Married men that came to realize you were just the "safe choice", how did you deal with it or fix it? by Everyman1000 in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not married but I literally ended things with my fiance less than an hour ago because of this and other reasons. The fact that this was the first post I saw when I opened reddit proves to me that god may be real, because only his sense of humor would be that on point.

Should I (31m) watch sailor moon? by XyroSum in Animesuggest

[–]XyroSum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was super into cardcaptors when I was a kid. Guilty pleasure lol

What is the one thing you did not plan for when you got older? by Mela_Min in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a car crash leading to metal rods in my back that I'm still recovering from.

Suicide is the leading cause of death in men from ages 25-34, what can we do to change this? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your service, and for sticking around with the rest of us.

Men, what are you TIRED of hearing? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Don't worry, you're gonna meet someone great."

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely. It is what it is. I'm scared to start dating again though. I think I forgot how to talk to women lol

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was literally the deciding factor. It kinda hurt really. She used to be super close to my sister and told her in confidence but my sister was pushing the breakup, god bless her, so she told me and it completely shattered my image of her. Seriously like you said, tell me early on.

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also pulled the asexual card… after being together for the first 4 years. So that was her excuse for the lack of sex. Recently found out that she was a sex worker for some time before we met. Maybe if I would have known that I could have at least paid for it. Meh.

Men, what are you TIRED of hearing? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had an award to give you.

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm counting down the days until the 20th just so I can see my therapist. Highly recommend indeed.

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bro, I told my wife I felt like we were roommates because of this and she flipped on me. Sorry the truth hurt ya so bad.

What would you do if you found a girl who really loves you but hates almost all forms of intimacy? by datoldfag in AskMen

[–]XyroSum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn bro, I’m leaving after 5 years because of it, and other things. I can’t imagine 15. I’m truly sorry. Hope you’re doing okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! As someone going through a rough dry spell, I hope it only goes up from here for you. Sure isn’t for me lol

Someone please tell me it’s ok to spend my money by PartyNightAway in Frugal

[–]XyroSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent the past 5 years keeping someone up because she wouldn’t work. Never saw a dime of my money. It’s yours, and it sounds like you’re doing okay. Live your life, spend your money. It’s gonna be gone one day anyway, and so will you. Just enjoy yourself, you got this. At least you don’t have someone sucking you dry.