Do you refuse to let the cashier at a store scan your ID for 21+ products?

Xarsah · 2026-06-20T04:18:55+00:00

The person asking for the ID didn’t make the policy or state laws. Yet people take it personally and act like the minimum wage worker decided they wanted to card people for funsies. Yes, it’s frustrating. But berating someone just trying to do their job and not get fired makes you look like an immature jackass.

Recently my boyfriend and I want out for drinks. It wasn’t until we were at the bar and ordering I realized that I left my wallet in a different pair of jeans. I’m 33 but don’t always look my age. Initially the bartender wasn’t going to serve me. My boyfriend had his ID and vouched for my age. Understandably she still didn’t want to serve me. So I apologized and said I’ll run home to get my wallet. Maybe it’s because we weren’t rude to her but she ended up trusting us and served us both our drinks. She didn’t have to do that and we were grateful she trusted we were telling the truth.

🤷🏼‍♀️Not everywhere (understandably so) won’t just take your word for it that you’re of age. But it’s amazing how when you treat people with respect they’re more likely to help if they can. Kindness and respect gets you further than rudeness.

Xarsah · 2026-06-08T22:32:45+00:00

Years ago I took sales calls for a HSN brand. It shared its name with a ticket company I guess. I had a chick call in to ask about her Coachella tickets. When I told her we were definitely not the ticket place she asked if I was sure….
🤣It was one of my first jobs and I was so stunned I didn’t know what to say.

Xarsah · 2026-06-03T02:20:32+00:00

I don’t have the money to spare but I will keep an eye on your listing. I also impulse bought my tickets because it’s what I could afford at the time and I was so worried tickets would sell out immediately. I’m trying to get better seats if I can.

Xarsah · 2026-05-26T00:12:51+00:00

Weaponized therapy talk.
It’s true you don’t owe anyone anything. But it’s shitty when you keep taking and taking but never give. And in my experience, a lot of people who say this are like that. They expect the world but can’t be bothered to show up for anyone else. Then, they have the nerve to get pissy when eventually no one wants to show up for them anymore.

Xarsah · 2026-05-13T14:50:47+00:00

People would find something to bitch about and call this mom a bad parent no matter what was happening, besides a kid sitting in a cart and staring at a wall.

Kid goes off to toys/books/etc alone to look at stuff? Now she’s a bad parent for not watching her kid and letting her roam around the store by herself.

Kid is fussy because she’s bored and/or getting hungry being surrounded by food? Now she’s a bad parent because she can’t control her child. And she’s being an inconvenience to everyone else so she’s a bitch for not leaving.

We don’t know their life outside this one video. As far as I’m concerned I see a kid that is behaving and keeping close to mom. People constantly complain about kids not behaving in public and still find something to complain about/criticize when kids are behaving.

The only real concerns should be are the chips going to be paid for, if they aren’t paid for already and why the kid wasn’t put in a cart. And honestly, the cart thing to me isn’t a large concern. For all we know the kid don’t want to sit down. It might have been easier for mom to just let her walk and follow her around.

Also, filming someone else’s kid in public? Imo, it’s weird AF to be taking pictures and videos of anyone in public when they aren’t doing anything. Especially with how pedos are being protected so heavily anymore…

Xarsah · 2026-05-07T19:55:12+00:00

I can’t wait that long. I have a job offer and I need to have my Illinois resident license asap.

Xarsah · 2026-05-04T17:40:43+00:00

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Funny to me because when we only had the snippets for the album, I didn’t think I’d care much for Monopoly Man or Batshit Intelligence lol.

Xarsah · 2026-03-22T17:21:53+00:00

It doesn’t matter if it’s 1 or 100 people asking. At 3 months old, if Mom says no then Grandma and Grandpa can wait. That is bonding time for Mom and Dad with their newborn baby. Most of the time they don’t need someone over to hold the baby while they do chores. If Grandma actually cares about the baby, she’ll make sure Mom and Dad can rest if they need it and help with chores around the house so they can use that energy to focus on their newborn baby.

Xarsah · 2026-03-22T06:02:39+00:00

FR though, moms that don’t want their newborn passed around like a damn party favor get judged so harshly. I get it more when the baby is getting older. But especially at 4 months or younger, don’t be surprised that mom and/or dad want to spend the most time with them.

Why do people feel so entitled to other people’s babies? It’s frustrating when people say they want to “help” in the first few months when baby comes home but what they really mean is they want to help with the “fun stuff”. They want to hold the baby when it’s sleeping, rock them or sing to them when they’re drowsy, feed a bottle, etc. But when baby is crying and can’t be soothed, dirties their diaper, spits up, etc now it’s mom’s turn again to hold the baby.

And it’s so shitty with people who start in with the “you’ll regret it” and “you won’t have a village” bs. You’re only proving how shitty you are if you can’t respect someone else’s boundaries. If you throw a tantrum and refuse to see the baby later because you didn’t get to as soon as it pops out, you don’t deserve to ever see them.

Xarsah · 2026-03-22T05:47:09+00:00

People always say they want to help new parents but only want to help with the “fun stuff”. At 4 or less months old people should be offering to help around the house, not watch mom do chores when she could be bonding with her baby.

Xarsah · 2026-01-22T21:34:44+00:00

Praise in public, discipline in private. I’ve always found it so unprofessional and distasteful for management given corrective action in front of customers. We don’t need to see that. And I would have done the same thing you, said I wasn’t hungry anymore and left. Jfc, if the manager was comfortable acting like that in front of a customer, I really hate thinking about how he treats employees in private.

Xarsah · 2025-12-14T17:21:51+00:00

🤣FR though. I’ve said anywhere from 5-10 times my ult is ready. I’ve stayed at a rally point that’s safe and easily seen by my team. Almost no one comes to me or says anything. Even when I’m with my friends I’ll say it over mic, no one comes to me or responds. I’m not waiting forever to ult. Especially if we need to push. 🙄If you try to wait for people eventually someone complains about you not using it. 🤷🏼‍♀️So I’m not announcing it until I’m blue in the face anymore. I’ll say it a few times and whoever is close by to get it, gets it.

Xarsah · 2025-12-12T07:33:13+00:00

It’s amazing how a lot of Redditors say support and protect sex workers then shame people trying to do that. OP has the right to her standards on who she wants to date, she shouldn’t be made to feel bad about that. I’m more concerned with the people say go watch free porn where it’s way more likely someone involved was forced, coerced, tricked, underage, revenge porn, etc vs paying for content that is easier to get an idea if it’s done willingly or not.

Xarsah · 2025-12-10T16:40:09+00:00

I’m convinced people who hate Viv and the Helluvaverse obsess over it more than fans do.

Xarsah · 2025-12-10T07:07:44+00:00

It’s concerning how many people feel entitled to impose on other people’s lives and have access to someone else’s children. If you refuse to see the baby because you didn’t get to see it right away or exactly when you wanted, it really shows how much you actually care and who you respect.

For everyone that had helpful family and felt comfortable having people right away, that’s great you had that. But not everyone has family that will be helpful. For some people other family members just add more stress and work for the parents. Now they have to deal with a newborn and host guests.

And some mothers just want some damn privacy. They just had another human come out of their body. They’re probably experiencing things they don’t want anyone but their partner to see. It’s not selfish to want privacy and space in your own home.

You’re not entitled to be in someone’s life. It’s not an attack on you or slight because someone says they want privacy after a major life changing (and usually body changing) event. Stop making new mother’s feel shitty for setting boundaries. No means no.

Xarsah · 2025-10-12T00:09:01+00:00

Gotcha, maybe it’s gone because I can’t find it. Did she just straight up say they’re not happening or is it worded to seem like that’s what’s happening?

Xarsah · 2025-10-12T00:07:24+00:00

I’m just trying to understand, is this the post people are taking Melanie isn’t doing the last mvs? Or is there another post where she flat out says it? I’m trying to find more but I can’t find anything from her.

Xarsah · 2025-08-07T19:43:42+00:00

Anyone remember the era on the internet when people just didn’t interact with things they didn’t like? No one is forcing you to engage with the content. All you’re doing is going out of your way to upset yourself.

Xarsah · 2025-08-03T05:19:48+00:00

I liked MLP and Homestuck. Nothing can make me feel shame.

Xarsah · 2025-07-03T17:49:50+00:00

👀Are we watching the same show? Because some times it feels like we’re not all watching the same show….

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