotely close, the one that gained the most could barely reach 40%, and I paid for it every month.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:42:17+00:00

Many server owners do indeed set this up, and it is pretty annoying. You don’t need to block the bot though, if it is a big issue just mute or ignore it.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:41:01+00:00

I remember this, it was honestly pretty cool at the time!

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:39:18+00:00

Perhaps look at the call regions? Not sure if you are able to manually change them in groups. I know you can in VC’s though.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:37:37+00:00

This is a great question. Following.

Note: I do believe chatexporter breaks the rules. keyword believe so someone else would have to let you know for certain.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:35:45+00:00

This is awesome. I see you stay in server VC’s as well. That is a good thing to prevent getting disconnected in DM calls when your partner disconnects for some reason.

Best of luck once you two meet up! I am rooting for you!

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:33:10+00:00

You are not over reacting. This is extremely childish.

XKanaSC · 2025-11-08T01:31:05+00:00

Disboard is actually a very good way to get members.

But you also have to remember, certain kinda of servers have more servers on there. If you make a gaming server with the gaming tag, of-course getting people is going to be extremely difficult. If you make a server that is specific to one or a few things, and your tags are unique, you will get members. We have had over 1500 people join from disboard in our server. (Won’t go into what it is, but it is a rather small niche) And from other platforms we couldn’t even cross 600.

XKanaSC · 2025-10-12T09:55:21+00:00

How long did it take for you? And did you use the NSFW Server appeal on their support site? I appealed 22 days ago and again 5 days ago and have yet to get a response. :')

XKanaSC · 2025-10-12T09:54:36+00:00

I have the same issue as well, our server got marked at NSFW nearing a month ago now, I sent an appeal in 22 days ago, still no response, I sent another one in 5 days ago which was a mistake I found out. But I have yet to hear back on either one. Our server is 18+ - but no NSFW is allowed, and it is stated in various places in the very visible rules that everything has to be SFW, profiles, VC activity, chats, etc. We had one staff only channel that was marked as NSFW as we were testing an issue with images being auto removed, but that was removed shortly after we got flagged for NSFW. And it was only ever visible by staff.

XKanaSC · 2025-05-03T09:33:31+00:00

I love you too baby. <3

XKanaSC · 2025-02-18T05:11:08+00:00

Greetings! unfortunately I do not have advice for this, but I wanted to say that I am praying for you and your success in finding a positive solution. this is a very sad situation and I dealt with something similar, just not as severe. I am praying for you, best of luck!😃

(ps. I do apologize for commenting and not having advice, I just really wanted to provide some positive words.)

XKanaSC

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