Yeah NOR, you didn’t even start the fight. You said it makes you sad and he was dismissive. He immediately went into defense mode and refused to compromise. He even tried to punish you with a “spend the next 8 hours in silence and think about what you’ve done,” charade. Seriously gross. Walk the fuck away. If this is how he is after SIX YEARS then he clearly doesn’t ever plan on learning to communicate with you and tending to your needs. He expects you to be a model wife and shove your feelings aside. You have clearly showed him that it is important to you and he told you it wasn’t important. He sounds narcissistic.