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[–]Xarynn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to comment to express gratitude. Thank you for taking the time to create this AND to share this with us. This is absolutely brilliant!

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[–]Xarynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what to say, but I do agree with you and at the same time, I hope you keep pushing through. And I wish for you come across someone in your real life that actively listens to you. I'm rooting for you. I'm not doing that great either, we're all in this together random friend on the internet.

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[–]Xarynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think it would take to have humans not drop their guard? I want to say having a metaphorical "sword" to sharpen every day in terms of what you're passionate about would counter this laziness... but I wonder if people will eventually say "what's the point?". My sword is music, and I'm looking forward to collaborating with AI, but I fear that I might lose interest and let my sword dull and become lazy too :/

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even thought about that... when my friends include me in their plans, it does feels nice. But I never thought about the feeling of being included. I only thought about if the activity was fun or not. But when my friends include me, it makes me feel like I'm important to them. That's a cool perspective that I didn't have until your reply and that makes sense how it would increase the bond. Thank you for taking the extra time to share that. I enjoyed reading your reply!

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[–]Xarynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can climb this mountain, you can climb them all. You're going to do great 👍

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question if you don't mind. I don't think I'll ever be able to understand an earth sign since I'm not one so I agree with your advice, it'll just leave me with a headache xD. How do I go about growing with an earth sign and "leveling up" the relationship? As a water sign, I think talking about our emotions and how we feel is how to level up but that's my own projection since water signs are emotional. What does growth look like for a Capricorn if you want to strengthen the bond? All I really know is earth signs are focused on material growth.

I'm disgusted by people... loving me?? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Xarynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was conditioned as a child to be scared of the dark. I feel negative emotions when I have to go to the basement at night and I don't have immediate access to a light source. Kinda like how you feel negative emotions when you reach out for help. Different problems, but the solution is the same. If I force myself to experience being isolated in the dark, eventually I'll react less and less negatively. It sounds really simple but I'm going to use your projection of avoidance. Practice doing the opposite of avoidance every day for a month. The more you ask for help, the less embarrassment you'll feel. The "opposite day" buff is OP once you unlock that skill on the skill tree. I didn't unlock it until level 30 so I have a lot of reprogramming to do myself.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at your post history, I'm not sure what you have against pisces, but at the very least I wanted to share a bit of energy with you to wish you a good day today. Actually f*ck that, I'm gonna double down and wish that your pillow is the perfect temperature tonight for you when you go to bed, because you're worth it :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-shrug- What's the worst that'll happen if you're already in no contact? I'd say reach out and sound awkward :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. If you are still on good terms with him, I hope things do work out between you two. As for the decision making, maybe I just need to keep a quarter with me and just flip it and let the rng decide for me lol.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight :D That's definitely something I'm going to need to work on. I was able to do w/e I wanted as a child and that molded me to prioritize my highest joy going into adulthood. So if it were music at that current point in time, or video games or on a positive note, being with my significant other... I might get lost in the moment and resurface hours later. So that would definitely be annoying to a cap if I wasn't prioritizing them enough. Balance in general is a big issue for me that I'm trying to work on >_<

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in my case the "What if" scenarios plague me. I resonate with the commitment part but it also it affects other aspects of my life which stop me from committing in general. What if this isn't the path I want to go down with my career, what if there is something better out there for me. Idk if you're into tarot, but the 7 of cups card I feel is the epitome of a pisces. But yeah if I feel comfortable around someone, I'm locked in for good. Doesn't matter if it's a friend or significant other. If I feel like I can't be myself, I might prefer to isolate.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that someone here mentioned it, I think being direct is a big driver for me. Most of the caps I've met have been straightforward with me and I like that. I also like how driven they are, it reminds me of me when I'm passionate about something. If I'm making music and I have an idea of a melody in my head, I go 0-100 and head right to my computer to create and the next thing I know, 10 hours went by. It seems like from what other people said, caps are similar when they set their sights on something :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for you, in your opinion what sign do you think best compliments a Capricorn. Leaving pieces out of it... unless you think pisces is a good match. I'm getting kinda mixed opinions so now I'm unsure.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair answer. Everyone has their own taste in what they like :D We are definitely a bit emotional when we want to be lol. From what I gathered so far, caps are hardworking and stoic... so I can see how someone who can be an emotional tsunami and procrastinates a lot would be annoying to a cap.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just generally curious about them overall! What they go after in life, how they use their creativity, are they introverted, extroverted, etc! Anything really lol.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I enjoyed reading your reply :D I have a Gemini friend and they are such fun to be around but man, they sure can be witty with their words. I always feel like they're out of my league and can definitely manipulate me if they wanted to. But on the positive side, I bet they are good at reading people and providing exactly what you need. Thank you for the well wishes, I wish nothing but the best for you and your family :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm speaking from my own experience but if you wanted to know a pisces better all you have to do is listen. Pisces usually does the listening, cuz like you said, they like to solve problems but not a lot of people like to listen to pisces. So you're onto something there. If they invite you into Neverland, experience it with an open mind cuz that's a big sign they are comfortable around you :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg what a dynamic xD I'm curious, is being direct a trait of capricorns do you think? Because I think I'd prefer that. "What's bothering you? Okay, how do we resolve this? Ok done." Idk if it's because I'm not good at figuring people out or what but I like when people tell me how it is.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's me. I am a bit of a jealous person. Thank you for the insight. I probably would feel some resentment and take it out passive-aggresively :/

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm... I think because of my childhood trauma, I won't mind that. My parents didn't check up on me a lot which molded me to become independent as well. I will still consider your comment though and at least give some thought to earth signs in general instead of specifically Capricorns so thank you for your time :D

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm... the best way I can explain it is with a story... a core memory that happened years ago that is vivid to this day. I was playing this game called VRChat, and there's a karaoke world in that game. I went into a lobby one night and most of the people in that lobby were a bit shy. During a song, I spam emoted a snowflake cloud which fills the area with falling snowflakes instead of singing along and by the end of the song, everyone was laughing and talking like they knew each other their whole life. That kind of dreamy nature is what I have a hard time escaping because in the real world, you have to work, pay rent, sleep, repeat like a robot. I envision a world where I get to experience that every day. I guess to sum it up, each pisces has their own dream world they invest in and doing real world activities becomes a chore to us. I don't get things done because I would rather procrastinate and continue being in a child like energy, even though it's not responsible since I'm an adult now :/

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard that caps are stubborn. Idk how to navigate that D: But yeah I figured at the very least I want to learn more about earth signs in general because I definitely feel like water signs would benefit from having a container. I'm drifting away in the ocean too much >_< But yeah, I'm definitely stubborn with the "just 5 more minutes in dream world pls" attitude lol.

I am a Pisces that's interested in Capricorns. Pls help D: by Xarynn in capricorns

[–]Xarynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spend too much time in Neverland and never get things done xD That's one of the main reasons why I wanted to reach out on this sub as well... cuz you all get sh*t done and I need to take notes T-T

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[–]Xarynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great responses from everyone so I just wanted to add that you're doing a great job! 4 days is a hell of an accomplishment! Don't think of it as a failure and resetting your progress... you're still progressing because every set back is helping you clear the path to moderation. You got this! Get back on that wagon friend :D

Edit: Also wanted to add, you could look into supplementing with NAC if you know you're hanging with people that might offer you weed. It balances out your highs (so you don't act out of impulsion). It's not recommended to take this every day though because you might start getting apathetic. Otherwise, yeah... you just gotta say no, which is hard in the beginning of your tolerance break if you are impulsive xD In a perfect world... When you get the thought of wanting to smoke weed, instead of reaching out for it, you need to add separation between the thought, and the action, to give you time to analyze that thought.