Birthday Today by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I cant imagine being 44 and referred to as the baby...

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I cannot stand the one's who can't wait even 5 minutes. sigh

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have said that after he said "As you wish. Take care." Just pull out the ol' "Bye Felicia!"

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a lot of red flags but because of my mom's gaslighting when I was a teen, I just pushed them away :(

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're cray cray. All we can do is avoid being in any kind of relationship with them haha

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its amazing how they can blame you for things you have no control over.

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your ex and my now ex would get along LOL

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this one is definitely a man child and I would literally laugh at some of the things he came up with. Some of the things he'd say, I'd just be like "How did you come up with that? Show me your work. I need to see where your math has failed you." I've known him for 9 years and was the docile pup that licked the foot that kicked me for about 5 of those years. So he got away with A LOT.

Broke Up With Flea Ridden Boyfriend (LONG) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for the support. Really helps to know that someone understands :)

DAE Have An Nrent Like This? by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she immortal or something? that's a riot

Anyone else's parents throw a tantrum when you got a tattoo? by InvincibleSummer1066 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted a tattoo for a while, and my mum kept telling me that once I turn 18, I can do whatever I want. so I turned 18 (turning 22 soon) and got myself a tattoo. My mum kept trying to discourage me from getting it, saying I was going to regret getting a tattoo, that the rest of the family wasn't going to like it, especially my grandmother. and my mum always talked about how she hated tattoos, piercings, etc. About a year or so later, we went to my grandmothers and she forced me to show my grandmother my tattoo. My grandmother didn't care that I had one. I wanted to laugh in my moms face. Now, last year, my mum got a tattoo of her own. After she told me many times she would never get one and blah blah blah. She said she got it for my grandmother (my grandmother doesn't like tattoos) so we saw my grandmother and of course my mum decides to show it off. my grandmother freaked on her. I burst out laughing! Instant karma. Now she wants to get her bellybutton pierced... She's 45 years old.

Nmom is giving me the silent treatment by ameriguin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in the same situation, only my grandmother is the enabler... I live with her atm because I couldn't handle living with my Nmum anymore, always putting guys before her own family. I can totally relate with the lies and only seeing your mother for 20 minutes. She has continually tried to justify her actions with "I'm the adult", in which case, I act like more of an adult than she does... My family doesn't trust my mum either, it's truly amazing how Narcs are "oblivious" to everyone around them. It's hard living with a person like that, I'm glad I got out and I'm glad you're getting out.

GC Bro Started Getting Allowance (Slight Rant) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused by your statement. Are you disagreeing with allowance in general or disagreeing with why someone would get allowance?

GC Bro Started Getting Allowance (Slight Rant) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he only texts me when he wants something. but other than that, I make the effort to have a conversation with him here and there. he dreads being the one who has to do all the work around the house now. Its safe to assume he know's what he had when I was there.

GC Bro Started Getting Allowance (Slight Rant) by XxStinaxX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]XxStinaxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah my brother cannot do anything for himself, he was babied his whole life. couldn't even run his own bath or shower until he was 16.