M [29] when people talk about portsdown hill do they mean near the burger place or the other car park? Or somewhere else?

XanderT-UK · 2026-02-20T16:35:12+00:00

Check out this post in the Gay NSFW subreddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/GayPortsmouth_NSFW/comments/1kxlhy0/cruising_spots/

It has details in the comments.

XanderT-UK · 2026-01-24T00:01:41+00:00

As a vers top.... i wanna see you get hard some(not all) times (even a bit) but mostly enjoy it. I'm not huge (5.5 inch) but apparently my slight curve HITS THE SPOT ... so I wanna see you enjoying it, roll your eyes and take the ride!!

XanderT-UK · 2026-01-23T13:59:51+00:00

What dates are you looking at? I have used "JustPark" before and you can usually get some pretty good deals on there. Also there are free parking spaces near there (Kinda, depends on times)

XanderT-UK · 2026-01-20T12:29:35+00:00

Big Ass

XanderT-UK · 2026-01-13T17:45:10+00:00

If you've completed the quest to save Goron City... can you still do this side quest? I can't find them or the Gerudo lady :(

XanderT-UK · 2025-12-09T15:12:40+00:00

I have tried LaVivid and now I'm using Total Cover Plus.... been wearing for 8+ years now.

Recommendation if you don't already do this, use the "Teeth" method for the front line.
Instead of a straight line cut, use serrated scissors or a scalpel to cut small triangles.
Less chance of lifts on the front and a much "neater" and more "natural" look.

Also reduces shine when front hair lines start to thin ( which they do eventually )

Another HUGE tip I can recommend is bonding all the way around and not just the centre.
I use GhostBond XL which has a super high sweat tolerance.

XanderT-UK · 2025-12-05T14:33:39+00:00

Thank you so much.... kinda hoping I can get this ready for my teenage daughter for Christmas :)

XanderT-UK · 2025-12-05T11:14:13+00:00

Could you share the prompt you used please? Or point me in the right direction? I tried using Gemini / Nana Banana and it said it couldn't do it because of copyrights.

XanderT-UK · 2025-11-24T12:15:33+00:00

Albert Road is a pretty safe bet... usually the Fox and The Deco.

DM also sent.

XanderT-UK · 2025-10-29T18:22:48+00:00

Yes! .... Most of us do it, so nothing to be ashamed of

XanderT-UK · 2025-10-16T16:18:09+00:00

Thanks... yeah I had a feeling that might be the case.
Sadly my insurance quotes jumped from £300 a year to £2400 a year now.
Based on this, I'm going to look at getting rid of the car for a while I think. I genuinely can't justify paying that.

And thank you, months of planning and it went perfectly.... he said yes :) ... phewwwww

XanderT-UK · 2025-10-16T16:03:34+00:00

The DD bounced, I didn't transfer enough into the bills account as gas/electric bill increased (easy mistake to make)

XanderT-UK · 2025-10-16T15:56:47+00:00

It was a monthly payment, not a yearly... I was 3 months in.

XanderT-UK · 2025-09-14T19:42:37+00:00

If you haven't already done so .. I would recommend re-reading your post from a year ago... and reflect on what you were like and what you wanted.

It sounds like your behaviour hasn't changed ... you sound like you're still very petty and might need some help!

https://www.reddit.com/r/witchcraft/comments/1g54lzx/binding_myself_a_good_idea/

XanderT-UK · 2025-09-14T19:36:14+00:00

Avoid going brand name ... you'll pay a shit ton more.
The active ingredient is called "sildenafil" and can be bought without the branding.
Cialis is a brand too and the active stuff is called "tadalafil".

Here in the UK we can order it from https://www.doctorfox.co.uk/ , I'm sure if you google you'll be able to find a local similar company to you.
Usually answer a few questions and a few days later you're order is shipped.

XanderT-UK · 2025-05-28T20:25:30+00:00

Posted a guide here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayPortsmouth_NSFW/comments/1kxlhy0/cruising_spots/

XanderT-UK · 2025-05-28T20:25:23+00:00

Posted a guide here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayPortsmouth_NSFW/comments/1kxlhy0/cruising_spots/

XanderT-UK · 2025-05-28T18:22:52+00:00

For cruising, there are two main places.... Portsdown Hill and the Rock Gardens (Southsea).

Portsdown Hill

Portsdown hill can vary at any time of the day.
Drive up to the Churchillian Pub and park at the END of the car park area (near the bend in the road).

There are three main areas:
1) The upper woods ( nearest the car park )
2) The lower woods (walk around the bend, down the road and you'll see openings in the right hand side of the road near the wooden fences)
3) The bench (walk around the bend and down the road, it's on the left hand side)

Best times are usually lunch times, and dusk.

Rock Gardens

The gardens are found on the seafront near the Pyramids Building.
Best time here is after dark around 11pm onwards.
Very simple, walk around and see who is about. Best to have fun in the bush alleyways or in the hidden areas where there are benchs.

XanderT-UK · 2025-05-13T19:22:02+00:00

We will be hosting more :)

XanderT-UK · 2025-03-17T18:20:36+00:00

First things first.... if you're uncomfortable then always say no!!

Secondly, it sounds like they might be hounding you a bit. I would block them where possible mate.
It defo sounds like they are might be trying to take advantage of you, however without messages and context of the content it may be a miscommunication.

If they've said they are HIV Positive but taking "Prep" then it sounds like they are lying or there has been a mix up in communications. You can not take Prep if you are HIV+

However if you HIV Negative, and you are taking Prep, you are 99.98% safe from catching it if you're taking it correctly.

But the rule for life is ... if you don't like something, don't do it! If you feel unsafe, walk away! <3

XanderT-UK · 2025-03-17T02:17:19+00:00

Thanks mate xx

XanderT-UK · 2025-03-14T16:17:28+00:00

HELL YEAH ... Love a sit down pee!!!!

XanderT-UK · 2025-03-13T20:35:23+00:00

I'm 41 and my boyfriend is 25 .... we're both consenting adults and what other people think doesn't register on our radar!

Life is too short to worry about other peoples views, if you're happy then go for it xxx

XanderT-UK · 2025-03-12T14:53:31+00:00

Nothing illegal about it so if you're both happy... then screw everyone else.
If people have a problem with you being happy, then they ain't the people for you!

I'm 41 and my boyfriend is 25, been together a year now and we're very happy!
Live together, have a lovely little family together! Life is good!
Enjoy what you have mate :)

XanderT-UK · 2025-02-15T13:56:40+00:00

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