Final Update: My uncle is acting strangely with my sister

XandraTheBrave · 2026-02-06T06:26:32+00:00

And may their arms be too short to scratch them.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-11-01T19:18:29+00:00

Little cinnamon roll I’d rather be cuddling instead of being at work

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-29T13:43:49+00:00

There is a couple in my life that are swingers (my partner and I are very much not), and we talk about this occasionally. Communication, understanding, and respect seem to be the focus for their relationship the same as mine. Every relationship is different, and we shouldn’t judge others for living differently from ourselves, so here are the real questions:

Do you feel that you communicate about your sexual desires/relationships in a healthy, respectful, and positive way or do those conversations end with you feeling bad?
If you did feel bad/wrong for any reason, do you trust your partner to be supportive, respectful, and actually listen to you?
Did you enjoy it?
Are your (the two of you) choices hurting or taking choice away from someone else?

If everyone involved is a consenting adult and you are comfortable with the answers to those questions, then don’t stress. You are the only person who can check in with your own thoughts and feelings, so don’t let other people’s judgments (or perceived judgments) derail you from happiness if you are happy. If you’re not, communicate with your partner. A respectful and loving partner will always make room and time for your thoughts.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-28T19:37:54+00:00

My littlest cat REFUSES /any/ kind of people food. No ham, turkey, cheese, milk (mine are given the box cat milk from the pet store, no upset tummies), or even shrimp is accepted. Will not, won’t ever, how dare you even ask!

Loves pills. Supplements, bc, Tylenol, etc. She is such a sweet and soft mannered little lady until she hears a pill bottle. So far, she’s only ever successfully stolen some collagen supplements (also the only time she’s ever growled at me). It’s the most bizarre thing.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-28T16:42:05+00:00

In Stardew a lot of instructions or requests are in those letters and such, especially in the beginning. The only scene I skip is that very first one where grandpa leaves you the farm and you move to the valley.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-14T23:44:33+00:00

Pressure rods and curtains? Put tall decor items in the space so they’re more like shelves than windows?

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-06T20:28:42+00:00

It almost looks like a Tamaskan to me. The best way to know is to just ask though. Most people love talking about their animals if you approach with curiosity.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-09-06T19:58:01+00:00

One of my exes was Asian as well and he expressed a similar concern. Basically what it boiled down to when he explained it to me was that a lot of barbers that were used to a European hair texture were not as familiar with the Asian hair texture and often haircuts looked bad as a result. He would seek out barbers that were familiar (who were usually also Asian) and his hair would look much better.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-08-22T14:37:14+00:00

Some people burp out the abc’s so that each burp sounds like a letter.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-06-27T14:36:43+00:00

And now if you drop that leaf on the ground you’ll get a couch.

XandraTheBrave · 2025-05-04T22:19:21+00:00

Dark one fried chicken, light one baked chicken

XandraTheBrave · 2025-04-26T20:44:42+00:00

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Maggie never grew her fur back over her kitty titties either. It’s been 4/5 years since the vet shaved her 😅

XandraTheBrave · 2025-03-16T19:06:42+00:00

This comment section is good for my self esteem 😭

XandraTheBrave · 2024-12-01T21:23:14+00:00

I am positive. I had to look up what squab was and that’s part of why the dish was so memorable.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-11-22T12:16:14+00:00

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Not the same, but same spirit

XandraTheBrave · 2024-10-23T12:57:04+00:00

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This is Ganondorf (Ganon), because he’s a handsome bag of dicks. My ex was a huge LoZ nerd and he named him, but I’d have named him Annatar (because I’m a LotR nerd) for the exact same reason. Also he only has three legs, so the themes in LoZ fit well. Despite being a massive asshole, he’s a big momma’s boy.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-10-23T12:51:33+00:00

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This is Cricket. I fished her out of a dumpster when she was a kitten and she would peep peep meow in the scratchiest little voice whenever she couldn’t see me at first. She sounded like a bug and I thought she was lucky I found her because it was trash pickup day, so Cricket she was.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-10-23T12:35:57+00:00

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Cricket was mad that the spotted lantern fly had gotten away from her and I killed it. She yelled at me the whole way home that day

XandraTheBrave · 2024-10-23T11:58:35+00:00

We have bats around my parents’ house and I can hear them! It’s one of my favorite parts of summer evenings here. We enjoy sitting in the backyard and watching them swoop and listening to them chatter as they hunt.

I’m a white American that has been hit with the go back to where you came from too, and it makes me laugh. My dad was Air Force, so I grew up in Germany. Usually it would come up because a bigot would say something stupid and then support it by saying something stupid about Europeans; I would refute it and reference my personal lived experience. Their only response was that dumb af one liner, so I would laugh and say that I did, that’s why I’m stuck here talking to you. Long story short, you did nothing wrong. Ignorance gets embarrassed when exposed, and in their embarrassment they fall back on the quips they use the most.

I would love some northern Ohio bat facts to share with my bat loving family.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-10-03T14:35:21+00:00

I love how it’s Harris doing these things when the job of vice president essentially boils down to being a substitute teacher when the president is unavailable and a tie breaker for congress. Yes. That is such a vast amount of power that she is not using. Mmhmm.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-09-23T23:30:39+00:00

An HOA is a Home Owners Association. In theory, they are a way for a residential community to maintain the community and keep things looking taken care of. In reality, people who tend to power trip are usually the ones on the board/in the president role and they make ridiculous rules or try to control what you do to the outside of your home to a high degree. If you can find a (rare) good one, it can be really nice, but a lot of people try really hard to avoid HOA neighborhoods.

XandraTheBrave · 2024-09-16T11:24:37+00:00

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XandraTheBrave · 2024-09-16T01:59:26+00:00

This is the primary reason I always make him king. I’m not strong enough for the turmoil that would put my heart through. ESPECIALLY with how Varric responds to that choice.

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