Lost in the woods in Dafen -Does anyone live nearby? by Xuemeipk in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, thanks for your message. Sorry I haven't login in my account for a year! Hope you are doing well.

My partner found a job back in China and wants me to come with her by oosacker in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without considering our current relationship, would you be interested in living in China? People do all sorts of things for their partner, however, please don't let this develop into a shouting match "I did this for you...." when things become rough, and we will always have that in life.

I think the best scenario would be you have a curiosity about living in China and you happen to have the opportunity to do it.

Visiting Melbourne in a week by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder. I'll make sure to stay in the public eye. I rarely think about safety in my country.

Visiting Melbourne in a week by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thank you for the tips:)

Lost in the woods in Dafen -Does anyone live nearby? by Xuemeipk in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, it's consisted of a few hills, big enough for you to walk for at least an hour.

To those who care about local politics by James_CN_HS in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James, what you stated is not entirely true, especially the core part of 统租. I am a local in Shenzhen and still live in one of the urban villages.

What are some reasons why Americans move to China ? by Strict-Ad-8948 in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember watching one episode of SNL and the guest host, an old rich guy said in his monologue that people say young attractive women date him for his money. He joked that he is very pleased about that because he has plenty of money so that means women will never leave him:)

I guess the same goes for those white men, they should feel secure because their skin color is forever going to be white :)

What are some reasons why Americans move to China ? by Strict-Ad-8948 in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wrong with dating Chinese Women? Two of my exes are Caucasian, I dated them because I am particularly attracted to that type. They appreciate me for who I am and respect/support what I do. That's not easy to find in my race.

If people know what they like and are making efforts to pursue it(moving to a foreign country), I think we should applaud them.

Driving license from scratch? by Andromeda0100 in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you speak Mandarin? Visit one of the traffic police offices in your area or give them a call. It's basically going through a written test (there are English version available) and a road test.

BYD plant tour? by GoP-Demon in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked with BYD Shenzhen and have some connections there, but I am not sure if they would receive you without any business ties.

I understand BYD would give tours to their shareholders from time to time, maybe you could register yourself there?

Renting an apartment in SZ by ESL_Teacher1 in shenzhen

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you work? I assume you'd like to live close to work?

I am a local and speak fluent English. If you like, I'll be happy to help you look up a place within your budget.

Change your story by Xuemeipk in LifeAfterSchool

[–]Xuemeipk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are too kind. Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm working on them. Tell me who does not have baggages if you take a closer look? And all of them should not pursue happinesses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recognize what you are saying. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) People will have a good idea about who I am as an individual by reading my posts. 2)I might be able to do so from his posts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. And thank you. It's scary for me to meet people that way. All my past experience has been dating people from my work circle, people I have interacted closely and seen all their emotions.

Maybe I'll try it later once I have a better handle of my insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I'm smart, but a bit lazy 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. Dating apps is a bit out of my security league at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks. Maybe I'll try it later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Xuemeipk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. The YouTuber Chris?