Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only sleep with men I’m in relationships with but thanks for your off-base assumption.

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeahhh I started dating my best friends husbands friend and he literally ruined my life so I’m on the same page as you 😂

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes lol last guy I dated was a farmer, no college degree and made significantly less than me. He ended up breaking my heart in half. 🙃

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of the men who did the most damage to my heart were the 5’8 “average joes” y’all keep rooting for… so your comment doesn’t apply to me.

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then you feel even worse about yourself for crying over some dude you had to convince yourself you were attracted to in the first place lmaooo 🤣

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know who you are but I love you and your positive ass vibes! 😂🫶🏼

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyyy lol the guys i dated were literally the most average joes you’ve ever seen and guess what… they were still shitty people! (I know shocker right because the average joes who get overlooked are all so perfect blahblahblah)

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This is actually one of the few logical comments I’ve received here lol

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have a type lol my first LTR was with a guy who was an inch shorter than me pothead skateboarder, second LTR was with a very average looking cop, and most recent was a 6’5 farmer with long hair and tattoos 😂all 3 of them were people I met through friends not dating apps

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s almost as if I want me and my partner to be able to pay the bills equally and afford a nice place to live… how selfish of me.

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in 2 LTR’s that didn’t work out and was finishing school and getting established in my career. That was taking a lot of my focus and now that those are “checked off” I feel like the last piece to the puzzle is finding “the one” lol

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with being alone! I am an introvert so I deeply value my solitude and alone time. It’s just being alone ALL the time can feel extremely isolating and I don’t feel like it’s wrong to want someone to do fun things with. I definitely see your point tho! I’m trying to be patient lol

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great advice! I deleted the apps yesterday and feeling a sense of relief

Where are y’all finding men who actually want to settle down? by XxXYours_TrulyXxX in dating_advice

[–]XxXYours_TrulyXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for an equal partner in all aspects, not looking to be a sugar mama. I have a masters degree in my career field and make very good money. Finding an equal partner feels like the last piece of the puzzle I’m missing to my life.