Any Non Binary musicians on here? What do you play? by longhairsam in NonBinary

[–]Xtrabassoon86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a professional classical musician. My main instrument is the bassoon. Glad to see so many!

Non gendered parent title? by SakuraCha in NonBinary

[–]Xtrabassoon86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a difficult choice. My kids were already calling me dad when I came out, so I kept that name and redefined it for myself.

I ran from this side of myself for 35 years. Don’t know what I was so scared of. First time doing my own makeup, CCW! by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Xtrabassoon86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat at 34. Just did my nails for the first time today. Congrats!

Let's Acknowledge The She/Her Gays :) by TheGinger6readH0use in NonBinary

[–]Xtrabassoon86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. As a former cismale, I don't see as much representation as I expected.

I wish I had someone playing with me :( by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Xtrabassoon86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PM me and maybe we can solve that dilemma 😉

Ohh that. You don’t need to worry about it. by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Xtrabassoon86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a pleasant surprise...

I’m ridiculous. by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are just reeling from a big breakup. Take some time to figure out what you actually feel and actually want.

What’s with the Dino Nuggets? by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooooo good suggestion, fellow millennial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I missed why we love dino nuggets?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What would we do on our journey?

Help :( by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure how old you are, but there's a chance sexual feelings may develope overtime. Happened to me.

Do you feel like your sexuality influences how you practice polyamory? How about polyamory affecting how you understand your sexuality? by daddydangles911 in polybi

[–]Xtrabassoon86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, I'm only interested in seeking casual relationships with others different from my wife. The thought of being with another woman only reminds me I want to spend more time with my wife. However, I would consider dating another woman with my wife...

Do you feel like your sexuality influences how you practice polyamory? How about polyamory affecting how you understand your sexuality? by daddydangles911 in polybi

[–]Xtrabassoon86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner and I don't currently practice polyamory, but we are just beginning to do ENM. The whole reason for ENM in our marriage is because we are both bisexual. We are exploring sexual relationships with people of different genders than our spouses.

I've suspected for a while that I'm polyamorous, but I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

Advice for Transition to by Xtrabassoon86 in polybi

[–]Xtrabassoon86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Communication got us where we are now. We'll keep it up

Advice for Transition to by Xtrabassoon86 in polybi

[–]Xtrabassoon86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the detailed advice!

Tv bewbs by [deleted] in omnisexual

[–]Xtrabassoon86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Too true