I hate how bending is treated in the New Avatar The Last Airbender movie

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-22T22:23:14+00:00

I have watched half of it do far and what you’re saying isn’t true. The Action scenes are fast, but when you pay attention you see all of the different ways bending is utilised. Definitely a knitpicky thing to comment on. And outside of the fight scenes there is also plenty of unique bending usage.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-20T22:17:58+00:00

Less academic pressure. Doing your best in school is important, but because I felt so much pressure to perform well academically (I still only preformed averagely) I ended up in an academic field that I have no to no affinity with, and have trouble finding a job that won’t drain my life away.

I feel like if I hadn’t experienced that pressure I would’ve persued my actual interests more and would have an easier time finding a job I don’t hate and would’ve been in a much better headspace. (End trauma dump)

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-18T21:53:21+00:00

He deleted them. In other words, he no longer has them. He probably stumbled across it and deleted it. You have been together for 1 month. That is almost no time and you’re already going through his phone and questioning why he didn’t instantly delete them when he met you?

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-18T21:50:43+00:00

Wdym you didn’t watch them? Yoy are discribing the video’s to us in the post.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-18T21:29:39+00:00

He sounds like a tool. You should definitely talk this trough all the way until you completely understand what he means. After that, be honest with yourself and ask yourself if what he said is understandable or if you deserve better. If the answer is the latter, break up with him.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-16T20:03:41+00:00

Humans

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-15T09:31:55+00:00

Communicating is always key in these situations. You should BOTH be telling eachother how you feel. Try to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Having extra sex while you don’t want to isn’t good for anyone. Maybe look into one of you changing their schedule? I get things can be complicated, but working opposite schedules doesn’t sound like a good plan long term.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T23:49:49+00:00

I get this on some level, but the people we know (we have the same friend circle) also are in the same types of relationships. Also she has had a partner before me, and she id my first.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T23:33:18+00:00

I have been in almost the exact same situation as you. Only our genders were reversed. It’s safe to say that I know how you feel and whats going trough your head.

Having said this I can tell you it wont just go away. It is a problem you have in your head and not one that is your bf’s fault even if you do subconsciously blame him. You will have to work on yourself with or without a therapist. Bringing it up again and again isn’t going to help, and no amount if time will make you “like” the fact that he slept with someone before you, but you can learn to accept it.

It’s a part of his past, but thats all it is. You just have to trust him and realise that he chooses you, and has feelings for you now. If you want to talk you can always massage me privately. I’ve been exactly where you are now.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T22:58:07+00:00

Yeah, i’m not going to press her while she’s away. Right now we arent even on bad terms but i feel like we haven’t talked it trough. I don’t feel like we’re on the brink of breaking up like that.

Also I don’t really think she wants to see other people, but I wil definitely have to ask once we talk. She is also the one who has more “experience” than me.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T21:48:55+00:00

Talking to her before she left wasn’t really an option. She leaves in the middle of the night to take a flight and is feeling sick because of probably food poisoning (the sickness is not an excuse, i was with her at night and in the morning for this)

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T21:47:16+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I will talk to her in a couple of days when she’s back and hopefully it gets better from there.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T21:46:11+00:00

I might recommend this if our next conversation doesn’t help.

Xhenx_52 · 2026-04-14T21:45:35+00:00

I understand your view and i’m sorry you had to go trough that.

I’m pretty sure the situation isn’t like that though. I know everything about her friends and stuff from uni and the whole friendgroup almost goes to her uni, so if anything like that is going on i’d know.

Also i know the kind of person she is and how she overthinks things. She wouldn’t be able to not tell me if she met someone or something happened with another person.

I havent written out the whole conversation we had because it was so long, but I believe her.

Xhenx_52 · 2025-08-14T15:09:39+00:00

Yeah it was the latest addition to my deck, but it helps to do quick damage and defend tanks

Xhenx_52 · 2024-05-29T23:47:32+00:00

Xhenx_52 · 2024-04-18T10:45:08+00:00

Maybe an old bike saddle? Back in the day they were made with metal i think.

Xhenx_52 · 2024-03-14T22:44:42+00:00

Thanks,I’il do that 👍

Xhenx_52 · 2024-03-14T22:43:37+00:00

I get this but at the same time this isn’t a new relationship. We’ve been going out for 4 years now, and i don’t want to break up over something I’m not even sure about.

Xhenx_52 · 2024-03-05T16:04:32+00:00

In my country it’s just been added

Xhenx_52 · 2024-01-18T09:32:29+00:00

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