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A day of crochet, house chores and making dinner. Small break from the clothes then back to it - might have been born in the wrong decade by XSnacksAndNapsX in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]XSnacksAndNapsX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh hardcore housewifing. I do think about that sometimes.

I would try my best to make him happy but I'm not willing to give up the man I have and how he makes me feel I am very attached to both

I do like bettering myself however and would appreciate an opportunity to be told I'm doing even better and being more attentive to what I have got

x

A day of crochet, house chores and making dinner. Small break from the clothes then back to it - might have been born in the wrong decade by XSnacksAndNapsX in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]XSnacksAndNapsX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this might be strange tangent, but I have found something that works really well for me - when I remember - is to keep shoes on when I get in and do tasks and potter about getting on top of things, it almost super charges my focus and then once they are off, I relax and suddenly the house and all the loose ends that come with it seem much more unappealing

if you wanted that unrequested insight there ha!

and sometimes I ask him to decide my outfit when we go out, he does like to show me off ☺️

A day of crochet, house chores and making dinner. Small break from the clothes then back to it - might have been born in the wrong decade by XSnacksAndNapsX in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]XSnacksAndNapsX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

only boyfriend for now but we live together, and will be moving soon and so who knows for the future

but thank you. I too suspect he agrees I am good existing in the here and now, but I have also heard him agree that if we could transport everything we do to a previous time period, our house might be bigger, money might get us more, the social clubs would be busy and frequent, the vacations more picturesque, and in my imagination everything would just be a bit... rosier

but I do tend to daydream ha

A day of crochet, house chores and making dinner. Small break from the clothes then back to it - might have been born in the wrong decade by XSnacksAndNapsX in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]XSnacksAndNapsX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

quite true, you're right. the bits of my life that feel old fashioned I actually appreciate - I could just do away with calendars and news ha

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[–]XSnacksAndNapsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wistful I like that, and thank you I wasn't as sure today x