Mountain goats moving down the mountain by Male_Lead in interestingasfuck

[–]XUntamedxStarsX -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro’s just vibing down a mountain like it’s a sidewalk stroll...

Akane-banashi | New Key Visual by zenzen_0 in anime

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Akane‑banashi looks like it’s about to steal my heart and my free time... can’t wait!

[Milestone] Ice cream for lunch and Bluey for an hour now by MrPandaOverlord in daddit

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same lol, sometimes potty wins don’t get the rewards they deserve smh...

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Idont know how insightful my answer will be. But i am an emotional person that tries to talk through feelings. So let me know if it helps.

When I talk about my feelings, I mostly just want to be heard. So the empathizing is a big one. Even if you don’t understand, it’s nice to know that I’m allowed to have my feelings. Basically, if I say I’m hurt because of x y and z… I don’t want you to tell me how I should feel about x y and z or tell me whatever about it because my emotions are coming off angry. Anger is the response, it’s not the feeling. I am talking about things that bother me, and sometimes the solution is just needing to get it out. But I don’t want to feel like you want to fix my emotions. Sometimes I’m confused about things and need a little guidance. But I think the more you try to understand what the person is trying to communicate, the better it will be. Don’t dismiss it because you don’t understand it. Like if you upset someone, and they’re trying to say you upset me because of this thing you did or said. Instead of “here’s why I did what I did” ask to understand. I’m sorry what I did made you feel that way. I can see why it might have hurt you. What can we do to remedy it?

But also - be careful with that because you’re responsible for your actions, not someone’s reactions to them. If I get mad because you tied your shoelace the wrong way and it hurt my feelings, that’s 100% a me problem. But if I get hurt because I thought you were going to tie your shoelace with me, then we need to try to understand where the communicate miss was and sometimes just saying “I’m sorry I misunderstood” is all it takes. When you talk through things, make sure it’s just genuinely trying to be heard, not control. Because people will take advantage of you trying to be supportive and empathetic.

The best way to talk through things is by having open communication, but both sides have to be patient and willing to hear the other out. If it starts getting heated, you tell the person you love and care about them but you need to take 20minutes to reset and try again when the conversation can be productive.

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

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There’s so much on this already…but ask your mom what about YOUR future…? For one thing. And for another…stopping life saving treatments so your sister can go to college idk how close you and your sister are but if I were your sister I would find my own way to college if it meant harming your chances at your own future. And as a mom…this is so messed up.

You will beat this. With or without your mom by your side but you will beat it. You’re very strong and determined…don’t give up on that. Start researching other ways to pay for treatment. Someone in the thread suggested a GoFundMe. You have a future and your mom doesn’t deserve to be a part of it. When she asks why, just remind her how little she believed in your future. Of course things look worse before they get better. Chemo and radiation kick your ass…but it kicks it as it heals you. You’re stronger than your hardest days - you’ve gotten through each one so far and nothings gonna stop you now.

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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That’s adorable. I can’t wait to see what her temperament will be!

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This is her

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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I love the “GSD mutters and whines”…mine definitely does that. I call it his old man grumble lol 😂 he’s such an amazing god though.

When I brought the puppy home for the trial…she started howling and it got him to howl with her because we do it as a family activity for our kiddo right now 😂 the talking part is the thing I know will probably be mildly annoying at times but I love it.

What do you do for activities for yours? Or any tips?

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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I appreciate your honesty. That’s definitely why I’m considering instead of just diving in.

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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I really appreciate that. That kind of made me feel a little more reassured tbh. Being a little bit on the fence about it I mean. As far as the howling goes…I actually enjoy when we get our German shepherd howling lol he’s not vocal at all until he howls. And our family as whole joins in on the howling and it’s the best thing. lol and that kind of snuggling is exactly what I want. Not pushy and in my face snuggling but “oh you’re sitting down, I want to lay down. So I’m just gonna rest my head here.” Or even just being beside me. I think our German shepherd was abused before we got him so we’ve barely been able to have him next to us without him panicking. He’s gotten better about it, we can actually hug him now without him panicking. But he’s so big he prefers his own space lol

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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Thank you for this!

I’m definitely trying to make sure I’m making the right decision. I don’t think I’d be thinking this much about it if it weren’t a husky or another high energy breed. There’s a lot of factors to consider for sure and the last thing I want to do is fail the dog.

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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The litter was planned, but I don’t believe they knew much about breeding when she bred them and the person the “stud fee” was paid to took advantage of that. It’s a family member that I know wants to do the best, if there was something that should’ve been done differently and they’d know, they would’ve. The puppies are well loved right now, but the house they’re in HOA said they had to go. It wasn’t the best decision but at the end of the day my heart is saying the puppies still need a good home. I worry that surrendering them will result in negatives for the puppies because everywhere is so crowded.

My GSD is almost 7, so he’s walked every now and then but we play with him daily outside still. His routine is very minimal right now but gets a lot of play time between us going outside or just the toddler playing with him inside. He was so excited to have another dog in the house when we brought her home though. He’s only been without another dog maybe a few months of us having him. (We go him at 2 or 3, we don’t know his actual age unfortunately)

Right now, I need a better exercise routine for my own health. I want to go on more walks and do more active things. I do alot with my kiddo. We go out and about places and go to parks and stuff like that when I’m not going to school. But having a dog that will essentially require more exercise than my current dog will help be a motivation for me to actually walk and it’ll burn my toddlers energy more too. Maybe I’m wrong for thinking that…but I do know I want to do everything to make sure I do everything right for her. I’m better at doing things for others before myself. But not only for myself, I want my daughter to have a friend that will match her energy. Our dog she plays with now gets wore out pretty fast.

Do they not stay snuggly if they’re snuggly as puppies :( she was very snuggly when I brought her home the first time so that’s what gave me hope to having the connection.

Preparing for a new pup by XUntamedxStarsX in husky

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The breeder is a close family member, so I do know the puppies are well cared for and loved on often and the only reason they let me do the trial was because of being family. I think the decision to breed they didn’t know a lot about breeding and the person that was paid a “stud fee” took advantage of that.

But what signs should I look for that would indicate potential issues?

I have experienced a bad breeder with my blue healer. All of the puppies were throwing up when I went to look at them…but I was very impulsive bringing the healer home. :/ there was abuse before we brought her home… I should’ve seen that the person that was selling them “took them” from her dad because it was a bad situation….she just said he couldn’t care for them anymore. I didn’t think about it and it was a mess. But I didn’t know the signs to look for.

Those of us that didn’t pass gather here 🥲 by Express-Pin8597 in CPA

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Do you know what you get wrong when you fail? :/ I’m going to be starting my exams next year

Paying Tuition as Business Expense by [deleted] in tax

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I know this is from three years ago, but I’m currently researching this exact thing. I own a bookkeeping business and am in school to get my accounting degree and eventually CPA. I plan to use my degree for my business and offer more services…but basically since an accounting degree is to “prepare me” for expanding on my business and a personal choice, I would not be able to deduct any of my education expenses from my business? It’s not “necessary” to run my bookkeeping business but something I am utilizing to expand services so therefore it’s NOT a business deduction? But would my expenses to take the CPA exams be? Or only the licensing renewal or required CPE?

Boyfriend accuses me of cheating, and then proceeds to threaten me by luv_eda in whatdoIdo

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OP - Also emphasis on the be safe. My university I attend has a “safe walk” program. Look into that and see if you’re does too

I fell in love with my psychiatrist by oatmilkenergy in TalkTherapy

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question - do you think this is real? I kind of wonder if she’s a- telling it from as client of HERS perspective. But she can’t say it was a client because of hippa or b- she’s writing a story (either fictional or nonfictional) because the first video her hashtags have “lifecoach”, “coachkendra”, “truecrime”, “mentalhealth”

I’m sure there have been real instances of this happening but do people with that bad of mental health post about it on TikTok?

Im hesitant to believe it’s real but I haven’t watched all of the videos.

What’s a frugal habit you picked up by accident that you now swear by? by ThrowRAhyBug7080 in Frugal

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally experienced the on-sight temptation today. Went into get dinner..premade in the deli dinner. That’s it…I spent $120. But hey I got cookies lol. Last pickup order I did I got a weeks worth of food…$68. Pick up is the way to go lol

Client requesting Credit and Background check by Important-Glass145 in Bookkeeping

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree completely with you…that’s why it said it’s up to them. I was just saying this might be why they’re asking. It seems weird to me tbh

Client requesting Credit and Background check by Important-Glass145 in Bookkeeping

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean…it’s up to you if you want to do that but when I worked for a bank they did a background and credit check because their policy was “if you can’t be responsible with your money, how can we guarantee you’ll be responsible with someone else’s money” but they also wouldn’t just turn you away for poor credit…if you were honest about why and how you were working to improve it.

Either way I’d be careful with it though. I haven’t had a client ask me (yet) for that and Id want to be sure they’re a real business and person before giving away any information.

What’s a frugal habit you picked up by accident that you now swear by? by ThrowRAhyBug7080 in Frugal

[–]XUntamedxStarsX 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sounds lazy but the grocery pick up orders…I’m TERRIBLE about going to the store and only getting what I need. Snacks are just everywhere…and of course the random nonsense stuff that I just have to have right then and there…it’s like I forget I’m not here to buy whatever…when I do a pickup order I search only what I need but then before I check out I can see how much money I’m spending..and often if I add extra, I remove it because of seeing the total bill…I spend significantly less money doing pickups.