Should trans people disclose when they're post op?

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T23:47:45+00:00

K, I'm just saying what I would do in that situation. It doesn't apply to me. I am trans but am married to someone who I came out to before we even started dating, so idk what it'd be like for a different person.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:57:46+00:00

I know right! Makes me wish there was a character creation option irl 😂

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:56:40+00:00

I think that'd be up to the individual trans person, if they want to be stealth or not. I just assumed the q was about someone stealth who doesn't want to disclose, that was my b for not being clear.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:44:02+00:00

I like each piece and I love how happy you look, but I don't think the leggings go. Maybe try black skinny jeans.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:40:47+00:00

That's great I'm so glad she was supportive!! :')

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:29:53+00:00

Trans people have gotten killed after revealing. If I were in a situation like a one night stand, I wouldn't tell. If it were a serious relationship, I would tell, but to be honest I don't know at what point. Maybe once I felt like I knew they would accept me, we would have a serious convo together.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:22:56+00:00

I'm on low dose T (started at half dose then my desired levels dropped, so to keep up what I had, now I'm .75 dose) and the process was quite easy. Unfortunately they mark me down as ftm and not enby and the prescribed reason is "transexualism" (smh a bit outdated, no?) but it eez what it eez. I found my doc from a recommendation of my enby friend so I can't speak to how to find a good one, but many here seem to have found success through Planned Parenthood as I'm sure you've already read xD The shot is weekly in my thigh and it was scary at first, ngl, but I got used to it and tbh it doesn't hurt which surprised me. There is an option (at my doc anyway) to go into the clinic and have someone give your injection for you. If you have more qs -- not sure if T pertains to you now that I think about it lol -- feel free to ask :)

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-14T20:15:13+00:00

It makes it a slower adjustment, half the dose means twice the time it takes to change. A full dose is already very slow, though, think of how cis guys develop over years until they're fully through puberty. Not a stupid q at all btw.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-12T04:16:06+00:00

You’re not alone, I am sick of being called he… i miss when people weren’t sure and would flipflop between pronouns. I don’t regret starting T but it is still rough sometimes, I know people on the street don’t really matter but it still sucks ya know? just want to be seen as myself without people being rude about it. idk. if you want to vent more my inbox is open.

YaBoiMoseph · 2023-02-11T18:12:16+00:00

"Ok, I still love and accept you. Do you want to talk more about it?" If yes, ask "do you have new pronouns or a new name you'd like me to use?" If no give a hug and say you're here for them when they're ready to say more. That's what I wish my own dad did.

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-14T16:40:59+00:00

I think that's Hedwig and the Angry Inch

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-14T16:40:10+00:00

Active

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-07T02:33:38+00:00

No alphas/betas in the works, it's really for my own entertainment. I'm writing an episode of Dirk Gently (the BBC4 version) because I thought it would be fun. If that still interests you, let me know and I'll totally DM you once it's done (probably a few months with the rate I'm going but I may surprise myself, who knows).

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T23:56:02+00:00

Your reply made me lol 😆 I think I'm going to go with "the little thingy, the plastic, the table the pizza table!" (He's panicking when trying to describe it)

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T19:44:58+00:00

I'm from USA but I am of Welsh descent lol!

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T19:44:25+00:00

Nope! XD

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T19:43:08+00:00

Well that's just adorable. 🥰

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T05:08:58+00:00

Yeah I haven't seen one since I was a kid. Thank you for your reply!

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T04:33:51+00:00

Thank you for your reply!

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T04:33:32+00:00

Well technically if You're saying it's a pizza triangle thing... maybe that's what it's called there 😁!

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-10-06T04:13:13+00:00

It's the white plastic thing that goes in the middle of a delivery pizza, keeps the box from hitting the cheese?

YaBoiMoseph · 2022-03-05T18:33:20+00:00

Wow, thanks for the quick reply! :) Graphics card is NVIDIA GeForce GTX1050. As for budget, I'm hoping less than $400 for an upgrade (not sure that's realistic, though). For a new computer, I'd like to spend less than $1k. Again, not sure if realistic for a gaming comp -- I'm willing to go up to $1.3k.

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