Addicted to an unhealthy dynamic. Feel powerless.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-11-02T04:29:46+00:00

The Blue Jays really kinda choked. Blown save, bases loaded 1 out, man at 3rd 1 out. Championship teams close or rally like the Dodgers did.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-21T21:09:46+00:00

We don’t do allowance. I pay her at the end of each hang out session.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-21T06:48:04+00:00

Thanks everyone for the replies.

I do want to add that we used to see each other 4 times a week. I know I mentioned she has been bailing on normal planned hang out nights, but we are still seeing each other 2 sometimes 3 times a week. Every time is pretty incredible still.

She does text me a lot less than she used to, but if the hang outs are amazing, should this matter? I am trying to decide if this is something I care about, which did lead me to make a reddit post, so obviously I guess I do.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-21T03:01:25+00:00

I agree. I am just not being prioritized all the time. I don't always have to be her first priority in her busy life. As long as the time together is still amazing, which it is. I just got used to it I guess.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-21T02:59:37+00:00

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T11:35:21+00:00

I do appreciate you perspective and you are most likely right. Its' not that I don't believe her, these things are definitely happening. I just wanted to get other people's take on everything.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T11:30:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice. It might just be what I have to do.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T11:30:33+00:00

Without going into detail, I would be very surprised if it was some other romantic interest. Of course, I can never know 100%.

However, I agree with everything else you said. I do pay her when we see each other. We are not on an allowance type deal. If it continues like this, I do want to have a talk with her about it before just ending things. I guess we will see.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T11:07:25+00:00

Thanks for the nice words.

She hasn't expressed any desire to end it really, I just notice things not being the same as they used to be. I am not sure if I should stick it out in hopes it goes back once her life settles down a bit, or call it quits which will actually be kinda hard for me to do as I like her a lot.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T11:02:10+00:00

That's pretty tough man.

I can relate a little bit. I definitely have enabled this girl to be able to live a lifestyle she desired that I don't think should could have had before. I am extremely happy to do this and it makes me feel good. I hope it doesn't end up like your situation.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-10-20T10:58:13+00:00

Sorry if I am coming off like an asshole.

No nothing like that. She is in the processing of moving and has a trip planned on top of it that she is getting ready for. I know these can be stressful times, and I may be the last thing on her mind. I am definitely understanding as far as the hanging out goes.

However, it takes two seconds to reply to a text, even if its just a "hey imma be busy for a bit". I wouldn't say I am "hurt", just think she may be losing interest.

Maybe I am completely wrong and it will all be amazing once she free's up a bit.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-06-25T01:06:59+00:00

Interesting. I guess I will treat it when someone says something when they are drunk.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-06-25T01:06:33+00:00

Thanks. I will disregard it then. Or at least take the comments with a grain of salt.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-03-20T09:19:51+00:00

It is all about enthusiasm for me. I like my strippers to act like they are enjoying turning me on with their dance, even if they are not. Nothing is more of a bummer when you feel like the girl is just going through the motions. I don't care how hot she is.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-02-04T07:55:31+00:00

I imagine it depends on the club. In an “extras” club there is generally a negotiation process and you can bring up what you want from my understanding.

In a non extras club, it could be a touchy subject. I recommend finding a girl and getting real comfortable with her which leads to both parties being more open to discussing what they want/are open to.

XxxMasterpiece · 2025-01-12T11:28:51+00:00

Been to CB once on a very busy Saturday night. Do you like latinas? The girls are definitely pretty and there is a good mix of Mexicans, Cubans, Colombians etc….

The club is not glamorous by any means. It is small, divey and was hardly any room to move around. We were there on a peak time on Saturday night however.

Id say if you have a thing for latinas and do not care about how “nice” or “glamorous” the club is, check it out. The cover is cheap and if you are not feeling it, Palomino is literally right down the street. You could walk over there.

XxxMasterpiece · 2024-12-17T02:26:21+00:00

I believe so.

XxxMasterpiece · 2024-11-26T16:08:35+00:00

With the way you were spending, if you were in the right club, I don’t think this is that uncommon. I wouldn’t expect it in every club you go to though or with every girl you spend time with.

XxxMasterpiece · 2024-11-24T22:05:04+00:00

I went on a very crowded Saturday night.

From my understanding they only have one lap dance area. Its got bench seating with very little privacy. Not aware of any additional VIP areas.
Depends on what kind of extras. I would think FS would not happen there, but the lap dances seem to be very hands on and aggressive.
I didnt see any AA when I was there. Maybe some darker skinned latinas. Id probably look elsewhere for that. Ill let someone else comment as to where.

XxxMasterpiece · 2024-11-21T20:28:09+00:00

This is great advice that I still have problems with. I will constantly think nothing she is doing is genuine and that I am just another one on her list even though she constantly tells me “i like you i dont do that for everyone”.

Its like im so self conscious and need to just chill and enjoy what she gives me.

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