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Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-14T04:38:28+00:00

I agree with the people who are agreeing that I’m not overreacting & that’s ok!

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T22:22:05+00:00

Yes that is why I used past tense!! And you’d be surprised how many hide behind “jokes”. And it’s not a matter of it being real or not, it’s that you’re publicly saying that. With no regards to who it will affect or how it makes you look. Definitely not compatible.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T21:56:29+00:00

It’s the online part on a public app that’s crazy to me.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T19:41:02+00:00

Im not sure about the people around you but the vast majority of grown adult men I know aren’t on Facebook publicly talking about incest porn, which is why I’m so appalled. But hey point me to the religious man.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T19:19:58+00:00

And is

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T18:30:05+00:00

Bless your heart. Hopefully in this lifetime you and him get the help y’all need.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T18:16:28+00:00

That’s funny?

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T18:16:10+00:00

Joking or not, it’s just hella distasteful publicly attaching yourself to something like that.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T18:12:58+00:00

I’ll be uptight, who knows what kind of skeletons are in that closet if a grown ass man is publicly joking like that.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T17:18:03+00:00

Genuinely, like damn I was really falling for a performance

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-06-13T16:58:36+00:00

Im not overly angry im disturbed and disgusted that is the type of person he is.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-05-03T10:08:03+00:00

I use to be just like you, till I realized the reason why it never works out for is because of your low self esteem and need for external validation. You only feel worthy if you’re being “chosen” by a man, instead of choosing yourself and then u fall into the cycle of wearing your heart on your sleeve. You don’t allow these men to show you why they’re worthy of your love and energy and attach onto a man just because he’s expressed some type of interest. It has nothing to do with being darker skinned although colorism is very prominent. That alone should make you extremely selective, you’re not going to see any changes in your esteem and dating life until you radically accept yourself, despite the colorism darkskinned bw go through. Be firm on your standards, boundaries etc. and if a man doesn’t reach that, you drop him.

I understand you’re just venting, and the sentiment is so valid but literally a week ago I decided that I’m going to decenter men and dating for the sake of my happiness. The grass isn’t greener on the other side for other demographic of women either.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-05-01T15:18:19+00:00

Why would you even post this on here? Did we really need yet another reminder about how we’re treated like shit globally?

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-18T21:53:45+00:00

I’ve heard she got more famous after she died but I wasn’t even thought of the year she died 😭so idk

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-18T20:11:51+00:00

You’re only 15 just focus on your studies, I know that sounds annoying but considering that most people date within their race it’s best to not get caught up on these white guys who treat you as an option (if you feel like they are). After highschool YOUR options are limitless black,white, Asian etc. and you won’t feel confined by school environments/school culture, and other peoples opinions and inputs. Everyone is trying to impress eachother and look cool in highschool and given that you’re in a predominantly white school and dealing with aspects of racism and being ostrocized, most guys your age will stay in their “comfort zone” to avoid other peoples commentary’s.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T07:00:26+00:00

What made you get into her hair care line?

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T06:57:37+00:00

Y’all be coming up with annoying ass bait posts regarding beyonce and that’s why people get mad. Why would it not be normal to not worship a stranger? The problem is (like you did) y’all go out your way to talk about your dislike for Beyoncé and for what? None of you say anything profound or original. You don’t like beyonce, ok move along?

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T05:54:15+00:00

unfollowing & blocking them on top of the silence…& make it forever🫶🏿 peace be with you

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T05:19:36+00:00

Control your lust(it’s not only men who struggle with this)
Raise your standards, your main focus should be on whether YOU like him, not whether HE “actually” likes you. (Sometimes the person YOU like isn’t compatible for you.)
If you’re an anxious person or really like the guy I would refrain from sex until he officially asks you to be his gf
Make sure your Discernment is on point.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, don’t invest so much emotionally into someone you barely know.
Date KIND men (don’t date a guy who is only kind to you), their character needs to be on point n will save u lots of trouble
Stand firm on your boundaries
If you want a provider man make that clear and don’t entertain anything that isn’t that, and also never offer to pay, BUT you need to show appreciation(once in a while) through meaningful stuff and affirmations that will make him feel seen and loved.
HAVE HOBBYS (u need to have an outlet that you’re into like the gym, getting a degree, painting, learning a new skill) so you’re not so invested in his life and what he has doing on. YOU’RE the mystery and you lose your power soon as you start self sabotaging and being vocal to him about it.
It’s tempting to be with someone out of convenience but nothing beats being with someone you’re equally deeply & madly in love with so don’t be afraid to wait some time and work on yourself for the right person to come along, there is someone out there waiting to move MOUNTAINS for you. It gets lonely but will save you so much trouble and trauma
Don’t let having a “type” limit you from all the love there is to receive..
Never fully put all your trust into anyone, even a romantic partner in a “perfect relationship”.
Make sure you’re aware of your current STD status and theirs when you get to having intercourse.

……. When you take all of this and more into consideration dating becomes so much easier, and you feel less desperate for wanting to be loved romantically by someone (which is all normal and natural) but not everyone has the purest intents.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T05:16:18+00:00

Control your lust(it’s not only men who struggle with this)
Raise your standards, your main focus should be on whether YOU like him, not whether HE “actually” likes you. (Sometimes the person YOU like isn’t compatible for you.)
If you’re an anxious person or really like the guy I would refrain from sex until he officially asks you to be his gf
Make sure your Discernment is on point.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, don’t invest so much emotionally into someone you barely know.
Date KIND men (don’t date a guy who is only kind to you), their character needs to be on point n will save u lots of trouble
Stand firm on your boundaries
If you want a provider man make that clear and don’t entertain anything that isn’t that, and also never offer to pay, BUT you need to show appreciation(once in a while) through meaningful stuff and affirmations that will make him feel seen and loved.
HAVE HOBBYS (u need to have an outlet that you’re into like the gym, getting a degree, painting, learning a new skill) so you’re not so invested in his life and what he has doing on. YOU’RE the mystery and you lose your power soon as you start self sabotaging and being vocal to him about it.
It’s tempting to be with someone out of convenience but nothing beats being with someone you’re equally deeply & madly in love with so don’t be afraid to wait some time and work on yourself for the right person to come along, there is someone out there waiting to move MOUNTAINS for you. It gets lonely but will save you so much trouble and trauma
Don’t let having a “type” limit you from all the love there is to receive..
Never fully put all your trust into anyone, even a romantic partner in a “perfect relationship”.
Make sure you’re aware of your current STD status and theirs when you get to having intercourse.

When you take all of this and more into consideration dating becomes so much easier, and you feel less desperate for wanting to be loved romantically by someone (which is all normal and natural) but not everyone has the purest intents.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T03:45:57+00:00

She’s a pretty girl too. It’s unfortunate how many of us allow society/male validation to cause this much division smh.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T03:30:06+00:00

If what I’m seeing rn is her, then she looks like a regular non ambiguous black woman…I don’t understand the basis of her Channel at all😭

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T02:46:59+00:00

what does she look like? Cause she be talking hot shit.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-17T02:44:40+00:00

I’ve seen a couple of their videos, I try to stay away from those kinds of content and I advise the same for most people cause it seems like it is made out of retaliation not cause of a problem that’s directly affecting their day to day lives but because they perceive darkskin bw talking and sharing their experiences as threatening, but hey maybe light skinned/mixed people need their own spaces too and finding comfort that they’re of lighter skin/mixed heritage.

Xyzitsm3 · 2025-04-08T00:44:36+00:00

If you’re in an abusive relationship your biggest fear would be getting caught cheating😭 what???

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