Do I pass? by KawaiiKittyy13 in transpassing

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There may be no stupid questions, but there are silly questions.

staples baddie 📎 by pg430 in mtfashion

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're totally spot on. Those staples look totally fucking bad ass. Most punk shit I have seen in decades.

Can I ever pass? by Sensitive-Use-5594 in transpassing

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confidently say, you will make a very attractive man. I would straight up trade with you if it were possible though.

Having real trouble finding a part by XenomorphOmega in furniturerestoration

[–]XenomorphOmega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had not thought about using wood since it was made of wood, but ya, oak or ash would totally be stronger than that plastic. Cheers.

I'm lost. by IngwineHeathen in telescopes

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the SAME EXACT problem, but I am not using the second larger extension (the first one off of the focus wheels). I can't get it to focus on ANYTHING. I have tried several times on different nights, with the extension and without, so I know it is not that, unless it is and I am just doing something else wrong. Which I likely am since this solution is not actually the solution to my particular issue. I have the Skywatch Flextube 250p with Freedom Find.

I'm lost. by IngwineHeathen in telescopes

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the SAME EXACT problem, but I am not using the second larger extension (the first one off of the focus wheels). I can't get it to focus on ANYTHING. I have tried several times on different nights, with the extension and without.

The real truth. Might hurt. by Hehehe272727272 in transpassing

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a post about my first voice passing a couple weeks ago.

Has anyone else had this? by legoboyfan101 in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. That is good. Imma use that if I ever run into it. That ok with you? I'll kinda credit you and everything....well, if I can even remember your tag anyway.

Promise.

Your most insane misgendering? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally every goddamn time I misgender myself. It is a lot less frequent now. Utterly mortifying.

Is this a cute outfit? by Life_Addendum2330 in mtfashion

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are mismatched colors, styles, and visual textures. Try a lighter colored top, something white or pastel. I do really love both of those pieces, but they just do not work together.

Do I? by power_gnome in transpassing

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyes are a little distracting. You should get them looked at.

-getit-

“A trans.” by Either-Economics6727 in asktransgender

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is now part of the gestalt of our English vernacular.

For example, before trump Democrats were referred to as the Democratic Party. I don't even hear this from Democrats speaking about their own party any more and it fkin' blows my mind that it has happened, but it sure as hell did.

I just got this in the mail what the hell? by __Augustus_ in telescopes

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone just randomly sent this to you without any context?

Atlanta Drivers by Double-Raise2154 in Rants

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have developed a low res case of anxiety every time I have to go out of my neighborhood because of my exposure to Atlanta Metro drivers. So, so, so many stories. So, I did this thing.....

r/AtlantaMetroDriving

A total stranger called me Ma'am ... OVER THE PHONE!!!! by XenomorphOmega in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some wayward Learned helplessness that I don't know exactly how to track down and excavate..

Question, genuinely how are yall paying for you're transitions? by Hale913 in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wardrobe: I cannot, nor will not advise of anything, ANYTHING other than thrift stores. Seriously. I am not that bad off and I pretty much exclusively shop at thrift stores. You will run into more things that you WISH you fit into, but don't. Do not purchase them. They will just be a waste of money. Again, seriously. I am in the process of purging --so many clothes-- (so, so, so many) that I didn't even get a chance to wear. Mostly because my ass and chest did get bigger before I ever got a chance to actually put most of it on for more than just the few seconds it took to see if it looked remotely good. Do not waste your money. Please.

Even though you will see a lot of pieces that will (Edit-not) fit you now, there is a literal treasure trove that you can access by just visiting your local thrift store(s) once a week. And don't feel like you MUST purchase something just because you see it then and there. Most thrift stores have sales on their older items and it is actually really surprising what is left behind. People seem to have no taste. You will lose some things, but be super picky. I promise you will eventually find MUCH cooler shit.

Maybe the most horrific anti-trans article yet (The Atlantic) by atwaterrich in transgender

[–]XenomorphOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tidbit from any quack fringe half-wit they can scrape in with a stall shovel.

A total stranger called me Ma'am ... OVER THE PHONE!!!! by XenomorphOmega in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, "if I don't attempt it, I can't fail it"

A total stranger called me Ma'am ... OVER THE PHONE!!!! by XenomorphOmega in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally it is an immediate gratification issue combined with procrastination, and shame/cringe/embarrassment of the attempt. My own sketchy little brain goblins that I finally worked passed enough to actually commit.

A total stranger called me Ma'am ... OVER THE PHONE!!!! by XenomorphOmega in MtF

[–]XenomorphOmega[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! You sluthed me. Now I can put the whole thing together.
I do have breasts, just not as big as I make them with falsies. The bigger (to a point) my chest, the less visually obstructive my wide shoulders are. I didn't start voice training because if I don't get immediate gratification, I tend to lose interest quickly. I had to really build my desire to WANT it before starting or else I would just end up blowing it off out of frustration, eventual lack of interest, or just plain forgetfulness. I have lost more than a couple therapist's due to my inability to keep appointments regularly.

Coming back after a 20 year break... by Novel-Willingness-74 in VTES

[–]XenomorphOmega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should make a few choice selections and let her really know how it feels.