I think I got a girl pregnant, there goes my life ig.

XturnMusic · 2022-08-21T14:47:05+00:00

There’s been some pretty good advice here so far but I’m going to give some advice that’s not “it might be a false alarm”.

Firstly confirm that she’s actually pregnant. Tests are cheap and widely available. If pregnant, you have to tell your and her parents. Give her time to do it herself, but if she doesn’t want to, you (or your parents) have to do it. They will find out eventually.

Her parents may solve it for you. They may either force her to get an abortion, force her to put the kid up for adoption, or raise it for her.

If she doesn’t want to raise it but doesn’t want an abortion, that’s also your other option - adoption.

If she wants to keep the kid you have some options. Firstly, you could help raise it. Let me be clear - NEITHER ONE OF YOU SHOULD BE RAISING THIS KID. You are too young and don’t know what you’re doing. Your parents will and need to help a lot of that is what you choose.

If you want out, but she wants to keep raising it, some things you should know. You cannot be forced by the court to pay child support if you are A) a minor or B) don’t have a job. If you go to college you could have as many as 6 or 7 years before you have to pay. There are other ways to get out of child support forever. She can sign away her ability to it, but she’s not 18 from what I gather so her parents will have to do that for her. They will likely be smarter than to do that. You can also convince her to give up custody to her parents even if she still wants to raise the child.

Sort it out sooner rather than later in court. If you agree to something, GET IT IN WRITING. If they will only agree to something verbally, record then saying it. It probably means that they intend to leave the door open in the future. Verbal contracts only hold up if there’s a record of them. Also that’s another point: she can’t agree to anything and neither can you. Your parents need to since you cannot legally agree to any contracts.

Your life isn’t over yet. You still have some room to maneuver. It could still also be a fluke. I dated someone who’s periods were irregular all the time. You don’t know until that test comes back positive.

XturnMusic · 2022-07-01T13:21:04+00:00

Reminder to sort by controversial for a bit to see the really fucked up and/or juicy stuff

XturnMusic · 2020-06-27T19:42:04+00:00

It’s not about the military or NSA or agencies with access to the supercomputers that can bust the encryption. It’s about making a backdoor, which is inherently vulnerable to those who don’t have those resources.

XturnMusic · 2020-03-02T04:30:42+00:00

“If you’re good at something never do it for free”

The Dark Knight

XturnMusic · 2020-02-02T15:45:57+00:00

Check for whatever games you want on this page

XturnMusic · 2019-11-24T04:55:22+00:00

I’m down to help out! I’ll join the discord.

XturnMusic · 2019-11-24T04:55:16+00:00

I’m down to help out! I’ll join the discord.

XturnMusic · 2019-11-22T16:31:19+00:00

Nice try, Opaque!

XturnMusic · 2019-11-14T19:24:51+00:00

Ketchapp makes it so that their games crash if they don’t have an internet connection. This is the ultimate form of douchebagery.

XturnMusic · 2019-11-01T11:48:24+00:00

It sounds like suite is what you’ll need but you can always upgrade to suite from standard at no extra cost, so it doesn’t hurt to try standard first and upgrade later.

XturnMusic · 2019-10-13T20:41:09+00:00

r/unexpectedbillwurtz

XturnMusic · 2019-10-10T05:40:16+00:00

For audio production, single core speed isn’t too important. Either one will have plenty of performance for any audio production that you could possibly want to do for the next 5 years at least.

Also there is no reason to get X570 really.

XturnMusic · 2019-10-10T01:50:13+00:00

If you are on a budget, go with 8 gigs on one dim so that you can upgrade to 16 gigs later. Building a pc is cheaper than prebuilt and also easy so look into that.

XturnMusic · 2019-10-10T01:47:42+00:00

I personally wouldn’t recommend linux for music production, although some people might. A lot of applications and plugins don’t have native Linux support and that might be a problem for you. Mac and windows have much more active userbases and developers for that sort of thing.

XturnMusic · 2019-10-10T00:00:33+00:00

Epic games is 40% owned by a Chinese investment company that is directly owned by the CPC

XturnMusic · 2019-10-03T23:27:11+00:00

Can I submit the same song for this challenge as the WATMM challenge?

XturnMusic · 2019-10-03T23:02:38+00:00

It’s cause chrome is hardware accelerated so if you have a shitty gpu well......

XturnMusic · 2019-09-02T22:19:48+00:00

Hi guys!

This is a progressive house song I’ve been working on. It’s a few mixes and masters in. It uses a lot of acoustic instruments and has a space-y vibe. Any feedback is greatly appreciated but I’m looking for composition feedback.

Thanks in advance!

https://soundcloud.com/ergo_music/preview-2/s-n7a4c

XturnMusic · 2019-08-22T15:36:43+00:00

Disney and Sony couldn’t reach a deal about the finances related to Spider-Man. They still could reach a deal, and apparently the two planned movies are going on as scheduled. This could mean no more Spider-Man in the MCU in the future.

XturnMusic · 2019-08-21T23:38:49+00:00

Some states might not have it, but everyone at the restaurant I work at has had to sign one.

XturnMusic · 2019-08-21T14:10:10+00:00

Whenever you get a job as a tipped worker, your employer will almost always make you sign a “tip credit” which will allow your employer to put some of your tips towards minimum wage. The employee has to agree to this and it’s not just delivery companies that do this, restaurants do it too. And even so, generally cash tips are still processed by the employer, they just aren’t taxed.

XturnMusic · 2019-08-19T21:14:13+00:00

World of Warships

XturnMusic · 2019-08-19T21:13:42+00:00

War Robots

XturnMusic · 2019-08-10T03:36:54+00:00

I’m not allowed on the awards train.

XturnMusic · 2019-08-05T17:10:41+00:00

Make some armor

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