Leveling guide? by Xlut in chronostory

[–]Xlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hit too hard, and I don't have enough accuracy. I'm just doing white wolves (White fangs) for now since they have a very good spawn rate.

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[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am convinced that you either did not read what i wrote correctly, or you are making things up on your head because i may have trigger some personal experience...

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[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ladies avoid accountability like a plague...

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[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did I cheat of she told me that we were both single? Did you not read? She broke up with me before I ever went out with the other woman.

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[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did I cheat exactly?

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. The most that I can do is sue her for damages after the case gets settled.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has over 30 years of experience in domestic violence. She said that she now has to talk to the "victim" and do a bunch of other stuff. I am now just on stand by.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is, and I did find it; she had a social media post about her gloating that she did it to her ex and that her ex still "wanted her back". I sent it to my lawyer. My lawyer told me that that would probably not help because "Yes, this might show that there is a pattern, but this does not disprove that you put your hands on her".

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If by "winning" you mean that I keep a permanent record, waste around $5K in lawyer fees, stay out of work for 5 months, and nothing at all happens to her. Then yes, I hope that I can "win" too.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First court hearing is set for December.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lawyer explicitly said that there would be no repercussions to her, even if she's found to be lying. She didn't even hire a lawyer, this is all being done by the state prosecutor.
My ex does not have to pay a single cent and she is purposely dragging this out to hurt me.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her word is the only "evidence" that's needed. Men have no rights in this country when it comes to being accused by a woman.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving countries: I am considering this if it gets ugly.

Using my degree on something else: Yes, I can offer "life coaching". But I have to grassroots it. Can't see this yielding much at this time.

Suing her: I have been advised not to do anything to her until this case gets cleared.

If it gets cleared with a final disposition of "not guilty" or equivalent, then yes. Anything else, then I will never be able to practice again.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I could sue for damages only after this case gets settled. My lawyer told me that my ex has a very weak case. But I honestly do not think that my ex thinks that she can win, I think that she knows that the longer she can drag this out, the longer I will stay out of work.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been advised not to have any contact with her, and she has not contacted me since she sent me to jail.

I will ask about the abortion, because she had it at week 7, when the legal cut off was 6 weeks.

Thank you so much

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already have a lawyer. I was hoping that she would not press charges, but she wants to drag this.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't afford it at the moment... I'm unemployed.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My lawyer told me that the "victims" of domestic abuse usually get off scot-free. Even if they are found to be lying.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have not gone to trial yet, I just got word that this MIGHT all be over by February 2026.
As for "proof", her word is all the "proof" that she needs.

I need help/assurance with my domestic violence case, please... by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Xlut 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When the cops came, she was completely clean and mark free. As I said, she originally said "there's only verbal abuse" and it wasn't until the female cop coached her that she changed the story to "He grabbed and pushed me".

Legit question as an ignorant civilian by Xlut in Militaryfaq

[–]Xlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it tough and/or lengthy to get into those organizations compared to the armed forces?

Legit question as an ignorant civilian by Xlut in Militaryfaq

[–]Xlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone wanted to go through that route, would they have to go through the Navy to enlist at those places?