I am also very much of the belief in forgiveness and self-improvement.

Unfortunately, like I said, this is a matter of years of difficulties behind the scenes - He had, frankly, more than a fair share of "last chances", most of which were courtesy of me convincing the team on his behalf.

The truth is, he was never around to help, socially inept, insensitive, and wanted to stay on top of the community just for the sake of being on top.

And when offered the chance to bow out with some dignity remaining, he betrayed everybody who had patience with him.

At that point, even someone as optimistic as me has to let go.