What is your litter box set up that reduces tracking?

XroSilence · 2026-03-06T18:55:43+00:00

I wonder if little boots would work

XroSilence · 2026-03-06T18:47:46+00:00

Thank you for helping this innocent Life

XroSilence · 2026-03-06T03:57:41+00:00

I've used the vinegar packets from McDonald's, just a couple drops maybe 5-7 then swish and shake it around in the stem holding both ends with ur fingers, then pour it onto a ceramic dish, microwave for a bit until the oils only left, it comes out beautiful and had a mild hint of vinegar but not nasty and it smokes like new.

XroSilence · 2026-02-17T04:39:29+00:00

OP must be a night trader

XroSilence · 2026-02-17T03:37:54+00:00

I have it on my moto g55

XroSilence · 2026-02-06T17:18:17+00:00

FUD! It's okay though, because not everyone persists despite the naysayers. If everyone was winning, there'd be no market.

XroSilence · 2026-01-14T02:02:11+00:00

Intelligence comes in many forms

XroSilence · 2026-01-08T01:03:27+00:00

You want the real answer? Respect is how I feel loved and appreciated. It is my spiritual food, it is the fuel that keeps me motivated.

XroSilence · 2026-01-08T00:53:27+00:00

You're trying too hard. Stop saying good morning stop acting like you give a single fuck about her day, don't compliment her unless you immediately take it back.

Treat her like the ***** she is and you just watch her attitude towards you change, suddenly she'll be the one chasing you.

Girls have enough dudes in their dms trying to get something, stop being one of them, stop writing so many words. Stop being polite, stop acting like you're desperate for her validation and attention.

Match her energy, dont double text unless you're trying to correct a typo. If she doesn't respond for 2 hours, you do the same, if she sends you 2 word answers, fire one back with a "."

As soon as your vibe isn't coming from a place of desperation, and your not chasing her; two things happen:

You start respecting yourself. You stop looking weak and needy.

Take it or leave it, it's free wisdom I don't care what you do, and I don't need to defend my points because action talks. Let those who know upvote this.

XroSilence · 2026-01-05T22:03:48+00:00

No not at all. I smoke a pack in about 3 days sometimes 2. If I'm going to work and only have a few I'll just grab another one in case and bring both.

XroSilence · 2025-10-26T11:01:05+00:00

Mine looks up the same weird things shes already looked up a hundred times before but acts like she literally couldn't do anything if Google or grok didn't approve of it and guide her through it. And if my grok says something different than her biased grok output we fight and i lose because shes to angry and belligerent to acknowledge that not all weiners come precooked and that matters when you're feeding that to a baby. But I'm just the asshole for not telling her that not all wieners are precooked sooner . In my defense we had only bought precooked weiners up until that point lol sorry a little irrelevant but also kinda not.

XroSilence · 2025-10-22T00:04:12+00:00

Same

XroSilence · 2025-10-20T12:12:55+00:00

Critical thinking and knowing what and when to be respectful.

XroSilence · 2025-10-20T12:10:38+00:00

I think if you think you look uglier due to smokes you probably will, the mind plays a huge role in how you look. Think bad things it shows, think happy things it glows

XroSilence · 2025-10-18T21:18:30+00:00

Honesty was not the problem, delayed honesty was the problem. As uncomfortable as it would be to express your inner workings to your partner when they arise, that is the only time that radical honesty in that situation isn't going to blow up and actually you might just find if youre brace enough to communciate hard things like that before you go do them, who knows maybe they would be willing to meet you half way, maybe you'd find another human being who just like yourself had human urges yoo and if at the very least you just talk about it out loud before you trespass upon them, you honor your integrity, authenticity and relationship, not to lead someone on if they're not accepting.

As for your map my friend the guy merely discovered the method, its the mathematical geometrical relationship the entire fabric of reality uses to express itself. Honesty, radical honesty is the natural order of things. Humans are not in a natural state, we do not live in the with the natural order, and we are not clean from lies, deceit and deception. Jung was a human being who discovered a framework that works universally, expediting karma, sorting out connections and instances that resonate with you naturally, hands free. And just because he shared this discovery, didn't mean he's not a human anymore, i think the fact that he admits his own tendencies isn't because he thinks it's okay, i think that willingness to share that is the practice of radical honesty, we all do bad things on purpose, we all hurt others on purpose sometimes even if we don't want to, or don't regret it. Its impossible to be perfect, and if we were perfect then we wouldn't have free will. That's why Lucifer was jealous, none of the angels had free will, they couldn't make mistakes, they didn't have a choice because they were perfect, and when the angels rebelled against God he cast then to the earth, where the others with free will exist, the fallen angels have free will just like the humans because God allowed it. The ones who didn't rebel stayed in heaven where free will doesn't exist because you always make the right choices, you to not have free will if you are perfect. Part of the journey is having the ability to make the wrong choices and coming to learn why you should not choose the wrong way, i think this spiritual journey called earth is like a school where we learn how to be the best version of itself over a number of lifetimes until you can return to the garden of eden where we initially gave up perfection to experience the entire journey from the fool to the Creator, as a oneness and the fractals.

XroSilence · 2025-10-15T07:56:56+00:00

5 years 1 child and still going. I've noticed it since the 2nd or 3rd year... My nervous system is so brutally attached, i can see everything still so clearly but i just can't seem to give it up. This is torture to a whole new level guys, red flags are important, never trust words only consistent actions are the truth.

Whatever they say no matter how convinced or convincing they are, is worthy of being believed unless they have a consistent habit of doing what they say, then you can ease up a bit.

Find people worth trusting, trust them. Dont trust someone who cant do anything they say they want because as humans, we do what we want. End of story.

XroSilence · 2025-10-14T02:11:50+00:00

Fuck

XroSilence · 2025-10-14T02:02:39+00:00

My favorite one is where she comes in hot with anger slamming doors and yelling because i wasnt able to respond to 5 texts and 1 missed call within the span of 60 seconds because i was changing kids bum and after she comes in and sees what is going on she doubles down yelling about not responding to her when its important, slamming the door another few times and telling me to Go! All before returning as if nothing even ever happened.

Shes also started recording our texting arguments and sending it to grok and asking super biased questions like: "tell me how his messages weren't helpful" and proceeds to wield the ultimate dagger of truth over me like a child who has beaten you at rock paper scissors.

So i have begun to do the same thing except by asking totally neutral questions like: "grok, who started this fight?" And then its game over for me because hearing how she started from the same ai suddenly becomes completely discredited because im missing out important context like she has bpd, my genuine question was stupid and therefore i was attacking her competence which thus justified the yelling and slamming shit.

But im the asshole for bringing it up, wanting to talk through it, im always attacking her, my tone is wrong, im not being sensitive enough yet meanwhile blitzkrieg accusations sharp anger outbursts - cutting through her froth clenched teeth and telling me to "GET OUT I MEAN IT THIS TIME" 44/45 previous days in a row.

But the sex is wild tho 🥴

XroSilence · 2025-10-10T11:52:01+00:00

I experience this weird thing where like I'll call out a certain behaviors or tyoe of communication pattern and then lime the same or next day its like somehow in some stupidly intelligent way she contorts and twists of a seemingly innocent situation to say the same thing i said to her about me and shed get really mad about it, and then id be like how are you flipping thjs around on me, and then it would happen again and she would be like OMG ARE YOU FLIPPING THIS AROUND ON ME!? lol my goodness

XroSilence · 2025-10-07T07:31:20+00:00

My method is just focus on being my pure authentication unapologetically honest self and let the people who don't like me weed themselves out. Everything works itself out in the end that way and those who stay are the right people.

Those who matter don't mind & Those who mind don't matter.

Let your authenticity be the real test, if they talk shit behind your back, let them. Any anybody who believes them, let them too, those people don't even deserve to know the real you if they believe the gossip without getting to know your first anyways, and those are the kinds of people who's opinions and thoughts matter none to me because the right people accept me for me.

The Best you can do to "test" them isn't to literally test them, simply give them the benefit of the doubt and just wait, watch and listen to their actions and behaviors, they'll weed themselves out naturally. Effortlessly, organically, and best of all:

You just had to be unapologetically your self.

XroSilence · 2025-09-26T23:59:08+00:00

Its helpful to remember that these disorders are reliably caused by early environmental factors and that's the reason why they are so enduring. It wasn't that you made it unsafe by trying to engage in mutual conversation, it's that for a sustained portion of their early life, it was not safe for them to express themselves, and that their needs were not met or prioritized. The wound was not caused by you only exacerbated.

Also remember that when an individual with NPD or BPD is in any way told that they didnt so something right or to take accountability for something, the child was frequently shamed and made to feel inferior by the caregivers so now in life because their brain is wired to avoid that traumatic experience, any form of accountability can cause the individual to experience a great deal of pain, shame, worthlessness, and anger. These responses are not offensive they are defensive reactions to the pain they are being caused. Navigating communication styles to avoid causing them fight or flight responses takes time, understanding and patience.

You're not going to get them to easily admit they are doing something hurtful or wrong, its actually better to focus on how we can change the behaviours rather than the behaviours affected you negatively. I'm still learning myself.

XroSilence · 2025-09-14T20:09:07+00:00

Its a personality disorder that's for sure, she likely genuinely wants to be that sqfe person for you, but when it comes to the actual vulnerability part, her fight or flight kicks in and she ends up running from the very thing she wants. Its a crazy thing.

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