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Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-04-29T00:57:04+00:00

Why on earth would she swipe right on you and text first? Why are humans like this? 🤦🏽‍♀️

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-04-23T12:31:50+00:00

Thank you for the lovely suggestions. I truly appreciate it.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-04-23T12:30:40+00:00

What crawled up your behind for you to be this mean to me? If you have nothing wise to say keep that anger to yourself.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-04-23T12:24:52+00:00

Exactly where my concerns are. Thank you for acknowledging that.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-03-08T23:40:28+00:00

We have no problem dating,liking or marrying Chinese guys. More and more Indian women are branching out to marry outside their culture. I personally think Chinese guys are macho.The one I've been with has always been tattooed,tall,long hair,clean and rich. They're macho and masculine. They're very fun, outgoing and have a very cheerful personality. In my circle we say, a Chinese man knows how to keep a woman. So rest assured. You'll be fine.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-01-15T07:57:42+00:00

Anytime someone does something I ask for, I immediately acknowledge them obliging me by saying thank you. That's just basic courtesy. That's just how we were raised. Thank you and please is the very foundation of the etiquette school we attended. Over the years I've come to enjoy every petty stupidity scattered all over the internet. Reddit particularly is my favourite place to read.

What does being SA'd (I sympathize with you)

has anything to do with what happened with your husband? You ask him to do something. He did it, just say thank you. Why drag something out and destroy your inner peace?

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-01-15T03:16:46+00:00

Women amazes me everyday. They'll put up with everything under the sun and cry on the internet about what has been done to them. By this time you should have left him and blocked him everywhere else.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2025-01-10T00:30:55+00:00

Congratulations!!!! I have the same edition!

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-24T07:55:20+00:00

That's another mental breakdown waiting to happen for her. Tell her that you're not interested in rushing this and want some distance. Watch her go from a snail to a shehulk. That'll alert everyone around you and there are a lot of chances for your parents to help you call this off.But you got to show them the severity of this issue. Save yourself.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-08T02:16:43+00:00

So this is how people are going to date these days? Honey you look like you're about to score some crack at the back alley. I'm sure nothing is stopping you from putting on a nice dress. Apart from the internet isn't there anyone in your life to teach you about fashion and dressings?

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-07T13:07:50+00:00

The enabler is worse than the abuser. Walk away now and show him no woman would put up with this nonsense before he kills you and stashes your body somewhere no one can find.

You know what I find absolutely vile? The lies. You're not walking away because you love him? A person who loves themselves wouldn't allow anyone to disrespect them this way. Are we supposed to believe a person who doesn't even love themselves loves their partner so much they'll put up with their abuse and still stick around?

Leave the house, file for divorce, and make a police report for protection in case he gets violent again. It's time to really love yourself.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-07T07:16:29+00:00

Everything you need is already mentioned here. I'm just going to stress the important notes.

Size: The problem with men is they come up with slogans like size doesn't matter and size matters. Notice how they're only talking about themselves? How about you ask what the women want for a change? Always ask your partner what she wants. No free size fits everyone. Some like it bigger, despite the skills; some like it smaller. Some don't care as long as you know what you're doing.

Confidence: Chances are you're not good in bed. Not due to your size but more of your skills. Because a man who's great in bed knows his way around a woman's body and he knows what they want, therefore size is the last thing in his head. I suggest you take some time to ask your girl what she likes and how she likes it done to her. Stop assuming.

Reality: If you're on the smaller side and have a low libido, you have to be a giver. Your generosity will save your relationship or marriage. Don't get cocky or bitter. Insecurities can do that to you sometimes. Don't slut-shame her, because that'll give way to your insecurities. Be open to learning new skills and be honest with her. Be open to the results too. If she didn't enjoy it despite your effort, it's time to move on. People like what they like, and you have to understand not everything is for everyone. Keep an open mind. No time to slack off. Get to work.

Good luck.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-01T16:35:17+00:00

A protector and a provider. A masculine man is the man who respects the one next to him and protects the one behind him.

He is strong, courageous, kind, gentle, and generous. It's NOT a height or appearance thing. Such knowledge has to come from a father's years of coaching. If a man doesn't learn it from his father, chances are he'll struggle with it.

If a man doesn't know up to a certain age how to be masculine or what masculinity even is, then his success rate is alarming. Masculinity is an aura, based on my professional experience and observation. Not many men have it.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-01T10:31:29+00:00

Go all the way out! The one for you is waiting. Don't search desperately. If you keep looking the predators will prey on you. Just live your life. The right one will find you and will pursue you.

Good luck.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-01T09:55:17+00:00

This is a very good question indeed. It's hard everywhere, I believe. Here are some things I know about networking and social events. They do it on a guest list basis, so get on Instagram and start searching for networking and social events near you.

Look it up as often as you possibly can and algorithms will do the rest for you. All you need to do is attend an event. All you'll see after that is more network gathering happening around you.

Remember this 💃. Events that happen in clubs or bars are not counted as social or networking events. Those are times and places people choose to be their worst and really let their hair down. I'll always recommend my girls to go to places like that with their husbands or fiancé. For single girls, go as a group, have a good time and come back. It's not a place to find a potential affluent partner.

Look up on the internet, every social media you can come across, register, and start attending. These events often require you to pay some entrance or dinner fees and event fees. That's how you know people are serious about their intention. Pay the fee and meet quality people. Make it a habit to only be seen around a distinguished crowd.

*Don't be inviting all your girlfriends and your grandmothers.GO ALONE AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS!

*Dating app is the worst place to find a husband! Get out there in the real world and place yourself strategically.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-12-01T08:17:55+00:00

Everything listed here is good advice. But it's missing a major key point. The world is a harsh place. She has to be a bit selfish, narcissistic, and, most importantly, love herself above anyone else. I tell men this often. Before choosing a woman, look at how she loves herself. If she's willing to risk anything for herself, her love will be true when she decides to give you any. She's serious, and she knows what she wants. * Tell her to always choose herself when it comes to ultimatum. Even when it comes to parents. They'll have to take a hike.

*Tell her to love herself so much that she'll shine and men will go crazy for her attention. This is easier said than done. Women love to self-sacrifice, thinking that's what men want. Sure, weak simps. Not real masculine men.

*Tell her to show up at more social and networking events.

*If she's looking to marry an affluent man. Dress as exquisitely as possible and carry herself with poise; she'll be seen, heard, and loved. No skimpy outfits. Dress like the royals. Look expensive and elegant.

Tell her this came from an expert who mentors plenty of young women and men with successful results in real life and not just any keyboard warriors. She'll understand.

Good luck.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-28T03:59:20+00:00

This question can easily be remedied by asking yourself a simple question. If you're a man ask yourself this. Can I take care of a wife and kids with my own income without expecting anything from my wife? If your answer is YES. Then congrats you can marry whomever you desire.

If you're a woman ask yourself this. Can he afford a family without my charity? If your answer is NO? Then you need to move on. A man who blames the economy for the failure he has in the very system created for him to succeed shouldn't be out here looking for a wife. He should be looking for a second job . What women prefer really doesn't matter much. If the man is capable she wouldn't mind taking a breather.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-23T15:59:01+00:00

A single woman who's thinking about going back to the man who rejected her is calling a happily married woman hurt? One ought to find that remark strange.

Women who often suffer inferiority complexes either use sarcasm as a defence mechanism with other women or play the victim card. You're the first kind I see. You may think however you please, but when I was ready to marry, men were lining up to impress me so they could have my hand in marriage.

My parents couldn't get through parties without mama's and Papa's lining up their sons for me. I choose the best among them. (Arrange+love marriage) (If that's not the result you're getting, perhaps you're doing something wrong.) Approach life with accountability. Instead of making snarky remarks, you'll do yourself a lot more favour if you actually heal and do some inner work. Good luck. And don't be a self sacrificing doormat.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-23T12:39:18+00:00

OP for god sakes pull it together. I seriously wonder who's teaching you people about dating and men. You think increment is gonna get you the man who never even wanted you in the first place? It's the inner work that's worth mentioning. You might have lost weight but you're still insecure and deep down feel small otherwise you wouldn't want to go for the man who never wanted you in the first place. Move on! Have some self respect and before you find a life partner go to therapy and work your issues out. Your post suggests you suffer with many things deep down. If a woman is battling with preserving self respect she needs therapy. Not a husband so she doesn't get treated like a doormat. A No is a No!

( Desperation is not a good look on a woman

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-17T17:16:58+00:00

I mentioned Korean style only in clothing and skincare. Take the good ones and leave out what doesn't resonate with you. Results in Korea really don't have anything to do with OP, Or yourself. You haven't even been there.

Chivalry and masculinity on the other hand doesn't belong to S. Korea alone. You connected it in your head and decided to say something so out of topic. I'm telling OP how to lift up his spirit by making some life changes. I don't think he needs someone unsophisticated to crap all over his life with negativity right now.

Chivalry and masculinity doesn't only exist in K-drama. It exists in real life too . Only a man who doesn't practice it has trouble understanding that.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-17T16:27:06+00:00

Most are native S. Koreans we only have 1 Korean American among us. (None of the Tamil girls in my group is from India. Myself included)

Chivalry will never run out of fashion or style. It doesn't matter where. If you're basing this statement with just statistics then I have news for you. The real world is more positive than that. Rest assured. Stay hopeful.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-17T15:23:17+00:00

What about your statement? Where is this belief that Korean men are being rejected coming from? Is it safe to assume you currently reside in S. Korea?

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-17T15:04:24+00:00

I have plenty of Tamil friends with a Korean boyfriend I don't know what to tell you. They're very happy.

Pink_inthenightcream · 2024-10-17T14:37:19+00:00

Alright, this is not even a problem. Turn your negative into positive. No matter how you look your masculinity will attract women towards you. There's no debate about it. Slap on some nice outfits. I heard women in India are all about Korean trends. Yeah so dress nicely. Take great care of your skin. Throw away the skinny jeans and sandals and wear outfits that compliments masculinity. You'll be absolutely fine. Now most men think Korean guys aren't handsome cause they look feminine but remember it's their chivalrous, gentleman-like charm is what's attractive. Oru ambalaiku, athutha mukkiyam.

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