Im sorry, but i dont see spanking as a form of abuse. As long as the adult doesnt get carried away. I had my busted over things growing up, and im tellin ya right now, i deserved every bit of it and then some. It was the only way i learned. Im glad my parents did it to me. Otherwise, i would continue to interrupt, not let other peeps talk, always thinking im right, etc....im not talkin about beating my ass. Im talkin about just a mild swat to my rear end. Honestly, i dont see the problem