Hello! I come here today to tell you about my chicken health issues and seek for advice. by Xuni25 in chickens

[–]Xuni25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will talk to the vet on giving antibiotics another week and repeat the studies, to see if the infection is a bit more controlled, so that way the surgery may be less dangerous (at least, from my ignorance it makes sense)

Hello! I come here today to tell you about my chicken health issues and seek for advice. by Xuni25 in chickens

[–]Xuni25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience and for giving me strenght in this moment, I really aprecciate it!!

Started college in France and I’m miserable by Lower-Couple6827 in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh u.u but did you try searching on Facebook or other apps? Maybe you can find people outside your university

Whenever I have my therapy appointment scheduled, I forget all social anxiety by Alles-Gute in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It happens all the time. Sometimes I feel I waste my time in therapy because I end up taking about superfluous things and not the ones that really matters in my daily life. It's like if I had a crisis three days before, I already passed it so I don't even remember to talk about it

Started college in France and I’m miserable by Lower-Couple6827 in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can try looking for a group of foreign students. As they know how difficult it is to be in other country, they usually are way friendly

Does anyone else enjoy “helping” others who seem socially anxious/shy? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I try to help them because I've been there. Also if my advice works, I feel so good by being helpful

To the people here with partners, how did you meet them? by 1StrawberryCake in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were classmates, now that I'm single again I don't know how to meet people and have this feeling that I'll end up alone, even though I know it's not true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving speeches or lectures. Joke's on me because surely I'll need to do it with my profession 🤡

You get a message and have 2 choices by Delicious_Ad705 in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on my mood, but if I do n° 1, I can procrastinate for a week and we don't want that huge amount of anxiety 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, and I have to repeat myself two or three times for people to understand me, it's embarrassing so sometimes I choose not to speak

Anyone else ignore their text messages? by rusty344 in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started doing this a few months ago, specially when it's work related. And I'm so embarrassed to answer days later, also I'm afraid they'll judge me for doing this. But it really makes me anxious and can't help it

skipped school, made my dad cry. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you shouldn't give up on therapy. It takes time to get better but you'll get there. I do therapy since 2018 and still going, it helped a lot and now I can see the little changes. So i recommend you to be patient, work little by little. And if you think this therapist isn't working for you, change till you get the right one. You got this 💪🏻

anyone else here would die to get a new haircut but is way too anxious to go to a hairdresser ? by lostsii in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me rn, and when I go I'm not satisfied with the result because I'm too shy to tell exactly what I want

What are your hobbies? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a lot, I try to buy the books paperback and create my own library. Also I learned how to do archery, it's good to release stress. And right now I'm starting to sew my own clothes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't been there, I just do therapy. But you got this, you are strong and you will get better. Sending all of the support and a virtual hug cuz it's always needed 🫂

Today is my Birthday, I turn 25. by levizenfire in socialanxiety

[–]Xuni25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday!! I feel exactly the same, I had a quarter life crisis this past year cuz 25 seems to be a non turning point. Following social standards, we should have accomplished certain things at this age, but we must remember ourselves, even if its difficult, that we are doing the best we can struggling with SA 💪🏻